Should I Shun My Mates Wedding? Would You?

[Vincefox]

Don't leave me now, now, now.

[austinsmirk]

I knew of a women who on her wedding day snuck off on said day to have a secret shag with someone

[HTP99]

austinsmirk said:

I knew of a women who on her wedding day snuck off on said day to have a secret shag with someone

The wife's very close friend; at the time, wanted to back out of her wedding on the actual day as she had been shagging the groom's half brother; whom the groom hated (he didn't know she was shagging him), for the past few years and had decided then and there that actually she didn't want to get married to the groom, even though they had been together for over ten years already.

They married and split within 9 months.

[Leptons]

anonymous said:

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That is where I'm currently at. The thought of going along and saying congratulations to him and his new wife through gritted teeth makes me cringe TBH.

[kowalski655]

Dont waste money on an expensive wedding gift

[iva cosworth]

My niece cancelled her wedding a couple of years ago,not for these reasons.

After hearing the reason,it was for the best.

[TheAllSeeingPie]

Centurion07 said:

Your mate is about to have his life flushed down the toilet! She's cheated on him (more than once), she's controlling enough to have taken over the wedding to the point he is only allowed to invite three friends and he's about to sign over half of everything he owns!!

She's also about to sign over everything she owns. So when she commits adultery he's in for taking it all plus custody of the nipper. Revenge is best served cold and all that ...

[HTP99]

iva cosworth said:

My niece cancelled her wedding a couple of years ago,not for these reasons.

After hearing the reason,it was for the best.

Come on man, don't leave us in suspenders; was he gay?

[HTP99]

TheAllSeeingPie said:

Centurion07 said:

Your mate is about to have his life flushed down the toilet! She's cheated on him (more than once), she's controlling enough to have taken over the wedding to the point he is only allowed to invite three friends and he's about to sign over half of everything he owns!!

She's also about to sign over everything she owns. So when she commits adultery he's in for taking it all plus custody of the nipper. Revenge is best served cold and all that ...

And in the real world, she gets the house, the child, the car and child maintenance until the child is 18.

[R8Steve]

TheAllSeeingPie said:

She's also about to sign over everything she owns. So when she commits adultery he's in for taking it all plus custody of the nipper. Revenge is best served cold and all that ...

I don't think it works that way unfortunately.

[iva cosworth]

HTP99 said:

iva cosworth said:

My niece cancelled her wedding a couple of years ago,not for these reasons.

After hearing the reason,it was for the best.

Come on man, don't leave us in suspenders; was he gay?

No it wasn't that.

Their arguements apparently were epic.

[gruffalo]

anonymous said:

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I am with Toxic on this, I true friend points out the truth even if difficult.

How about offer to drive him to the service and bugger off into the opposite direction as fast as possible so he misses the whole thing?

Is he sure the child is his if she has a habit of shagging around?

[Centurion07]

HTP99 said:

TheAllSeeingPie said:

Centurion07 said:

Your mate is about to have his life flushed down the toilet! She's cheated on him (more than once), she's controlling enough to have taken over the wedding to the point he is only allowed to invite three friends and he's about to sign over half of everything he owns!!

She's also about to sign over everything she owns. So when she commits adultery he's in for taking it all plus custody of the nipper. Revenge is best served cold and all that ...

And in the real world, she gets the house, the child, the car and child maintenance until the child is 18.

Yep^.

What alternate universe is this where the guy gets custody plus half her stuff?

[Centurion07]

gruffalo said:

Is he sure the child is his if she has a habit of shagging around?

Good point.

[iva cosworth]

Centurion07 said:

gruffalo said:

Is he sure the child is his if she has a habit of shagging around?

Good point.

Who's got the hotline to Jeremy Kyle ?

[Rick101]

As he's got a kid with her he's fked almost as much as she is.
Crap situation to be in.

[drivin_me_nuts]

phil-sti said:

You should go because he is your mate.

When it all falls down around his ears you will be there to pick him up as you are mates.

I always thought that's what mates were for?

I would say don't go, because he doesn't want you there and you don't want to go. the measure of friendship is not now, but later, if/when it goes tits up he still has your friendship. that will mean more then, than any harsh words said now. sometimes, you just have to let things take their own path and at their own pace.

[Magic919]

HTP99 said:

Come on man, don't leave us in suspenders; was he gay?

OP's mate has a fiancé, ask him.

[ruff'n'smov]

bearman68 said:

m8rky said:

Attend the wedding, get as many mates as you can to gatecrash the reception (preferably pissed up) tell all her family at every opportunity what an old slapper she is, reception descends in to mass brawl. Job done.

Can I come????

Put me down for a place

[J4CKO]

Nobody has mentioned "having a go" yourself, poor.