Dodging Rounds

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Centurion07

10,381 posts

248 months

Wednesday 30th November 2016
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KingNothing said:
tannhauser said:
TEKNOPUG said:
I know people who will order the most expensive premium beer on tap when it's someone else's round but buy themselves a coke or whenever when it's theirs. Dicks.
What's wrong with them buying themselves a coke? So long as you're getting back from them, something equivalent to what you're getting them?
This, I don't see the problem, surely as long as you and the others in the round are getting the drinks you want, sometimes I'll get a coke if the people I'm drinking with are drinking faster than I would like to. It's a different story if you're asking for an Erdinger or something, and he just ignores you and comes back with pints of Fosters all the time, but if he's only getting his own cheap drink or no drink I don't see the problem.
If they're happy drinking coke, why don't they order that when it's someone else's round then? THAT'S the point.

KingNothing

3,169 posts

154 months

Wednesday 30th November 2016
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Centurion07 said:
KingNothing said:
tannhauser said:
TEKNOPUG said:
I know people who will order the most expensive premium beer on tap when it's someone else's round but buy themselves a coke or whenever when it's theirs. Dicks.
What's wrong with them buying themselves a coke? So long as you're getting back from them, something equivalent to what you're getting them?
This, I don't see the problem, surely as long as you and the others in the round are getting the drinks you want, sometimes I'll get a coke if the people I'm drinking with are drinking faster than I would like to. It's a different story if you're asking for an Erdinger or something, and he just ignores you and comes back with pints of Fosters all the time, but if he's only getting his own cheap drink or no drink I don't see the problem.
If they're happy drinking coke, why don't they order that when it's someone else's round then? THAT'S the point.
But as long as you're getting the drinks that you want from the person, why does it matter what he spends on his own drink?

Centurion07

10,381 posts

248 months

Wednesday 30th November 2016
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KingNothing said:
But as long as you're getting the drinks that you want from the person, why does it matter what he spends on his own drink?
It's not what he's spending on his drink, it's what he's making YOU spend on his drink!

My round: 2 beers = £7

His round: 1 coke, 1 beer = £5

Keep that up all evening and he'll have saved a few bob.

If he's happy drinking coke why doesn't he drink it on the rounds that someone else is paying for? Answer: because HE wants to enjoy the savings rather than someone else!

Tonsko

6,299 posts

216 months

Wednesday 30th November 2016
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That's slightly twisted logic. He's getting you a beer back, who cares what he buys himself? Almost as if you're looking for an excuse to be annoyed at him!

KingNothing

3,169 posts

154 months

Wednesday 30th November 2016
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If you negate the cost of your own drink on each person's round, you're still both paying £3.50 each.

anonymous-user

55 months

Wednesday 30th November 2016
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Centurion07 said:
It's not what he's spending on his drink, it's what he's making YOU spend on his drink!

My round: 2 beers = £7

His round: 1 coke, 1 beer = £5

Keep that up all evening and he'll have saved a few bob.

If he's happy drinking coke why doesn't he drink it on the rounds that someone else is paying for? Answer: because HE wants to enjoy the savings rather than someone else!
Why don't you do the same? Drink beer only when it's his round.

Forbes82

812 posts

180 months

Wednesday 30th November 2016
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Centurion07 said:
It's not what he's spending on his drink, it's what he's making YOU spend on his drink!

My round: 2 beers = £7

His round: 1 coke, 1 beer = £5

Keep that up all evening and he'll have saved a few bob.

If he's happy drinking coke why doesn't he drink it on the rounds that someone else is paying for? Answer: because HE wants to enjoy the savings rather than someone else!
If he does it his way, you both trade equal drinks with each other, you both buy each other a pint. Sure on his round he saves two quid... but he also ends up drinking a drink worth two quid less...

If he does it on someone elses round, he buys them a pint, they buy him a coke, he is making a loss. The way he is doing it is correct if everyone wants to be equal in terms of what they owe each other.

Sure over the course of a night he spends less, but he also drinks that exact amount less in drinks value. Whats the problem?

AdeTuono

7,257 posts

228 months

Wednesday 30th November 2016
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Centurion07 said:
KingNothing said:
But as long as you're getting the drinks that you want from the person, why does it matter what he spends on his own drink?
It's not what he's spending on his drink, it's what he's making YOU spend on his drink!

My round: 2 beers = £7

His round: 1 coke, 1 beer = £5

Keep that up all evening and he'll have saved a few bob.

If he's happy drinking coke why doesn't he drink it on the rounds that someone else is paying for? Answer: because HE wants to enjoy the savings rather than someone else!
That's a strange logic. Are you pissed?

davidc1

1,546 posts

163 months

Wednesday 30th November 2016
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£25 whip each , 6 dads out on the piss , carry any balance into paying for the meal at the end of the night. Simple.

