Things you should have done by 40

Things you should have done by 40

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blindswelledrat

25,257 posts

232 months

Monday 30th November 2015
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Timmy40 said:
Unless you don't want to have kids and are sure of it, started the family. Babies are bloody tiring, and I'd hate to be starting the whole process in my forties!

Also purchased the largest house you aim to own. You don't want to be going into your forties needing to increase you're mortgage furter, with 25 working years left it's time to start the long slow slog of paying the money back not leveraging ever upwards.

Sorted out your pension strategy, again with a view to the fact that you have 25 years left to accumulate enough of a pot to at least avoid total poverty in old age.
biglaugh Exactly!!
All the other stuff is to do before you're 30 as thereafter you're an adult.

Johnny

9,652 posts

284 months

Monday 30th November 2015
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P-Jay said:
Be comfortable and confident in your own skin.
This more than anything I think. It's taken a while to get there.

rossub

4,442 posts

190 months

Monday 30th November 2015
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I've got 365 days left to have a threesome - not going to happen unless I pay for it I guess frown

softtop

3,057 posts

247 months

Monday 30th November 2015
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trickywoo said:
Dogging?
he meant made love under the stairs, we all do it..

Timmy40

12,915 posts

198 months

Monday 30th November 2015
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rossub said:
I've got 365 days left to have a threesome - not going to happen unless I pay for it I guess frown
I dunno, get a picture of your bumhole up on Grinder and I reckon you'll be OK.

Thankyou4calling

10,602 posts

173 months

Monday 30th November 2015
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CR6ZZ said:
Never done a threesome, but can add:
Own home
Bungy jumping
SCUBA diving
Skiing (snow and water)
White water rafting
Driven a fast car
Driven a fast boat
6 continents (7th next year)
Stripped down and rebuilt an engine
Camped out
Made love under the stars
What's the seventh continent?

crofty1984

15,858 posts

204 months

Monday 30th November 2015
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Johnny said:
P-Jay said:
Be comfortable and confident in your own skin.
This more than anything I think. It's taken a while to get there.
Yup. Though I'd say that one by about 30.

retrorider

1,339 posts

201 months

Monday 30th November 2015
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Make sure you get there.

rossub

4,442 posts

190 months

Monday 30th November 2015
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Timmy40 said:
rossub said:
I've got 365 days left to have a threesome - not going to happen unless I pay for it I guess frown
I dunno, get a picture of your bumhole up on Grinder and I reckon you'll be OK.
I'm happy I reached 39 without having heard of Grinder smile

Jimmy Recard

17,540 posts

179 months

Monday 30th November 2015
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Timmy40 said:
rossub said:
I've got 365 days left to have a threesome - not going to happen unless I pay for it I guess frown
I dunno, get a picture of your bumhole up on Grinder and I reckon you'll be OK.
idea

This is good advice. You can do it if you try

Morningside

24,110 posts

229 months

Monday 30th November 2015
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Buy a V8 (or 4).

Condi

Original Poster:

17,188 posts

171 months

Monday 30th November 2015
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matsoc said:
It looks more like a before turning 20 list to me, except from finding love which is something that just happens.
Thats fine... considering Im nearer 20 than 40 I was kinda hoping people would add to the list and offer up suggestions.

CR6ZZ

1,313 posts

145 months

Monday 30th November 2015
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Thankyou4calling said:
CR6ZZ said:
Never done a threesome, but can add:

6 continents (7th next year)
What's the seventh continent?
Africa for me.




Edited by CR6ZZ on Tuesday 1st December 00:25

Itsallicanafford

2,765 posts

159 months

Monday 30th November 2015
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rossub said:
I've got 365 days left to have a threesome - not going to happen unless I pay for it I guess frown
You could have a threesome at golf but be prepared to let 2 and 4 balls through due to your questionable standing on the course..
Back in subject...learn golf etiquette?



crofty1984

15,858 posts

204 months

Wednesday 2nd December 2015
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Itsallicanafford said:
rossub said:
I've got 365 days left to have a threesome - not going to happen unless I pay for it I guess frown
You could have a threesome at golf but be prepared to let 2 and 4 balls through due to your questionable standing on the course..
Back in subject...learn golf etiquette?
One for the list - don't play fking golf.

HarryFlatters

4,203 posts

212 months

Wednesday 2nd December 2015
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Condi said:
A threesome...
Nearly managed that... all I needed was two more people.

Rosscow

8,765 posts

163 months

Wednesday 2nd December 2015
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CR6ZZ said:
Thankyou4calling said:
CR6ZZ said:
Never done a threesome, but can add:

6 continents (7th next year)
What's the seventh continent?
Africa for me.
Amazing that you've been to Antarctica yet haven't been to Africa!

I need to tick South America and Antarctica off the list for the full collection.



RegMolehusband

3,960 posts

257 months

Wednesday 2nd December 2015
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So what's supposed to happen after 40? Slippers, jumper and take up smoking a pipe maybe? smile I've done most of the above, apart from drugs, between the age of 40 and 60. And there's plenty of time left for drugs yet. . .

Edited by RegMolehusband on Wednesday 2nd December 08:38

andy-xr

13,204 posts

204 months

Wednesday 2nd December 2015
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Hopefully realised that buying shiny stuff doesn't make you happy. I'm convinced there's a slew of people who walk through their life not really considering anyone else other than themselves on the surface, and buy st to make themselves feel better and try to get more liked.

I don't really buy in to the 'should have had kids' because some people might not be able to have them, or have been with someone who didn't want them and I don't think 40 is 'too late' for much, other than an 18-30 holiday

matsoc

853 posts

132 months

Wednesday 2nd December 2015
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Condi said:
matsoc said:
It looks more like a before turning 20 list to me, except from finding love which is something that just happens.
Thats fine... considering Im nearer 20 than 40 I was kinda hoping people would add to the list and offer up suggestions.
Well the most important things are the more obvious like fall in love, start a family, have kids. Get really good in doing what you like, there is always time to learn but I guess that by 40 a person should have found his route.

Then there are less "serious" things that are simpler and more accessible experiences that in my opionion feel much stronger in young age and are very subjective. Skydiving is great for instance, everybody should give it a try, before 40 but why not at 20?

The fact is that I don't see any reason to wait until 40 if you want to do something. On the contrary I think that something simply gets less attractive once you get older. I am 34 now and I won't do most of the things I did at 20, but they made sense at the time...