Only asked for a loan of his jump leads!!
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So i asked my next door neighbor for a loan of his jump-leads this morning. 1st time I've ever knocked his door for anything. His response at the time was great. used them and handed them back. While at work i thought i'd pop on Facebook and send him a PM and thank him again for the loan of the jump-leads. We're not Facebook "friends" , but i can see stuff on his timeline as its not hidden. I see this post put up this morning....
People who ask for favors. Surely it's only a “favor” if you can offer something in return at some point to the person. The returning of the “favor”. If not, you're only asking the person to plug the gaps in your life you failing to address yourself . Either because you can't or are incapable of plugging them yourself. If you ask for their time/money/social connections / abilities, can you ever really return this “favor”? If not you're merely consuming their excess to plug your failures. You're absorbing the excess they have in reserve. The only other comparison I can think of is a leech. It lives of the excess of others. So before you ask anyone for a favor, ask yourself first. Do I have anything to offer this person? If the answer is no! It's a good chance you're a leech!
Jeez, i'll not bother next time. I did not realise asking for a go of a set of jump leads was such a big issue???
People who ask for favors. Surely it's only a “favor” if you can offer something in return at some point to the person. The returning of the “favor”. If not, you're only asking the person to plug the gaps in your life you failing to address yourself . Either because you can't or are incapable of plugging them yourself. If you ask for their time/money/social connections / abilities, can you ever really return this “favor”? If not you're merely consuming their excess to plug your failures. You're absorbing the excess they have in reserve. The only other comparison I can think of is a leech. It lives of the excess of others. So before you ask anyone for a favor, ask yourself first. Do I have anything to offer this person? If the answer is no! It's a good chance you're a leech!
Jeez, i'll not bother next time. I did not realise asking for a go of a set of jump leads was such a big issue???
How does he know you have nothing to offer him should he ever be in a time of need?
Pretty cocky to think he is entirely self-sufficient, and can do without any interaction.
He sounds like a total dick
If, on the other hand, if you go round and ask for jump leads on a regular basis for a couple of weeks, I'd probably think you were taking the piss a bit. If not, he's a dick.
Pretty cocky to think he is entirely self-sufficient, and can do without any interaction.
He sounds like a total dick
If, on the other hand, if you go round and ask for jump leads on a regular basis for a couple of weeks, I'd probably think you were taking the piss a bit. If not, he's a dick.
OP - Send him the Facebook PM, that way he'll know you've seen his post. If he has 1% of non-d
head DNA in his body he'll be squirming
However, the US spelling of "favor" suggests that he might have reposted some american st.
Or maybe he knows you are a Sevco fan and is just winding you up
head DNA in his body he'll be squirmingHowever, the US spelling of "favor" suggests that he might have reposted some american s
t. Or maybe he knows you are a Sevco fan and is just winding you up
Edited by JuniorD on Wednesday 25th November 16:44
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