Strange relationship developed. HELP!

Strange relationship developed. HELP!

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hora

37,129 posts

211 months

Monday 26th September 2016
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Oh eck, the plot thickens.


anonymous-user

54 months

Monday 26th September 2016
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In before the delete...

WinstonWolf

72,857 posts

239 months

Monday 26th September 2016
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FN2TypeR said:
desolate said:
Some strange blokes on this thread.
More than likely a pack of middle aged men who haven't seen their wives pussies for years who are getting hot under the collar at the idea of a young lad sticking his little pee pee into a woman closer to their own age than his, the indignation of it all.

I would be backing out of this one quite quickly though, you say you love her but she doesn't seem all that fussed - it's going to either hurt you by blowing in your face and that will cause problems with your mates.

Call it a day and stop chasing her IMO.
Sorry for the tardy reply, at least one of us middle-aged men was getting it while you were posting on PH...

xjay1337

15,966 posts

118 months

Monday 26th September 2016
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anothernameitist said:
She is not 49.

She is called Becky and is 51.

Good catch fella
Oooo. Intruiging.

OP, is it like throwing a cocktail sausage down a hallway?

g3org3y

20,627 posts

191 months

Monday 26th September 2016
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anothernameitist said:
She is not 49.

She is called Becky and is 51.

Good catch fella


Sheets Tabuer

18,961 posts

215 months

Monday 26th September 2016
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anothernameitist said:
She is not 49.

She is called Becky and is 51.

Good catch fella
Are you 43? scratchchin

InductionRoar

2,014 posts

132 months

Monday 26th September 2016
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anothernameitist said:
She is not 49.

She is called Becky and is 51.

Good catch fella
Can't be many 51 year olds called Becky with those measurements...

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Shnozz

27,474 posts

271 months

Monday 26th September 2016
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Trabi601 said:
He's gone past the 'fun' bit to declaring that he loves her. That's when it's time to move on.
This is the part that jumps out at me.

All well and good saying fill ya boots and learn your art, but the OP strikes me as emotionally naive (as he has then confirmed by the fact he has only had one relationship in his adult life). This screams danger to me.

bobtail4x4

3,716 posts

109 months

Monday 26th September 2016
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fill your boots lad,
the girls you meet later in life will thank you for it,

I was "dating" a 45 yr old at 21, you can learn a lot.

M3333

2,261 posts

214 months

Monday 26th September 2016
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bobtail4x4 said:
fill your boots lad,
the girls you meet later in life will thank you for it,

I was "dating" a 45 yr old at 21, you can learn a lot.
This totally. Don't think about it too much, just enjoy yourself, unless she goes full on bunny boiler then end it.

I was 23, she was 43, just divorced and lonely. She had a lovely place on Windermere with a 4 poster bed (laugh) and for the 6 months it lasted I learnt a lot and had an awful lot of fun hehe

LordHaveMurci

12,043 posts

169 months

Monday 26th September 2016
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Had a few hook ups with a 40 something divorcee when I was in my twenties, opened my eyes for sure! My mates took the pi55 for years but it was water off a ducks back.

About 5yrs later another lad in our group lived with a 50 something ex Bunny Girl, he was late twenties & had a ball while it lasted!

M3333

2,261 posts

214 months

Monday 26th September 2016
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LordHaveMurci said:
Had a few hook ups with a 40 something divorcee when I was in my twenties, opened my eyes for sure! My mates took the pi55 for years but it was water off a ducks back.

About 5yrs later another lad in our group lived with a 50 something ex Bunny Girl, he was late twenties & had a ball while it lasted!
Mine gave me loads of crap for it, some of them still do and I am 35 now. I got an awful lot of references to this hehe

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=u8obQko2Stg

anothernameitist

1,500 posts

135 months

Monday 26th September 2016
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Sheets Tabuer said:
Are you 43? scratchchin
No 49 and I'm not becky cross dressing either

anonymous-user

54 months

Monday 26th September 2016
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anothernameitist said:
Sheets Tabuer said:
Are you 43? scratchchin
No 49 and I'm not becky cross dressing either
I'm No 47 and I thought I'd seen you in stilettos

anothernameitist

1,500 posts

135 months

Monday 26th September 2016
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V6Pushfit said:
anothernameitist said:
Sheets Tabuer said:
Are you 43? scratchchin
No 49 and I'm not becky cross dressing either
I'm No 47 and I thought I'd seen you in stilettos
What you get up to on a weekend isn't my business you mucky bd !

DuncanM

6,183 posts

279 months

Monday 26th September 2016
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In the 7 months, how long was the 43 year old still boffing her?

If I was to guess, is she out of your league OP?

Ignore the age, she is size 8 32DD and fit. If your ages were similar, are you in her league, or are you punching?

So, she's getting the affection from the OP, and the sexual satisfaction from the older chap?


BlueFiestaST

9,079 posts

165 months

Monday 26th September 2016
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My wife used to work with a woman who was 52. Took care of herself. Wouldn't think she was 52, maybe early 40s.
She used to meet lads as young as 20 every so often.
I don't think you want to be growing old with someone who is 26 years older than you, especially as you are 23 but too right enjoy yourself.

callmedave

2,686 posts

145 months

Monday 26th September 2016
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OP, She does sound she has a case of the mental about her, She wants more from someone else, doesnt get it and moves on to you (as you gave her the companionship she wanted) if you are both happy then carry on, tell the other guy but be prepared for the consequences: kicked from the 'group' a but of abuse if hes not mature about it.

I honestly dont see this relationship lasting, but your 23, youve nothing to loose (unless she is shagging other guys and you catch something!- wear a cap)

Im sure you will learn a few tricks that will help you out with other girls, but just enjoy it for what it is.

callmedave

2,686 posts

145 months

Monday 26th September 2016
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anothernameitist said:
She is not 49.

She is called Becky and is 51.

Good catch fella
Whoosh??

sidaorb

5,589 posts

206 months

Monday 26th September 2016
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Ever since I left school and started work I enjoyed the pleasure of a number of older work colleagues at various jobs I had, most fun was at 23 with a 46 year old. I say enjoy it while it lasts.

I was also even luckier at 41 when I got divorced to be comforted by a work colleague at the time that was 23.

So I've done the plus 23 years and the minus 18 years.

Heyho lifes a bh.