The lady at work!
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xjay1337 said:
Not sure what's more cringe-worthy
The line "I really want to get to know you" being thrown out there on what is basically a first "date" or the fact you are all suggesting the fact he breaks up a happy-home by sleeping with a married woman.
If you want a quick shag there are easier ways to do it than ruining a happy relationship
If you want a serious relationship then whatever a woman would do to her current BF she would eventually do to you.
Bear that in mind.
Ahm inThe line "I really want to get to know you" being thrown out there on what is basically a first "date" or the fact you are all suggesting the fact he breaks up a happy-home by sleeping with a married woman.
If you want a quick shag there are easier ways to do it than ruining a happy relationship
If you want a serious relationship then whatever a woman would do to her current BF she would eventually do to you.
Bear that in mind.
Bang on. Tae many ejits a'scribin ther fantasies here fer me
Ahm oot
The1Driver said:
I don't get it.
This negativity to the line I used.
Fact of the matter is the night turned out just fine. There were no awkward moments. So for now... I have made a decent friend!
I would like to see than the PH Committee for their efforts. It's been fun.
It has indeed. I still think she in interested in you. Slow burner. She needs to know she can trust you, and that discretion will be the key word.This negativity to the line I used.
Fact of the matter is the night turned out just fine. There were no awkward moments. So for now... I have made a decent friend!
I would like to see than the PH Committee for their efforts. It's been fun.
xjay1337 said:
If you want a serious relationship then whatever a woman would do to her current BF she would eventually do to you.
Bear that in mind.
Years ago a girl at work in a long term relationship with a fella she'd met at a previous workplace fell for a guy she was working with. Dumped previous guy and married the new guy and went on and had children.Bear that in mind.
Edited by xjay1337 on Tuesday 6th October 14:41
A couple of years ago she had a fling with a guy at a new place of work and dumped the husband. They new couple are still together but if I was the latest fella, I'd be worried.
OP - Bravo! You did the difficult thing and told a woman you like her and would like to get to know her intimately. You found out she has a partner and you respected that and were a decent enough guy to not let the disappointment make you act like an ass.
You never know, her other half could be due for the heave ho and you're in there next but not the cause.
You never know, her other half could be due for the heave ho and you're in there next but not the cause.
The1Driver said:
I don't get it.
This negativity to the line I used.
Fact of the matter is the night turned out just fine
We are all experts on here This negativity to the line I used.
Fact of the matter is the night turned out just fine
Nothing ventured, nothing gained, but it just doesn't sound like the sort of thing that people outside of "fifty shades of grey" or the like would say when talking to a woman. My wife or her friends would probably find it amusing and roll their eyes.
"Small talk" is exactly what you do when getting to know somebody in the real world.
Anyway, you've learned your lesson -don't ask a load of blokes on the internet for dating advice!
As a teacher I've been learning --
You'll forgive me if I boast --
And I've now become an expert,
On the subject I like most.
(Spoken) Getting to know you.
(Singing) Getting to know you,
Getting to know all about you.
Getting to like you,
Getting to hope you like me.
Getting to know you,
Putting it my way,
But nicely,
You are precisely,
My cup of tea.
ANNA AND THE MOTHERS
Getting to know you,
Getting to know all about you.
Getting to like you,
Getting to hope you like me.
Getting to know you,
Putting it my way,
But nicely,
You are precisely,
ANNA
My cup of tea.
ALL
Getting to know you,
Getting to feel free and easy
When I am with you,
Getting to know what to say
Haven't you noticed
Suddenly I'm bright and breezy?
Because of all the beautiful and new
Things I'm learning about you
Day by day.
Getting to know you,
Getting to feel free and easy
When I am with you,
Getting to know what to say
Haven't you noticed
Suddenly I'm bright and breezy?
Because of all the beautiful and new
Things I'm learning about you
Day .. by ... day.
Chicks love that sort of stuff, she probably went home a rubbed it clean off!
You'll forgive me if I boast --
And I've now become an expert,
On the subject I like most.
(Spoken) Getting to know you.
(Singing) Getting to know you,
Getting to know all about you.
Getting to like you,
Getting to hope you like me.
Getting to know you,
Putting it my way,
But nicely,
You are precisely,
My cup of tea.
ANNA AND THE MOTHERS
Getting to know you,
Getting to know all about you.
Getting to like you,
Getting to hope you like me.
Getting to know you,
Putting it my way,
But nicely,
You are precisely,
ANNA
My cup of tea.
ALL
Getting to know you,
Getting to feel free and easy
When I am with you,
Getting to know what to say
Haven't you noticed
Suddenly I'm bright and breezy?
Because of all the beautiful and new
Things I'm learning about you
Day by day.
Getting to know you,
Getting to feel free and easy
When I am with you,
Getting to know what to say
Haven't you noticed
Suddenly I'm bright and breezy?
Because of all the beautiful and new
Things I'm learning about you
Day .. by ... day.
Chicks love that sort of stuff, she probably went home a rubbed it clean off!
The Spruce goose said:
The1Driver said:
I don't get it.
This negativity to the line I used.
.
has it ever worked thou?This negativity to the line I used.
.
Neil H said:
Disastrous said:
TheExcession said:
The1Driver said:
"I'm flattered. You're an attractive young man. However I don't think the other half would be happy if you stole me from him".
Common PH, FFS, whilst we obviously don't know the exact wording, surely the correct response should Easy in hindsight eh? Even easier in reality - it's called not giving (too much of) a fvck about the consequences, you'll win or you'll lose, it's all a gamble.
OP - Get back and talk to her again and get clarification on the 'stolen' bit - who knows, the two of you might be perfect for each other!
(A few years back I met a lady who on the second meet had removed her wedding rings, dame/game on it was young Jedi).
Einion Yrth said:
The Spruce goose said:
The1Driver said:
I don't get it.
This negativity to the line I used.
.
has it ever worked thou?This negativity to the line I used.
.
He almost never used to come home with us at the end of the evening.
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