How to break up with someone
Discussion
Vitorio said:
sunnydude said:
Don't be single, its a trap
try and sort it out, otherwise there could be a long wait until you get some again.
I'm 26 and a virgin through no fault of my own.
try and sort it out, otherwise there could be a long wait until you get some again.
I'm 26 and a virgin through no fault of my own.
And for good measure:
At least you are a funny bloke Sunny
I really hope the OP comes back. This thread has potential!
Vaud said:
Why does he need to dig himself out? He asked anonymously for relationship advice on a forum. He didn't name her. He wants to end the relationship...
...not the best way to end, but nor does the OP have any explaining to do per se...
Derr! Go figure...not the best way to end, but nor does the OP have any explaining to do per se...
Edited by Vaud on Thursday 26th May 14:53
Edited by Vaud on Thursday 26th May 14:53
Named or not the female is going to be a bit pissed off having 'their' relationship poured over by a bunch of car geeks. No-one is asking for an explanation from him, he seems perfectly capable of wanting to keep us informed. Take a chill pill pal!
OP, look on the bright side, it's probably sorted out your original question\problem for you.
You are both young and as someone else said, 8 months of seeing each other at the weekend is barely a relationship. You'll both move on and look back in a few years and wonder what all the fuss\worry was about.
You are both young and as someone else said, 8 months of seeing each other at the weekend is barely a relationship. You'll both move on and look back in a few years and wonder what all the fuss\worry was about.
TIGA84 said:
I'm going to be cruel to be kind here.
After reading your situation I'm struggling to see what relationship you are trying to get out of.
You hardly see her.
She's been to your house once in 8 months.
You don't (or haven't?) slept together.
You don't talk, you don't laugh, you basically don't do anything together.
Bottom line? Your relationship doesn't exist, you are simply 2 people that spent 4 years texting each other who have met face to face and continue to do the same albeit with a different label.
You don't have a relationship, you have a friend that you text and see occasionally.
This.After reading your situation I'm struggling to see what relationship you are trying to get out of.
You hardly see her.
She's been to your house once in 8 months.
You don't (or haven't?) slept together.
You don't talk, you don't laugh, you basically don't do anything together.
Bottom line? Your relationship doesn't exist, you are simply 2 people that spent 4 years texting each other who have met face to face and continue to do the same albeit with a different label.
You don't have a relationship, you have a friend that you text and see occasionally.
OP this whole thread is a bit weird, sorry. If you lived together, shared a life together, etc etc - then OK you need some help to end it. But from what you've described here, then your lack of interest in using alternative transport methods (hire a bloody car?).
Tell her you want to continue to be friends, and move on.
Then MTFU.
It's Pistonheads afterall.
sunnydude said:
Same, but not in the middle of the bed though or else it usually finds its way up my backside during the course of the night
You pay for sex though, f
k off.Right... since we are now here... may as well carry on the story.
Once I was done with my client I gave her a call back.
She too had felt that something had been wrong. But couldn't find a way / have the courage to bring it up.
I didn't ask her but I think she found this thread by googling my username looking for something to do with my car......
Had the phone call explaining how we both felt. She says she is the person in her texts but tones herself down around me incase I thought she was weird or odd.
But for the both of us we agreed we had tried and it was not working. We are going to try and be friends. Although she is angry that I have posted up (what was I supposed to do, I needed some advice / somewhere to vent) if she can move past this anger I see no reason why we can't be friends, possibly even better friends than we were before due to some new found openess.
Sorry for the lack of excitement in the conclusion.
Done.
The dogst written by the masses here is priceless.
OP, get help. 8 months and no pussy, what kind of man are you? As for your other half, at the rate she's going when she's lying on the slab at the end of her life she'll probably have a name label attached to one of her toes which says "Returned unopened".
Now, let's move on with our lives.
t written by the masses here is priceless.OP, get help. 8 months and no pussy, what kind of man are you? As for your other half, at the rate she's going when she's lying on the slab at the end of her life she'll probably have a name label attached to one of her toes which says "Returned unopened".
Now, let's move on with our lives.
Ali Chappussy said:
The dogst written by the masses here is priceless.
OP, get help. 8 months and no pussy, what kind of man are you? As for your other half, at the rate she's going when she's lying on the slab at the end of her life she'll probably have a name label attached to one of her toes which says "Returned unopened".
Now, let's move on with our lives.
The 4 years of daily texts before they must has to be some sort of record?t written by the masses here is priceless.OP, get help. 8 months and no pussy, what kind of man are you? As for your other half, at the rate she's going when she's lying on the slab at the end of her life she'll probably have a name label attached to one of her toes which says "Returned unopened".
Now, let's move on with our lives.
What a waste of time that turned out to be OP, you'll need to speed things up next time!
Ali Chappussy said:
The dogst written by the masses here is priceless.
OP, get help. 8 months and no pussy, what kind of man are you? As for your other half, at the rate she's going when she's lying on the slab at the end of her life she'll probably have a name label attached to one of her toes which says "Returned unopened".
Now, let's move on with our lives.
t written by the masses here is priceless.OP, get help. 8 months and no pussy, what kind of man are you? As for your other half, at the rate she's going when she's lying on the slab at the end of her life she'll probably have a name label attached to one of her toes which says "Returned unopened".
Now, let's move on with our lives.
Brilliant
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