Feral youth - What are you supposed to do?
Discussion
pete a said:
You're quite right not to have beat the st out of them, they are after all only kids still, grabbing one by the throat and squeezing very hard for a short while whilst giving some animated verbal encouragement for them to all foxtrot Oscar very sharpish would have been my tactic in that situation.
So a couple of the other kids film this "assault" on their mobiles, you could be looking at time for that.It isn't 1960 any more..........unfortunately.
Dude you didn't win, they beat you and your mum and you've done nothing and will do nothing and now you're on the internet telling random strangers how you restrained your killer instinct and for the good of society didn't go all chuck Norris on some kids arse.
I suggest this will happen again, people do this kind of st because they get away with it, they're low lives, but you're doing no one any good by rising above it and you're kidding yourself. Either sort it or get the police involved otherwise you'll spend the rest of your life crossing the road and being a pussy. Sorry to say out but its the truth. Better to fight and lose (and you may very well lose, don't under estimate the average 15 year old kid).
I suggest the new equaliser film and 4 Stella if you need some inspiration.
I suggest this will happen again, people do this kind of st because they get away with it, they're low lives, but you're doing no one any good by rising above it and you're kidding yourself. Either sort it or get the police involved otherwise you'll spend the rest of your life crossing the road and being a pussy. Sorry to say out but its the truth. Better to fight and lose (and you may very well lose, don't under estimate the average 15 year old kid).
I suggest the new equaliser film and 4 Stella if you need some inspiration.
p1stonhead said:
Leafspring said:
This is why I don't go out on foot after 8pm...
Blimey. Where the hell do you live? Perhaps you should move?Lewisham
Strood
Chatham
Rochester
Gravesend
Grain
Gillingham
Not that it's unsafe in Gillingham... just that going for a night out in this town isn't my idea of "fun"
Thankyou4calling said:
Hoofy said:
You're right about the ease at which you could knock someone over if you put your weight behind you but that is still assault if you meant that kind of getting into trouble.
"They were rounding on me officer, one lunged at me and I had no alternative but to push him away and protect my family.My mother and brother felt threatened and they'll say the same"
You'd be fine with that. CPS would bin it.
You're entitled to use reasonable force in defence of your self or family, that is reasonable given circumstance. If someone hits you and is threatening to hit you again it's entirely reasonable to hit them back, prevent them hitting you or even actively engaging them first. The law is pretty clear, don't get suckered into daily mail fear mongering.
I live overlooking a nice park. The downsides of this are some the aholes (of various ages) that make a lotmofmthemselves from time to time. About 7 years ago there was one particular group of teenagers causing trouble and my neighbour confronted them. What he thought was a man around 20 got properly in his face and started pushing him. So my neighbour grabbed him round the neck. Turned out he was 14 and it didn't go well for my neighbour.
FredClogs said:
Dude you didn't win, they beat you and your mum and you've done nothing and will do nothing and now you're on the internet telling random strangers how you restrained your killer instinct and for the good of society didn't go all chuck Norris on some kids arse.
I suggest this will happen again, people do this kind of st because they get away with it, they're low lives, but you're doing no one any good by rising above it and you're kidding yourself. Either sort it or get the police involved otherwise you'll spend the rest of your life crossing the road and being a pussy. Sorry to say out but its the truth. Better to fight and lose (and you may very well lose, don't under estimate the average 15 year old kid).
I suggest the new equaliser film and 4 Stella if you need some inspiration.
Life isn't a movie or a video game. In real life actions have consequences that should be thought about. Mine could well of being sacked from my job, a criminal record, a completely changed life for a few minutes of madness? To do what? To have a fight that clearly didn't have to be had? Why? To prove I can I beat up a 15 year old like a 'ard man? Give me a fking break.I suggest this will happen again, people do this kind of st because they get away with it, they're low lives, but you're doing no one any good by rising above it and you're kidding yourself. Either sort it or get the police involved otherwise you'll spend the rest of your life crossing the road and being a pussy. Sorry to say out but its the truth. Better to fight and lose (and you may very well lose, don't under estimate the average 15 year old kid).
I suggest the new equaliser film and 4 Stella if you need some inspiration.
Right now I'm at home, with my family, reflective, but happy. Alternatively at the very least I would be worrying about the possibility of an assault charge, retaliation or god knows what. You all know as well as I do that justice can fall on seemingly the wrong side depending on how the picture is painted, I don't ever want to have to take that risk unduly.
I have a good job, a loving family and hopes for the future, there is no way in hell I am going to jeopardize my future without good reason. Whilst it was a highly unpleasant situation at no point where our lives at risk, these were still kids, fking insignificant punks, not even worth the risk of throwing my life away.
279 said:
FredClogs said:
Dude you didn't win, they beat you and your mum and you've done nothing and will do nothing and now you're on the internet telling random strangers how you restrained your killer instinct and for the good of society didn't go all chuck Norris on some kids arse.
I suggest this will happen again, people do this kind of st because they get away with it, they're low lives, but you're doing no one any good by rising above it and you're kidding yourself. Either sort it or get the police involved otherwise you'll spend the rest of your life crossing the road and being a pussy. Sorry to say out but its the truth. Better to fight and lose (and you may very well lose, don't under estimate the average 15 year old kid).
I suggest the new equaliser film and 4 Stella if you need some inspiration.
