The lady at work!

[The1Driver]

SHutchinson said:

This is bad. You couldn't utter a word? Did you even acknowledge her?

The train was packed and was kind of hoping she'd spot me. Then I could give the nod and take it from there.

I'm not usually like this. Something about her puts me on pause lol

[The1Driver]

stuartmmcfc said:

PS,
OP, forgive me for asking, but have you actually managed to kiss a woman before, and I don't just mean your Mum!

Lol

For the record. I have near great social skills. I've just somehow got myself into a situation whereby I've allowed one particular woman to get to me. If it were anyone else this thread wouldn't be here. I've told me work colleague about this woman. He too feels your (the PH affiliates) frustration. He even suggested I could do better.... Which I found strange because she is stunning lol.

Anyway I must and I will...... Speak to this woman. Next opportunity... I guarantee it. I bet my forum life on it!

[The1Driver]

Lol yes. Eye contact has been made - around the office. A few times.

[The1Driver]

MC Bodge said:

Just talk to the woman.

Really, what is there to lose?

I can only assume a major lack of experience from OP

My Pride lol.

Don't worry. It'll will get done.

[The1Driver]

craigjm said:

Your pride has been decimated by this thread on the internet. Just do it the worse that can happen is she says no!

Lol true.

However, I'm hardly going to hang myself over it. Has been a good laugh though.

[The1Driver]

Puggit said:

So you're resigned to not doing it

No way. I will do it.

I have to!

[The1Driver]

Munter said:

I believe the official word is transgender.

Good lord I hope not... Imagine if she is... My head would bloody explode.

[The1Driver]

Okay okay. Give me till Friday.

Look, I've told myself I'm going to do this. And I shall.

[The1Driver]

Jek Porkins said:

Why?

Because I'm hoping I'll spot her again before then. If not I'll have to go snooping.

[The1Driver]

Einion Yrth said:

Today's his last day? It is the end of the month after all.

My leave date is currently in December

[The1Driver]

Sod it. I'm heading there now. Then off to lunch..... She had better accept the request

[The1Driver]

Morningside said:

This is what he is hoping.

You're damn right.

Okay, so just before lunch a had a snoop around the area I believed she worked in. It took no longer than 5 mins to find her office. It was empty... So I thought "oh well. I tried".

Went down to the staff restaurant to grab something to eat. When I her sat at a table. At first I hesitated then thought "sod it. Let's get this done and over with".

I took a seat at her table and said afternoon. She smiled and asked whether I worked with so and so. At this point I'm thinking great. Step one accomplished.

we're talking about work for a few mins now. So I decide to drill for more information about her. By asking how her weekend was.....

"It was fine thanks. Just spent it with the kids..." I kept calm.... Just hoping she was divorced. I mean why else would there be no ring on her finger... Anyway I left it at that.

Good news - she asked if I planned on heading to the local bar after work on friday. So I guess I'll get a proper chance to interrogate gate her then!

Feeling a lot better now..... I guess

[The1Driver]

Chris Type R said:

You're so in there.

Did you check for an Adam's apple ?

Or she just sees me as a new work buddy lol.

Either way it's job done.... Not the outcome I was expecting... But there is still hope. I guess lol.

[The1Driver]

pinchmeimdreamin said:

She only asked that so she knows to avoid it now

God dammit lol

[The1Driver]

DanielSan said:

This is not an outcome.

Whatever you do, do not get totally wkered on Friday. Create an opportunity to ask her on a date tomorrow rather than drunkenly blurting out that you want to smash her back doors in on Friday.

I'm not a heavy drinker. So no chance of that happening.

[The1Driver]

MC Bodge said:

Good work.

By the way, Did you discuss this thread?

This cannot be a serious question....










Of course I did. She needed to know how much of a pussy I've been about the whole thing.

[The1Driver]

Dan911 said:

40 years old you say...
Kids you say...

What's the chassis like?

Lol

Upon closer inspection. You can see its clearly been used. On the plus side you can also notice that it has been well serviced / looked after.

Yes, the overall bodywork has aged nicely... Much like Aston's Vantage

[The1Driver]

Don't go bareback?

[The1Driver]

Mojooo said:

Basically the woman is married with kids - did she actually say she wasn't married?

I haven't asked. Like Ive said I see no ring.

[The1Driver]

Mojooo said:

is this drinks at the pub a team thing or a you and her thing? seems like a vital detail...

Team affair.