Strange relationship developed. HELP!

Strange relationship developed. HELP!

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JuniorD

8,628 posts

224 months

Sunday 25th September 2016
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WinstonWolf said:
desolate said:
V6Pushfit said:
Cant you find anyone your own age? It's all going to end either when you wake up or she gets bored so why not fast forward to that now and save time?
Why do anything?
yes save time? And do what, miss out on a lot of fun?

Fill your boots OP
Boots is a rather disrespectful way to describe his sackemptier

anonymous-user

55 months

Sunday 25th September 2016
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McFsC said:
No photos but she's fit, small, size 8, 32DD...

I need to lose some of my feelings and just enjoy it by the sounds of it. Maybe a few days here and there of not messaging, get back into what I was doing 7/8 months ago and just see her when it suits us both. We would meet up at like 9pm as that's the only time we were free, go for walks, meet in quiet places etc. It really was mental.
Sounds like a wild ride you've been having

I think you should ask your mum for advice and stick with that.


Edited by anonymous-user on Sunday 25th September 20:39

Condi

17,231 posts

172 months

Sunday 25th September 2016
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Just enjoy it but if either of you get feelings for each other its time to stop. It sounds like you're already there...

anonymous-user

55 months

Sunday 25th September 2016
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desolate said:
V6Pushfit said:
Cant you find anyone your own age? It's all going to end either when you wake up or she gets bored so why not fast forward to that now and save time?
Why do anything?
For the reasons I've said?

WinstonWolf

72,857 posts

240 months

Sunday 25th September 2016
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V6Pushfit said:
desolate said:
V6Pushfit said:
Cant you find anyone your own age? It's all going to end either when you wake up or she gets bored so why not fast forward to that now and save time?
Why do anything?
For the reasons I've said?
51 year old me would tell 23 year old me to completely ignore you biggrin

anonymous-user

55 months

Sunday 25th September 2016
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WinstonWolf said:
V6Pushfit said:
desolate said:
V6Pushfit said:
Cant you find anyone your own age? It's all going to end either when you wake up or she gets bored so why not fast forward to that now and save time?
Why do anything?
For the reasons I've said?
51 year old me would tell 23 year old me to completely ignore you biggrin
Looking back yes but looking forwards he's going up a blind alley and wasting time while he's at it

anonymous-user

55 months

Sunday 25th September 2016
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WinstonWolf said:
51 year old me would tell 23 year old me to completely ignore you biggrin
Exactly.

We have a woman who is single, 32DD and size 8.
We have a single 23 year old with his own place.

Sounds like an outstanding opportunity for them both.


Monkeylegend

26,465 posts

232 months

Sunday 25th September 2016
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V6Pushfit said:
Looking back yes but looking forwards he's going up a blind alley and wasting time while he's at it
At least he's learnt to ride a bike.

anonymous-user

55 months

Sunday 25th September 2016
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Monkeylegend said:
At least he's learnt to ride a bike.
rofl

anonymous-user

55 months

Sunday 25th September 2016
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Monkeylegend said:
V6Pushfit said:
Looking back yes but looking forwards he's going up a blind alley and wasting time while he's at it
At least he's learnt to ride a bike.
Nothing up with blind alleys providing you leave room to turn round at the end.


anonymous-user

55 months

Sunday 25th September 2016
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Seriously though he'll risk losing his mates, years of his life and it's ultimately doomed

battered

4,088 posts

148 months

Sunday 25th September 2016
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"Wasting time"?
What's the f* ing rush? He's 23 FFS.
Wasting time when he could be doing what? Changing nappies with a 21 year old mother? Well, there's a great life choice. He really wants to rush into that.
He's 23, he's having a good time. When that stops, move on. Until then he's a 23 year old man having a good time with a woman of his choosing.

I think there are more than a few people here who are getting a bit jealous.

anonymous-user

55 months

Sunday 25th September 2016
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desolate said:
We have a woman who is single, 32DD and size 8.

Sounds like an outstanding opportunity for them both.
32DD??????????????

Apologies OP

As you were

Trabi601

4,865 posts

96 months

Sunday 25th September 2016
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battered said:
"Wasting time"?
What's the f* ing rush? He's 23 FFS.
Wasting time when he could be doing what? Changing nappies with a 21 year old mother? Well, there's a great life choice. He really wants to rush into that.
He's 23, he's having a good time. When that stops, move on. Until then he's a 23 year old man having a good time with a woman of his choosing.

I think there are more than a few people here who are getting a bit jealous.
He's gone past the 'fun' bit to declaring that he loves her. That's when it's time to move on.

Monkeylegend

26,465 posts

232 months

Sunday 25th September 2016
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V6Pushfit said:
desolate said:
We have a woman who is single, 32DD and size 8.

Sounds like an outstanding opportunity for them both.
32DD??????????????

Apologies OP

As you were
Yes but at 49 are they where they were when she was 29 or do you need to send out a search and rescue?

putonghua73

615 posts

129 months

Sunday 25th September 2016
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Trabi601 said:
battered said:
"Wasting time"?
What's the f* ing rush? He's 23 FFS.
Wasting time when he could be doing what? Changing nappies with a 21 year old mother? Well, there's a great life choice. He really wants to rush into that.
He's 23, he's having a good time. When that stops, move on. Until then he's a 23 year old man having a good time with a woman of his choosing.

I think there are more than a few people here who are getting a bit jealous.
He's gone past the 'fun' bit to declaring that he loves her. That's when it's time to move on.
What Trabi601 has posted.

anonymous-user

55 months

Sunday 25th September 2016
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Trabi601 said:
He's gone past the 'fun' bit to declaring that he loves her. That's when it's time to move on.
Yes that's true. Get out now while the goings good.

The GMan

2,508 posts

256 months

Sunday 25th September 2016
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Sheets Tabuer said:
Ha ha ha!

Brilliant advice.

anonymous-user

55 months

Sunday 25th September 2016
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Sorry just had a seizure there. 32DD???????

I'll hold your trousers OP

Carry on

WinstonWolf

72,857 posts

240 months

Sunday 25th September 2016
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V6Pushfit said:
WinstonWolf said:
V6Pushfit said:
desolate said:
V6Pushfit said:
Cant you find anyone your own age? It's all going to end either when you wake up or she gets bored so why not fast forward to that now and save time?
Why do anything?
For the reasons I've said?
51 year old me would tell 23 year old me to completely ignore you biggrin
Looking back yes but looking forwards he's going up a blind alley and wasting time while he's at it
51 year old me would tell 23 year old me it's *so* not a waste of time biggrin

Futile, but that's no reason to bale out...