Are you well dressed? A PH gentleman thread.

Are you well dressed? A PH gentleman thread.

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InductionRoar

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2,014 posts

132 months

Friday 3rd June 2016
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As a regular poster on “Show us your new shoes” and “Pocket squares – anyone else wear them?” it seems a thread discussing smart and formal attire would prove a useful addition to these other well-established threads.

Styleforum and Ask Andy About Clothes are often recommended to members seeking sartorial advice but it seems a shame to me that PH doesn’t have its own thread dedicated to the topic - particularly as there are quite a few members who have a good amount of knowledge on such things.

The intention of the thread is to act as a means of giving and receiving good natured advice on any aspect of gentleman’s (ladies are of course welcome) smart or formal attire, showing off new purchases and generally appreciating fine clothes and accessories.

The inevitable banter will of course arise (and should be encouraged) but if we could please refrain from personal insults that would be much appreciated. thumbup

So, first up me…

I work in an office environment and only “dress-up” socially. For this reason I do not own a suit as I find them too business-like for socialising and I almost always prefer to see a skilfully put together outfit outside of work.

I am possibly attending a (semi-casual) networking meeting in the near future where I shall be representing the firm and obviously appearance is very important.

My current plan is to wear a wine coloured blazer, dark blue trousers, plain white (double cuff) shirt with tie and pocket square along with cherry (semi-brogue) oxfords.

Ordinarily I would be more than comfortable wearing this outfit but I am certainly going to be the most (over)dressed person representing our firm. I am not the most senior (but far from the most junior) member of staff attending but I am aiming to strike the correct balance of well dressed and professional.

Any suggestions?


V40Vinnie

863 posts

119 months

Friday 3rd June 2016
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If it was me i would be going with Oxford Shoes, Dark jeans, smart shirt and a blazer no tie. I find pocket squares a bit too OTT. However that probably reflects my age bracket 30-39

AlpineWhite

2,141 posts

195 months

Friday 3rd June 2016
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If it's not a formal event, I'd lose the tie. A shame, as it's a satisfying part of an outfit...

Shaw Tarse

31,543 posts

203 months

Friday 3rd June 2016
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AlpineWhite said:
If it's not a formal event, I'd lose the tie. A shame, as it's a satisfying part of an outfit...
Wear a cravat?

Orchid1

878 posts

108 months

Friday 3rd June 2016
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Do you not have a live in seamstress to help you?

Lucas CAV

3,022 posts

219 months

Friday 3rd June 2016
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I would say that the decision whether or not to wear a wine coloured blazer rests entirely upon what industry you work in....

Personally I think it sounds a bit

Mart-1

441 posts

200 months

Friday 3rd June 2016
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InductionRoar said:
My current plan is to wear a wine coloured blazer, dark blue trousers, plain white (double cuff) shirt with tie and pocket square along with cherry (semi-brogue) oxfords.
My immediate reaction was this



Is this the look you're after? wink

InductionRoar

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2,014 posts

132 months

Friday 3rd June 2016
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hehe

Are we suggesting the Al Murray/children's entertainer look isn't a good one so early on? wink

On a serious note though I probably agree with the absence of a tie which in turn makes me think towards button cuffs instead of cufflinks.


_Nathan_

505 posts

248 months

Friday 3rd June 2016
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grumbledoak

31,532 posts

233 months

Friday 3rd June 2016
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So, 3/3 on the wine coloured blazer. Noted. hehe

bayleaf

285 posts

99 months

Friday 3rd June 2016
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InductionRoar said:
As a regular poster on “Show us your new shoes” and “Pocket squares – anyone else wear them?” it seems a thread discussing smart and formal attire would prove a useful addition to these other well-established threads.

Styleforum and Ask Andy About Clothes are often recommended to members seeking sartorial advice but it seems a shame to me that PH doesn’t have its own thread dedicated to the topic - particularly as there are quite a few members who have a good amount of knowledge on such things.

The intention of the thread is to act as a means of giving and receiving good natured advice on any aspect of gentleman’s (ladies are of course welcome) smart or formal attire, showing off new purchases and generally appreciating fine clothes and accessories.

The inevitable banter will of course arise (and should be encouraged) but if we could please refrain from personal insults that would be much appreciated. thumbup

So, first up me…

I work in an office environment and only “dress-up” socially. For this reason I do not own a suit as I find them too business-like for socialising and I almost always prefer to see a skilfully put together outfit outside of work.

I am possibly attending a (semi-casual) networking meeting in the near future where I shall be representing the firm and obviously appearance is very important.

My current plan is to wear a wine coloured blazer, dark blue trousers, plain white (double cuff) shirt with tie and pocket square along with cherry (semi-brogue) oxfords.

Ordinarily I would be more than comfortable wearing this outfit but I am certainly going to be the most (over)dressed person representing our firm. I am not the most senior (but far from the most junior) member of staff attending but I am aiming to strike the correct balance of well dressed and professional.

Any suggestions?
You and your thread are fking absurd!! Your dress sense is ridiculous and the way you type is cringeworthy.

My suggestion is to go to a prostitute for an hour and then afterwards see the world through normal eyes. They're very kind with people like you I've heard.

