How to break up with someone

How to break up with someone

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MG CHRIS

9,081 posts

167 months

Saturday 28th May 2016
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sunnydude said:
Vaud said:
How is being single a trap?
Because its a state of no sex/having to pay for sex - and it can last a long time, like its lasted me.
You got to pay for sex whatever way it comes.

Vaud

50,386 posts

155 months

Saturday 28th May 2016
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MG CHRIS said:
You got to pay for sex whatever way it comes.
Why do you say that?

xjay1337

Original Poster:

15,966 posts

118 months

Sunday 29th May 2016
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Vaud said:
MG CHRIS said:
You got to pay for sex whatever way it comes.
Why do you say that?
Do you think your mrs would still shag you if you didnt take her for dinner, buy her stuff, drive her places, etc.

Monkeylegend

26,318 posts

231 months

Sunday 29th May 2016
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xjay1337 said:
Vaud said:
MG CHRIS said:
You got to pay for sex whatever way it comes.
Why do you say that?
Do you think your mrs would still shag you if you didnt take her for dinner, buy her stuff, drive her places, etc.
Of course she would until she had the babies she wanted.

ali_kat

31,988 posts

221 months

Sunday 29th May 2016
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xjay1337 said:
Do you think your mrs would still shag you if you didnt take her for dinner, buy her stuff, drive her places, etc.
rofl

Vaud

50,386 posts

155 months

Sunday 29th May 2016
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xjay1337 said:
Do you think your mrs would still shag you if you didnt take her for dinner, buy her stuff, drive her places, etc.
Err.... yes.

Lots of assumptions made about both maturity of relationships and also who earns the money (not that it really matters)... plus who drives, etc.

Sounds like a very patriarchal / alpha male point of view that you have...

xjay1337

Original Poster:

15,966 posts

118 months

Monday 30th May 2016
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Ok. That was very misogynistic.
Would you still shag her if she didnt have money, buy you dinner, buy you stuff and drive you places?

Vitorio

4,296 posts

143 months

Monday 30th May 2016
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xjay1337 said:
Ok. That was very misogynistic.
Would you still shag her if she didnt have money, buy you dinner, buy you stuff and drive you places?
Talking about the ex, yes i would (back then), but she wasnt very keen boxedin

Vaud

50,386 posts

155 months

Monday 30th May 2016
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xjay1337 said:
Ok. That was very misogynistic.
Would you still shag her if she didnt have money, buy you dinner, buy you stuff and drive you places?
Yes. More to life than money or driving.

UK345

441 posts

158 months

Monday 30th May 2016
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Does anyone else smell ste ? It's reeking and coming from this thread.

xjay1337

Original Poster:

15,966 posts

118 months

Monday 30th May 2016
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Was it? I thought it was my tiny knob.

sunnydude

907 posts

127 months

Tuesday 31st May 2016
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xjay1337 said:
Was it? I thought it was my tiny knob.
at least your mum said you were handsome

INWB

896 posts

107 months

Tuesday 31st May 2016
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xjay1337 said:
Do you think your mrs would still shag you if you didnt take her for dinner, buy her stuff, drive her places, etc.
Mine would. Married 24 years BTW. You have identified the problem. It is you.

sunnydude

907 posts

127 months

Tuesday 31st May 2016
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INWB said:
Mine would. Married 24 years BTW. You have identified the problem. It is you.
I agree with INWB. OP, you're a

Allanv

3,540 posts

186 months

Tuesday 31st May 2016
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xjay1337 said:
Do you think your Mrs would still shag you if you didn't take her for dinner, buy her stuff, drive her places, etc.
What an odd thing to think or even say?

I think we are doing fine after 26 years. You really need to evaluate what you think of yourself before you find a girlfriend.

mattknight1984

157 posts

115 months

Tuesday 31st May 2016
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This thread has to be a windup, surely? OP comes across as quite a "special".

sc0tt

18,036 posts

201 months

Tuesday 31st May 2016
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sunnydude said:
INWB said:
Mine would. Married 24 years BTW. You have identified the problem. It is you.
I agree with INWB. OP, you're a
Just checking if you've had sex yet sunny?

xjay1337

Original Poster:

15,966 posts

118 months

Tuesday 31st May 2016
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laughlaughlaugh

Some people don't clearly can't tell sarcasm through written text.

Vaud

50,386 posts

155 months

Tuesday 31st May 2016
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xjay1337 said:
laughlaughlaugh

Some people don't clearly can't tell sarcasm through written text.
In the same way that some posters write,"Then once I started to see some parts of her personality, quiet, naive, annoying little things like leaving her contact lenses on the side table and stuff I began to get annoyed."... some might detect issues from a single posting.

xjay1337

Original Poster:

15,966 posts

118 months

Tuesday 31st May 2016
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That's fair enough.