Tell us something really trivial about your life (Vol 28)
Discussion
Jim AK has returned to North London/Herts from Kent, as we are doing it all in the 3rd person!
Not banned from here V6, we have a house down there, was Mrs Jim AK's before she was Mrs Jim AK & as I had one up here already we decided a gaff by the coast was a good idea.
Also, provided this Brexit thing doesn't go Tits up, my place is now worth Mental Money & my pensions will be s
te, so it's a win win....... I think!
Not banned from here V6, we have a house down there, was Mrs Jim AK's before she was Mrs Jim AK & as I had one up here already we decided a gaff by the coast was a good idea.
Also, provided this Brexit thing doesn't go Tits up, my place is now worth Mental Money & my pensions will be s
te, so it's a win win....... I think!
Windows 10 kept giving me pictures of outdoor scenes to gaze at on start up with a Not Interested option. I was so disinterested that eventually I stopped pressing the Not Interested button. In response, Windows 10 decided that if I wasn't Not Interested then I must be Interested and should now have pictures of outdoor scenes without the option.
Big Brother or what?
If I could be arsed I'd find out how to either switch them off or have my pics instead. Cars, grandchildren or my random stuff rather than their random stuff? Tough decision.
Big Brother or what?
If I could be arsed I'd find out how to either switch them off or have my pics instead. Cars, grandchildren or my random stuff rather than their random stuff? Tough decision.
Vitorio said:
And yet again i find myself pissed off at women folk..
GF has serious issues about the way i keep in touch with the ex (because kids...), and while everything is hunky-dory when we are together, she then starts a fight over text when im at work..
I hate to say this but she needs telling that your kids are more important to you than she is, the price of keeping in touch with your kids is talking to the ex so it has to happen. Live with it or fGF has serious issues about the way i keep in touch with the ex (because kids...), and while everything is hunky-dory when we are together, she then starts a fight over text when im at work..
k off.I am lucky, my wife understands why I have to talk to my ex, she understands that there is (and always has been) precisely zero chance of me going back to the ex so she doesnt get jealous. If she had got jealous then there is no way we would have stayed together so long.
GOG440 said:
I hate to say this but she needs telling that your kids are more important to you than she is, the price of keeping in touch with your kids is talking to the ex so it has to happen. Live with it or fk off.
I am lucky, my wife understands why I have to talk to my ex, she understands that there is (and always has been) precisely zero chance of me going back to the ex so she doesnt get jealous. If she had got jealous then there is no way we would have stayed together so long.
100% with GOG on this.k off.I am lucky, my wife understands why I have to talk to my ex, she understands that there is (and always has been) precisely zero chance of me going back to the ex so she doesnt get jealous. If she had got jealous then there is no way we would have stayed together so long.
Most people over 30 have 'baggage' these days, oddly Mrs Jim AK didn't & neither did I, but I like to think I'd deal with it if she had & she would be the same.
Children must have input from both parents unless there's a legal reason not to.
Don't get why she wants the fight by text either.
Serious thinks needed there Vittie, imo.
Jim AK said:
GOG440 said:
I hate to say this but she needs telling that your kids are more important to you than she is, the price of keeping in touch with your kids is talking to the ex so it has to happen. Live with it or fk off.
I am lucky, my wife understands why I have to talk to my ex, she understands that there is (and always has been) precisely zero chance of me going back to the ex so she doesnt get jealous. If she had got jealous then there is no way we would have stayed together so long.
100% with GOG on this.k off.I am lucky, my wife understands why I have to talk to my ex, she understands that there is (and always has been) precisely zero chance of me going back to the ex so she doesnt get jealous. If she had got jealous then there is no way we would have stayed together so long.
Most people over 30 have 'baggage' these days, oddly Mrs Jim AK didn't & neither did I, but I like to think I'd deal with it if she had & she would be the same.
Children must have input from both parents unless there's a legal reason not to.
Don't get why she wants the fight by text either.
Serious thinks needed there Vittie, imo.
We'll be fine, it was mostly the work hours text fight that got under my skin.
Vitorio said:
Had a talk with her over lunch, explained my position and she apologised. She knows the kids are #1, but the way my ex mindlessly just asks me things gets under her skin, and im a little slower in re-drawing lines then she'd like.
We'll be fiane, it was mostly the work hours text fight that got under my skin.
Yeh. I can see that.We'll be fiane, it was mostly the work hours text fight that got under my skin.
If the ex War office is ringing you because the sink is blocked at her house, her cars f
ked or something I guess new gf is right, would annoy me too!! Redraw the boundaries as best you can, keep up your end of any deal over access to your kids, their maintenance etc & hopefully all will be fine.
Must be a total Git to sort it all for Christmas too.
Buenas Dias chaps
Vittie just tell everyone who'll listen to sod off. Leave it a couple of days and then make life friends with anyone who is not offended. You have to be your own man you can't be pushed around and dictated to by everyone or there'll nothing of Vittie left.
Vittie just tell everyone who'll listen to sod off. Leave it a couple of days and then make life friends with anyone who is not offended. You have to be your own man you can't be pushed around and dictated to by everyone or there'll nothing of Vittie left.
Edited by V6Pushfit on Monday 5th December 15:42
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