I hope you are well

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0000

13,812 posts

191 months

Friday 27th May 2016
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Cotty said:
I have Skype but don't use it, is it a useful tool?

I just find that if someone wants to ask me a question other than using a phone they can email me. Am I missing something?
It can be. Everyone in a company I work with is on it, mostly working from home.

Cotty

39,539 posts

284 months

Friday 27th May 2016
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0000 said:
It can be. Everyone in a company I work with is on it, mostly working from home.
I have remote offices, Mumbai, New York, Germany, London, etc. What is the benefit over email?

tribbles

3,974 posts

222 months

Friday 27th May 2016
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Cotty said:
I have Skype but don't use it, is it a useful tool?

I just find that if someone wants to ask me a question other than using a phone they can email me. Am I missing something?
We've got Skype for Business (used to be called "Lync"). Because we're multi-national, it's quite handy to ask questions which may not need an immediate reply (if you want an immediate reply, you'd call), or if it's short (if it's a long topic, you'd email).

For example, "Can I call you?" would be something you'd quite often do with Skype, as would "Can you remember if ...?", or "Have you got time for a quick question?"

I do have one rule though - I always for their second line before making a reply, unless they don't know the rule - in which case I'll make them wait a few seconds. The first line is usually "Hi, Tribbles", and the second line is normally what they're after.

Unless it's "How are you doing?", in which case I know I'm there for the long-haul...

0000

13,812 posts

191 months

Friday 27th May 2016
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Cotty said:
0000 said:
It can be. Everyone in a company I work with is on it, mostly working from home.
I have remote offices, Mumbai, New York, Germany, London, etc. What is the benefit over email?
It's different, we still use email. Mostly use it for video calls and instant messaging - being able to just leave it open and send a quick one liner every now and again is quite useful (can you send me that spreadsheet, what time are you leaving today), or drag and drop files. Actually, just the status (online, offline, away, busy) is great for letting you know when someone's there and so you can call them on Skype there and then or if they're offline drop them an email they can pick up later.

0000

13,812 posts

191 months

Friday 27th May 2016
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When you don't see someone very often video calls work quite well to maintain that relationship. It's a bit odd when you meet people for the first time despite having made video calls to them daily though.

Trabi601

4,865 posts

95 months

Friday 27th May 2016
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Always sounds like something you'd see in a Nigerian scam email to me.

Cotty

39,539 posts

284 months

Friday 27th May 2016
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tribbles said:
For example, "Can I call you?" would be something you'd quite often do with Skype, as would "Can you remember if ...?", or "Have you got time for a quick question?"
Using your example of "Can I call you?" you could send the same message via email or why not just call them?

If you are already using email why introduce another tool that in my eyes does the same thing? Sorry if I am being obtuse.

mudster

784 posts

244 months

Saturday 28th May 2016
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A phone call is an instant demand on someone's time. Can use Skype just to ask informally for a call back when free. It's much less formal than an email (which tends to be used when you need a written record for ass covering).

One of the best uses of Skype I find, is the ability to share you screen with someone when running through something. Can describe and show people what you mean. Picture paints a 1000 words etc.

Trabi601

4,865 posts

95 months

Saturday 28th May 2016
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mudster said:
A phone call is an instant demand on someone's time. Can use Skype just to ask informally for a call back when free. It's much less formal than an email (which tends to be used when you need a written record for ass covering).

One of the best uses of Skype I find, is the ability to share you screen with someone when running through something. Can describe and show people what you mean. Picture paints a 1000 words etc.
We use Lync extensively at work - it was a real revelation to me when I started this job. After 8 years in home / field based roles, trying to do everything using traditional telephony and email, the ability to 'ping' someone to ask a quick question, or ask for a call when free - and the screen sharing stuff - has made life much easier and less isolated.

bayleaf

285 posts

99 months

Saturday 28th May 2016
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Cotty said:
tribbles said:
For example, "Can I call you?" would be something you'd quite often do with Skype, as would "Can you remember if ...?", or "Have you got time for a quick question?"
Using your example of "Can I call you?" you could send the same message via email or why not just call them?

