Dodging Rounds

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Cotty

39,553 posts

284 months

Monday 19th December 2016
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Patrick Bateman said:
I don't know people who don't carry cash on a night out.
I know lots, they don't carry cash as they can pay for drinks on a card. Very difficult to get cash out of them if they don't carry it.

blinkythefish

972 posts

257 months

Monday 19th December 2016
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rambo19 said:
Centurion07 said:
As long as someone doesn't mind being in charge of it.
And there is the problem, the person in charge of the kitty is the one constantly having to go to the bar.
Why not give the person whose turn it is to go to the bar a couple of notes and then get the change back when they return?

DanielSan

18,799 posts

167 months

Monday 19th December 2016
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Blown2CV said:
having thought about it I do know people that do this. We are seeing a couple this week that insist we get a takeaway when we go to theirs, and split the bill, obvs. I don't want takeaway food and I don't want to pay either! I am sure it will happen again this week. At least one other couple have sprung this on us after being at their house for an hour. You don't just suddenly decide to get a takeaway.... it requires that you've had a number of days of not having bought any food, and also a number of hours that day of not having cooked it either.
You really never just decide to have a takeaway? Am I alone in finding that strange?

Jasandjules

69,915 posts

229 months

Monday 19th December 2016
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DanielSan said:
You really never just decide to have a takeaway? Am I alone in finding that strange?
Nope, we've done it a few times. But then we pay for the meal. Sometimes you just decide you can't be bothered to cook, or are too engrossed in catching up with your friends etc. Or you don't want to spend an hour out in the kitchen whilst your guests are in the lounge.

HaplessBoyLard

1,548 posts

188 months

Monday 19th December 2016
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Cotty said:
I know lots, they don't carry cash as they can pay for drinks on a card. Very difficult to get cash out of them if they don't carry it.
Well, they buy their own drinks on a card while everyone else does rounds out of a kitty. They'll either get sick of not being included and bring cash next time, or they carry on as they are.


DanielSan

18,799 posts

167 months

Monday 19th December 2016
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All of the above are the reasons why a takeaway is a truly great option. Well those and the Dirty Takeaway Thread that makes me far hungrier than it should do everytime I read it hehe

john2443

6,339 posts

211 months

Monday 19th December 2016
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In the days that most of us didn't have spare cash due to kids or buying first house, one of the group had millionaire taste but nillionaire income, when we went out to eat he'd have starter, steak, sweet when others were having pasta and just 2 courses, then agree to split the bill...until one day someone decided to do a break down of the bill and get everyone to pay the correct amount.

All (but 1!) were muchly amused!

johnwilliams77

8,308 posts

103 months

Monday 19th December 2016
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DanielSan said:
You really never just decide to have a takeaway? Am I alone in finding that strange?
Really? Takeaway is council.

xRIEx

8,180 posts

148 months

Monday 19th December 2016
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DanielSan said:
Blown2CV said:
having thought about it I do know people that do this. We are seeing a couple this week that insist we get a takeaway when we go to theirs, and split the bill, obvs. I don't want takeaway food and I don't want to pay either! I am sure it will happen again this week. At least one other couple have sprung this on us after being at their house for an hour. You don't just suddenly decide to get a takeaway.... it requires that you've had a number of days of not having bought any food, and also a number of hours that day of not having cooked it either.
You really never just decide to have a takeaway? Am I alone in finding that strange?
That's not really what he's saying. It's a case of if the agreement is, "hey, why not come round to ours for a dinner party next Friday, and we'll come round to yours the following Friday, oooh! It'll be just like Come Dine With Me!", then there's a pre-existing knowledge that some preparation and investment of time is required. If it reaches the point of 2 hours before the guests arrive and there isn't food in the house, a menu put together and food prepared and being cooked, dessert chilling in the fridge, etc. then there was never the intention of putting the effort in and the hosts always really planned (consciously or unconsciously) for a takeaway.

Patrick Bateman

12,187 posts

174 months

Monday 19th December 2016
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johnwilliams77 said:
Really? Takeaway is council.
Honestly can't tell if this is tongue in cheek.

ReaperCushions

6,025 posts

184 months

Monday 19th December 2016
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Cotty said:
Patrick Bateman said:
I don't know people who don't carry cash on a night out.
I know lots, they don't carry cash as they can pay for drinks on a card. Very difficult to get cash out of them if they don't carry it.
Its not like you're asking them to kill their first born. Just ask them go to the cash point on your way to the pub.



markcoznottz

7,155 posts

224 months

Monday 19th December 2016
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ReaperCushions said:
markcoznottz said:
There is an easier way..,...stay in and have a takeaway. Eating out is both a rip off and the quality at most places is average.
Sounds fun!
Well in reality not that much less than fun, at least you aren't getting your pants pulled down by people pertaining to be 'mates'. Takeaway food no different in quality to most chain restaurants now. Having no mates is brilliant.

austinsmirk

5,597 posts

123 months

Tuesday 20th December 2016
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how about this tale.

my sister in law has her 30th birthday. we all go out for a big family meal. Her (now ex) boyfriend is not just tight, but a workshy hopeless fool, does a bit of part time work so he can concentrate on his art and playing the guitar. None of which make any money. Even so, its her birthday and surely he will buy her dinner ??

At the end of a lovely night, bill comes, we split it amongst couples/family groups.............. he just sits there putting nothing in. who he expects to pay, goodness knows.

so in front of his father in law, me, brother in law as such and all the close family he fails to buy his girlfriend a meal and drinks to celebrate her 30th.

I have a horrible feeling she got her debit card out to pay for them.


Mind you, the flat that they had, that she has paid the mortgage on for about 5 years (whilst he didn't work- finding himself artistically) she failed to get anything out of as his parents had put the initial deposit down (thus somehow it was never hers) and she herself was too spineless to push it.

fortunately their relationship ended a bit later.

johnwilliams77

8,308 posts

103 months

Tuesday 20th December 2016
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austinsmirk said:
Mind you, the flat that they had, that she has paid the mortgage on for about 5 years (whilst he didn't work- finding himself artistically) she failed to get anything out of as his parents had put the initial deposit down (thus somehow it was never hers) and she herself was too spineless to push it.
OK - This is one of the most shocking things I have read on this thread!

If they put the deposit down on the basis of her salary covering the mortgage then surely she should have been a co-owner....since its very unlikely his part time work would cover anything...

Edited by johnwilliams77 on Tuesday 20th December 11:38

untakenname

4,970 posts

192 months

Tuesday 20th December 2016
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I think that if it was within 6 years (afaik) she can ask for some of what she paid back and if not then go to court and get some bailiffs to recover, saw it happen on a program about debt on channel 5 where some guys ex got £5k back.