Strange relationship developed. HELP!

Strange relationship developed. HELP!

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Monkeylegend

26,444 posts

232 months

Sunday 25th September 2016
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Sheets Tabuer said:
I don't know why I find that funny but I do.

kowalski655

14,656 posts

144 months

Sunday 25th September 2016
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This ended OK didnt it?

Monkeylegend

26,444 posts

232 months

Sunday 25th September 2016
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McFsC said:


and I have told noone.
Not sure he will be any help, bit of a hermit nowadays.

She has lost interest, you are star struck, move on and find somebody a bit younger. She is probably going through the menopause so all bets are off now.

battered

4,088 posts

148 months

Sunday 25th September 2016
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kowalski655 said:
This ended OK didnt it?
I dunno. That Alfa of his was pretty f*ed by the time he'd finished ragging it across San Fran.

anonymous-user

55 months

Sunday 25th September 2016
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maybe suggest a threesome with your mate.

Trabi601

4,865 posts

96 months

Sunday 25th September 2016
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MX5_Nuts said:
Just make sure you stock up plenty of lube.

McFsC

Original Poster:

578 posts

153 months

Sunday 25th September 2016
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I had a relationship with a girl when I was 18 for about 18 months, but distance got in the way as we met at college and we didn't really have that much in common. It was more a convenience than love looking back. I didn't have the same feelings I do now anyway so this is the first woman I have really enjoyed the company of etc...

PurpleMoonlight

22,362 posts

158 months

Sunday 25th September 2016
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You might get dumped for someone older. But that risk aside if you are both happy then run with it.

andy_s

19,404 posts

260 months

Sunday 25th September 2016
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S10GTA

12,686 posts

168 months

Sunday 25th September 2016
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Had a similar situation quite a few years ago. Gap was around 20/25 years. Just enjoy it as friends with benefits. It will fizzle out. Mine did as she got a bit too keen and I didn't want anyone finding out as it was a bit embarrassing. Fun tho.

347Andy

746 posts

97 months

Sunday 25th September 2016
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You have had a bit of fun but there was never going to be a future in it so the best thing you can do is move on.

Sheets Tabuer

18,982 posts

216 months

Sunday 25th September 2016
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347Andy said:
there was never going to be a future.
Nonsense, they could have a beautiful famil... oh erm
They could grow old toge.... erm

Freds

947 posts

138 months

Sunday 25th September 2016
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Well you did mention 'strange relationship' in the title. Tell you what, put a photo of her on here and I'm sure some of us older and wiser chaps will advise accordingly......laugh

jonamv8

3,151 posts

167 months

Sunday 25th September 2016
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Is your mate still your mate? The one who was shaggin her?

Quite the age gap. It wont last when your 33 she will be rough and you will find loads of younger girls attractive.

I did love milf tho when a bit younger and had a sinilar thing going on. Was fun but we both knew the score.

She probably has a new penpal

WinstonWolf

72,857 posts

240 months

Sunday 25th September 2016
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You will learn a lot, enjoy it for what it is for as long as it lasts.

McFsC

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578 posts

153 months

Sunday 25th September 2016
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No photos but she's fit, small, size 8, 32DD...

I need to lose some of my feelings and just enjoy it by the sounds of it. Maybe a few days here and there of not messaging, get back into what I was doing 7/8 months ago and just see her when it suits us both. We would meet up at like 9pm as that's the only time we were free, go for walks, meet in quiet places etc. It really was mental.

daqinggegg

1,520 posts

130 months

Sunday 25th September 2016
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Simple, wants to make, ex-husband, ex-boyfriend jealous,by getting a younger guy. You are pawn in her game. Run, and run again.
Had this many moons ago, first time' I obliged, second time sent her to sleep in the spare room.
Do you believe ex-husband was blown out, or her! you are just bate fodder.

burritoNinja

690 posts

101 months

Sunday 25th September 2016
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If your Mother ends up in a nursing home she will be worried you will be out to pull a pensioner.

The lady is near 50 years old and you're 23. What on earth does she have in common with a 23 year old? I am 33 and the vast majority if girls in their early 20's that I've worked with are so immature and I literally have zero in common with them. Sexually yes, they are my type being in their 20's and at the peak of their attractive side but their personalities is a no-no. Plus she is even older than your own Mother. Closer to your Grandmothers age.

My in-laws had this weird marriage. My MIL was 18 years old and the FIL was in his 40's. I think daddy issues might have been why she dated somebody that old. They got married and stayed together for 20 years before it all ended with her having an affair with a man her own age. She was in her late 30's and wanted to go do stuff. He was in his 60's and was a major stamp collector.


Freds

947 posts

138 months

Sunday 25th September 2016
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Alternatively, think forward to when you're her age, her tits will resemble spaniels ears and her wotsit is as dry as burnt toast. Could you ?

uber

855 posts

171 months

Sunday 25th September 2016
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You are infactuated and in love with her and she is going through a crisis after the divorce which makes for a very bad recipe.

If she was in love with you and comfortable she would be trying to keep hold of you and most likely shouting from rooftops that you are together. In reality she is currently enjoying "single" life and leading you along a path so she can give you the "BF" experience as you bow to her demands.

If shes happy to lie to your friend she will be happy to lie to you so do not be supprised if shes banging another couple of the group with the same arrangement as you have.

It's time to trade in your bike for a new model with less miles and less drama.