Life isn't a movie or a video game. In real life actions have consequences that should be thought about. Mine could well of being sacked from my job, a criminal record, a completely changed life for a few minutes of madness? To do what? To have a fight that clearly didn't have to be had? Why? To prove I can I beat up a 15 year old like a 'ard man? Give me a fking break.I suggest this will happen again, people do this kind of st because they get away with it, they're low lives, but you're doing no one any good by rising above it and you're kidding yourself. Either sort it or get the police involved otherwise you'll spend the rest of your life crossing the road and being a pussy. Sorry to say out but its the truth. Better to fight and lose (and you may very well lose, don't under estimate the average 15 year old kid).
I suggest the new equaliser film and 4 Stella if you need some inspiration.
Right now I'm at home, with my family, reflective, but happy. Alternatively at the very least I would be worrying about the possibility of an assault charge, retaliation or god knows what. You all know as well as I do that justice can fall on seemingly the wrong side depending on how the picture is painted, I don't ever want to have to take that risk unduly.
I have a good job, a loving family and hopes for the future, there is no way in hell I am going to jeopardize my future without good reason. Whilst it was a highly unpleasant situation at no point where our lives at risk, these were still kids, fking insignificant punks, not even worth the risk of throwing my life away.
Someone else's problem now though isn't it?
Thankyou4calling said:
It's easy to say after the event but a full grown man will have some serious shove and that won't get you in trouble either.
When the yob is lying on the pavement you can either walk away or stand over and tell him if he even thinks about doing that again you'll put him down so he can't get up in a hurry and yes I am powerfully built ;-)
Unless of course he bumped his head on a kerb/wall/street lamp and died and then you'd probably be looking at doing time?When the yob is lying on the pavement you can either walk away or stand over and tell him if he even thinks about doing that again you'll put him down so he can't get up in a hurry and yes I am powerfully built ;-)
silverous said:
Unless of course he bumped his head on a kerb/wall/street lamp and died and then you'd probably be looking at doing time?
If he fell on a railing it could've pierced his lung, if he'd fallen in the road a car may have run him over, if he had fallen against a shop window he may have gone through it and cut himself to death on the glass.You know what, firstly it wouldn't happen I would have pushed him and he'd have gone arse over tit and looked a right tt and second if something did happen then tough.
I've had something not dissimilar happen to me and yes it did go to court, but I wasn't the one charged he was, and his sister both found guilty with a 12 month suspended and £1000 fine each.
The judge in his summing up described me as a highly credible witness and an asset to the local community.
Thankyou4calling :-)
silverous said:
Thankyou4calling said:
It's easy to say after the event but a full grown man will have some serious shove and that won't get you in trouble either.
When the yob is lying on the pavement you can either walk away or stand over and tell him if he even thinks about doing that again you'll put him down so he can't get up in a hurry and yes I am powerfully built ;-)
Unless of course he bumped his head on a kerb/wall/street lamp and died and then you'd probably be looking at doing time?When the yob is lying on the pavement you can either walk away or stand over and tell him if he even thinks about doing that again you'll put him down so he can't get up in a hurry and yes I am powerfully built ;-)
I'm 5ft9 and 75 kilos, there are many teenagers bigger than me, and possible stronger (including some girls) there is no way I'm going to let them tt my mum because of some ridiculous crippling Daily Express drivel about PC gone mad and hoodies taking over the asylum. People do not go to jail for using reasonable force to defend themselves.
I had this, three of them only though, they left a load of crap on the church wall, chip papers and I politely suggested they put it in the bin, I got called names and the biggest, taller than me, got right in my face.
I said that he should really think about what he is doing and potentially how much danger presenting his face undefended like that represents, to be honest I was stting myself, I wasnt worried about the streak of piss in front of me so much but I had the Dog and I am by no means hard and didnt fancy a kicking off three of them, I just kept my voice steady and spoke slowly and clearly and stared him hard in the face.
What is that stupid chav tendency to offer their face wide outstretched arms, meet anyone who knows remotely what they are doing it would get you knocked out ?
I said that he should really think about what he is doing and potentially how much danger presenting his face undefended like that represents, to be honest I was stting myself, I wasnt worried about the streak of piss in front of me so much but I had the Dog and I am by no means hard and didnt fancy a kicking off three of them, I just kept my voice steady and spoke slowly and clearly and stared him hard in the face.
What is that stupid chav tendency to offer their face wide outstretched arms, meet anyone who knows remotely what they are doing it would get you knocked out ?
279 said:
Life isn't a movie or a video game. In real life actions have consequences that should be thought about. Mine could well of being sacked from my job, a criminal record, a completely changed life for a few minutes of madness? To do what? To have a fight that clearly didn't have to be had? Why? To prove I can I beat up a 15 year old like a 'ard man? Give me a fking break.
Right now I'm at home, with my family, reflective, but happy. Alternatively at the very least I would be worrying about the possibility of an assault charge, retaliation or god knows what. You all know as well as I do that justice can fall on seemingly the wrong side depending on how the picture is painted, I don't ever want to have to take that risk unduly.
I have a good job, a loving family and hopes for the future, there is no way in hell I am going to jeopardize my future without good reason. Whilst it was a highly unpleasant situation at no point where our lives at risk, these were still kids, fking insignificant punks, not even worth the risk of throwing my life away.
And there lies the problem.Right now I'm at home, with my family, reflective, but happy. Alternatively at the very least I would be worrying about the possibility of an assault charge, retaliation or god knows what. You all know as well as I do that justice can fall on seemingly the wrong side depending on how the picture is painted, I don't ever want to have to take that risk unduly.
I have a good job, a loving family and hopes for the future, there is no way in hell I am going to jeopardize my future without good reason. Whilst it was a highly unpleasant situation at no point where our lives at risk, these were still kids, fking insignificant punks, not even worth the risk of throwing my life away.
I fully understand why you walked away, but scumbags know this as well, and thats why they behave like they do.
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