InductionRoar

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2,014 posts

132 months

Friday 3rd June 2016
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bayleaf said:
You and your thread are fking absurd!! Your dress sense is ridiculous and the way you type is cringeworthy.

My suggestion is to go to a prostitute for an hour and then afterwards see the world through normal eyes. They're very kind with people like you I've heard.
You seem a top bloke. thumbup

Please elaborate on which particular aspect of my dress sense is ridiculous.

g3org3y

20,627 posts

191 months

Friday 3rd June 2016
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InductionRoar said:
I am possibly attending a (semi-casual) networking meeting in the near future where I shall be representing the firm and obviously appearance is very important.

My current plan is to wear a wine coloured blazer, dark blue trousers, plain white (double cuff) shirt with tie and pocket square along with cherry (semi-brogue) oxfords.

Ordinarily I would be more than comfortable wearing this outfit but I am certainly going to be the most (over)dressed person representing our firm. I am not the most senior (but far from the most junior) member of staff attending but I am aiming to strike the correct balance of well dressed and professional.
If you're meeting new people for networking, the outfit might seem a bit too extrovert IYSWIM.

I'd recommend a navy blazer, cream/tan trousers and brown shoes/boots (brogues or chukkas). Given the semi-casual nature of the event, I'd eschew the tie and go for either a light blue or white shirt. As you've suggested, splash of colour with a pocket square.

Not very adventurous as such, but inoffensive and will still look smart without potentially coming across as 'try-hard'.

Edit to add: Yes, I agree, no tie = single cuffs on the shirt.

bayleaf said:
You and your thread are fking absurd!! Your dress sense is ridiculous and the way you type is cringeworthy.

My suggestion is to go to a prostitute for an hour and then afterwards see the world through normal eyes. They're very kind with people like you I've heard.
What do you hope to achieve with such comments? Seems entirely unnecessary. confused

Edited by g3org3y on Friday 3rd June 19:25

gl20

1,123 posts

149 months

Friday 3rd June 2016
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Op. Sounds a bit too dressy to me but up to you. Personally, I'd definitely not be trying to wear a wine coloured jacket with cherry coloured shoes. If you can get a blue blazer to go with the blue trousers then ok or, otherwise, can you wear jeans or is that too casual? I'd lose the tie and switch to a fine check shirt to break it up a bit and that way you could keep the pocket square if you want. If not jeans then maybe tan trousers as above (I think cream runs the risk of looking like Terry Wogan (RIP))

InductionRoar

Original Poster:

2,014 posts

132 months

Friday 3rd June 2016
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g3org3y said:
InductionRoar said:
I am possibly attending a (semi-casual) networking meeting in the near future where I shall be representing the firm and obviously appearance is very important.

My current plan is to wear a wine coloured blazer, dark blue trousers, plain white (double cuff) shirt with tie and pocket square along with cherry (semi-brogue) oxfords.

Ordinarily I would be more than comfortable wearing this outfit but I am certainly going to be the most (over)dressed person representing our firm. I am not the most senior (but far from the most junior) member of staff attending but I am aiming to strike the correct balance of well dressed and professional.
If you're meeting new people for networking, the outfit might seem a bit too extrovert IYSWIM.

I'd recommend a navy blazer, cream/tan trousers and brown shoes/boots (brogues or chukkas). Given the semi-casual nature of the event, I'd eschew the tie and go for either a light blue or white shirt. As you've suggested, splash of colour with a pocket square.

Not very adventurous as such, but inoffensive and will still look smart without potentially coming across as 'try-hard'.

Edit to add: Yes, I agree, no tie = single cuffs on the shirt.

bayleaf said:
You and your thread are fking absurd!! Your dress sense is ridiculous and the way you type is cringeworthy.

My suggestion is to go to a prostitute for an hour and then afterwards see the world through normal eyes. They're very kind with people like you I've heard.
What do you hope to achieve with such comments? Seems entirely unnecessary. confused

Edited by g3org3y on Friday 3rd June 19:25
Agreed - I think I will go tie-less. thumbup

Unsure what Bayleaf's issues are but I suspect my dress sense and typing are the least of them.

In the interest of completeness here is my Al Murray costume. hehe



The jacket works for me and I have only ever received positive comments on it but I agree - too much for the occasion.



fttm

3,686 posts

135 months

Friday 3rd June 2016
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is your name Matt ?

OscarIndia

1,128 posts

172 months

Friday 3rd June 2016
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That outfit is fine if you are waiting on, but as a guest?

AdamFX

242 posts

145 months

Friday 3rd June 2016
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Too formal. Lose the tie and pocket square. I also can't get on with the jacket/shoe colour combo, although both nice in isolation.

I'd go dark jeans/trousers, shirt with no tie, v neck jumper with a jacket over the top.

dmitsi

3,583 posts

220 months

Friday 3rd June 2016
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Maybe you should learn how to do your tie properly first...

Trabi601

4,865 posts

95 months

Friday 3rd June 2016
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V40Vinnie said:
If it was me i would be going with Oxford Shoes, Dark jeans, smart shirt and a blazer no tie. I find pocket squares a bit too OTT. However that probably reflects my age bracket 30-39
To me, that reflects a much older age group - and is more than a tad Alan Partridge.