Centurion07

10,381 posts

248 months

Wednesday 30th November 2016
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AdeTuono said:
That's a strange logic. Are you pissed?
Apparently. biggrin


Disastrous

10,086 posts

218 months

Wednesday 30th November 2016
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Exactly!

Man, everyone gets so wound up about stuff like this. I've got a couple of mates who always take the piss with rounds but life's too short to care. I don't begrudge paying a few quid more on a night out TBH. I'd rather the person was good company than deadeye accurate about rounds.

Centurion07

10,381 posts

248 months

Wednesday 30th November 2016
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Slightly more on topic: what's the etiquette regarding late arrivals and buying rounds?

When I go out, I will walk into wherever we're meeting, locate friends, walk over and check if anyone wants another drink.

One of our group, without fail, will NEVER locate the group first, preferring to go to the bar, get his own drink (two bottles invariably as they're 2 for a fiver) THEN come over. Having bought 2 bottles it now means not only did he not top up the table, so to speak, on arrival, but he won't be getting up to get the next round as he's now nursing 2 drinks!

Acceptable or nay or is this just another incidence of my twisted logic?

leefee

633 posts

130 months

Wednesday 30th November 2016
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Short arms and deep pockets, or first out of the taxi and last up to the bar. These poeple need telling bluntly in my experience, if they dont take the hint, leave them out next time.

GCH

3,992 posts

203 months

Wednesday 30th November 2016
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Genuine question to the people getting wound up at this... do you also dislike splitting the bill when out for dinner and instead prefer to get the calculator out to work out exactly what everyone has spent and not a penny more?


Disastrous

10,086 posts

218 months

Wednesday 30th November 2016
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GCH said:
Genuine question to the people getting wound up at this... do you also dislike splitting the bill when out for dinner and instead prefer to get the calculator out to work out exactly what everyone has spent and not a penny more?
I can't STAND bill totter uppers.

Cotty

39,568 posts

285 months

Wednesday 30th November 2016
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GCH said:
Genuine question to the people getting wound up at this... do you also dislike splitting the bill when out for dinner and instead prefer to get the calculator out to work out exactly what everyone has spent and not a penny more?
The equivalent would be someone on the table not paying for the food they ate.

Jordan210

4,526 posts

184 months

Wednesday 30th November 2016
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GCH said:
Genuine question to the people getting wound up at this... do you also dislike splitting the bill when out for dinner and instead prefer to get the calculator out to work out exactly what everyone has spent and not a penny more?
If everyone has had equal food its fine. When someone takes the piss and orders the most expensive thing, extra sides and so on. Then I get annoyed

AlexC1981

4,926 posts

218 months

Wednesday 30th November 2016
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Centurion07 said:
Slightly more on topic: what's the etiquette regarding late arrivals and buying rounds?

When I go out, I will walk into wherever we're meeting, locate friends, walk over and check if anyone wants another drink.

One of our group, without fail, will NEVER locate the group first, preferring to go to the bar, get his own drink (two bottles invariably as they're 2 for a fiver) THEN come over. Having bought 2 bottles it now means not only did he not top up the table, so to speak, on arrival, but he won't be getting up to get the next round as he's now nursing 2 drinks!

Acceptable or nay or is this just another incidence of my twisted logic?
I think either option is acceptable. It makes no difference what time someone enters the round.

Regarding the Coke/beer/Coke thing, I'm not sure about that. It feels wrong, but I can't put my finger on why.

mph999

2,715 posts

221 months

Wednesday 30th November 2016
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GCH said:
Genuine question to the people getting wound up at this... do you also dislike splitting the bill when out for dinner and instead prefer to get the calculator out to work out exactly what everyone has spent and not a penny more?
I've had times when my food/ drink is around £20, but splitting the bill has increased in to £30+ so yes it's slightly unfair.

Kwackersaki

1,385 posts

229 months

Wednesday 30th November 2016
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I worked with a guy who was legendary for avoiding a round. If you were in a club and getting a drink he'd appear from nowhere just as you were ordering, if it was his round he'd disappear and reappear a few minutes later with two drinks for himself. At the end of the night he'd wait until we started to get taxis then jump in to ensure he was next to the door and get out first without paying.

The best one, which I still find amusing was when a group of us were walking to a pub, me at the front chatting to him. He knew I'd already got one in so his turn next. As we got to the door, I was mid sentence and he actually moonwalked to the rear of the group and started an instant conversation with another guy!

We,d had enough and one night all drained our glasses and waited. Eventually someone piped up "who's round" and almost in union pointed and shouted his name.