If you are already using email why introduce another tool that in my eyes does the same thing? Sorry if I am being obtuse.
Maybe other people's jobs are different to yours.

simoid

19,772 posts

158 months

Saturday 28th May 2016
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EnthusiastOwned said:
My colleague says:

"I hope this e-mail finds you well"

What a non greeting. WTF!
I had that regularly from someone. I actually googled it to check they weren't loopy. Turns out it's fairly standard!

Sometimes I comment about the weather. I assume I'm going to hell.

dfen5

2,398 posts

212 months

Saturday 28th May 2016
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I've started getting a few "I hope this email finds you well and in good spirits". I almost relax before continuing to read the email. As suggested previously, it just sets the tone.

The emails that just start with your forename tend to get my back up before I've even read them. These tend to be piss-poor attempts at being 'snotty'. Common courtesy and good manners costs nothing.

Jasandjules

69,889 posts

229 months

Saturday 28th May 2016
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I have always been tempted to reply with

"Not good, the wife has run away with the milkman. I'll miss him".....

As above, it is the same as the "how are you" opener that some people go with - 99% of the time they really couldn't give a s**t what your answer is though...

Cotty

39,539 posts

284 months

Saturday 28th May 2016
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mudster said:

One of the best uses of Skype I find, is the ability to share you screen with someone when running through something. Can describe and show people what you mean. Picture paints a 1000 words etc.
Screen sharing, that sounds interesting will have to look into that.

tribbles

3,974 posts

222 months

Sunday 29th May 2016
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Cotty said:
tribbles said:
For example, "Can I call you?" would be something you'd quite often do with Skype, as would "Can you remember if ...?", or "Have you got time for a quick question?"
Using your example of "Can I call you?" you could send the same message via email or why not just call them?

If you are already using email why introduce another tool that in my eyes does the same thing? Sorry if I am being obtuse.
You're right in that email can do the same thing - but Skype is more immediate while not being that intrusive. If you can't call, then you can always reply by asking if you can help via Skype (which would be the same window as you're currently using).

But where email can be from anyone, Skype tends to be only from your contacts, so you get an immediate filter (you could probably have folders in your email for colleagues, and monitor them).

And, as has been mentioned before, you also get to know if the person is at their desk or not (you can set your status so you are busy). If you're on a call, or in a meeting, then Skype for business will also show that to your colleagues.

C.A.R.

3,967 posts

188 months

Sunday 29th May 2016
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Mine usually start with "apologies for the late reply"

Because I think I've already replied then later realise that I had only imagined what I was going to email back with and hadn't actually sent anything.

I'm good like that.

Some of the wimmin in the office send those smiley faces at the end of emails. Again, no harm done, it's exactly like if you phone them and they call you -
Petal
Flower
Chick
etc.

Just friendly, innit.

Impasse

15,099 posts

241 months

Sunday 29th May 2016
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C.A.R. said:
Just friendly, innit.
It is, yes. x

jdw100

4,113 posts

164 months

Monday 30th May 2016
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How about signing off emails with;

I'll remember your kind words.

Any thoughts?

Oakey

27,566 posts

216 months

Tuesday 31st May 2016
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Lmao, I must have had this thread subconsciously in my mind because I just rang a client and the convo went;

Me "Hi so and so, it's oakey"

Him "oh hi Oakey, how are you?"

Me "Have you received the invoice?"

I actually feel a bit of a tbh.

Kind Regards

Oakey

Triumph Man

8,690 posts

168 months

Tuesday 31st May 2016
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If I haven't spoken to or corresponded with somebody I know in a while I will put "I hope you are well" in an email. I also put Hi/Dear (their name), Cheers/Kind regards (My name). A little bit of friendliness doesn't go amiss.