So I just threw the TV out of the window...

So I just threw the TV out of the window...

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TheExcession

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11,669 posts

251 months

Saturday 4th February 2017
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Little Ex has been getting a bit bold recently.

In fact we had an argument last year where he was screaming his nuts off about not being allowed access to the tablet computer at bed time, so I removed the problem by smashing the tablet and slinging it out of the window.

'There you go mate - there is no tablet computer any more - so we are are never going to argue about that again'.

Tonight we had a similar argument, only this time it was PS4 vs bed time.

Daddy said "No", kid says "Why?" Daddy says "because I say so" - everything escalates, so Daddy just removes the problem and slings the telly out of window. Ouch.

"You can't play the PS now? So better you shut up and go to bed like I asked you".

My advice, don't give your kids so much free space that they think they own it, and also when they pop up trying to contradict you - don't be afraid to show them a real consequence.

Oh and, pitching a TV out of the window is a real "rock star" experience that you should all try one time in life.

Any one got a telly they want to sell me?






MDMA .

8,904 posts

102 months

Saturday 4th February 2017
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Be fun in your street smile

anonymous-user

55 months

Saturday 4th February 2017
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"because I say so" is a really stupid thing to say to a kid.

chilistrucker

4,541 posts

152 months

Saturday 4th February 2017
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I think you made a very valid point biglaugh

steveo3002

10,534 posts

175 months

Saturday 4th February 2017
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someone ring childline

Sheets Tabuer

18,984 posts

216 months

Saturday 4th February 2017
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You think showing your child that that destroying something, smashing something up is the right way to behave in order to win and argument?

Cool..

Next weeks lesson entitled "punching the interior doors when the mrs pisses you off?"

TheExcession

Original Poster:

11,669 posts

251 months

Saturday 4th February 2017
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swerni said:
Ever considered anger management classes?
Got any recommendations? Because right about now I'm going to swing for someone.

MDMA .

8,904 posts

102 months

Saturday 4th February 2017
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TheExcession said:
Got any recommendations? Because right about now I'm going to swing for someone.
Punch yourself in the neck.

TheExcession

Original Poster:

11,669 posts

251 months

Saturday 4th February 2017
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Sheets Tabuer said:
You think showing your child that that destroying something, smashing something up is the right way to behave in order to win and argument?

Cool..

Next weeks lesson entitled "punching the interior doors when the mrs pisses you off?"
Better when you grab the carving knife - point it inwards and encourage her to push.


talksthetorque

10,815 posts

136 months

Saturday 4th February 2017
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Why didn't you throw the PS out of the window?

It's like torching your car because your caravan is st.



The Nur

9,168 posts

186 months

Saturday 4th February 2017
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Grow up. Get some help. Hopefully your kid won't grow up to be like you.

968

11,965 posts

249 months

Saturday 4th February 2017
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The Nur said:
Grow up. Get some help. Hopefully your kid won't grow up to be like you.
Possibly the most accurate thing ever quoted on PH.

TheExcession

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11,669 posts

251 months

Saturday 4th February 2017
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BTW, I'm trying to calm down a bit.

And I thought it would almost be as interesting as a Trump thread.

And has anyone else thrown a telly out of their window?

And has anyone got a cheap telly on offer?

968

11,965 posts

249 months

Saturday 4th February 2017
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TheExcession said:
BTW, I'm trying to calm down a bit.

And I thought it would almost be as interesting as a Trump thread.

And has anyone else thrown a telly out of their window?

And has anyone got a cheap telly on offer?
Good that you're calming down, but the other guy was spot on. You're throwing a tantrum in front of your kid and you wonder why your kid thinks it's ok to throw a tantrum when they don't get their way?

poing

8,743 posts

201 months

Saturday 4th February 2017
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Rather than "because I say so" can you not give the kid an actual reason?

TheExcession

Original Poster:

11,669 posts

251 months

Saturday 4th February 2017
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968 said:
The Nur said:
Grow up. Get some help. Hopefully your kid won't grow up to be like you.
Possibly the most accurate thing ever quoted on PH.
A statement from a Dr.

Berwilliant.

Nobody else her ever lost their temper.

I do miss the telly though - I'm left with little more than reading PH.

carlove

7,573 posts

168 months

Saturday 4th February 2017
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Gotta say, that's pretty dysfunctional. Your son will copy your traits, in the short term you're fixing the problem, in the long term you're going to make it a whole lot worse.

Personally I've not thrown a TV out the window. I have thrown an old Nokia phone out a 2nd window to see if it would break, it didn't.

968

11,965 posts

249 months

Saturday 4th February 2017
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TheExcession said:
968 said:
The Nur said:
Grow up. Get some help. Hopefully your kid won't grow up to be like you.
Possibly the most accurate thing ever quoted on PH.
A statement from a Dr.

Berwilliant.

Nobody else her ever lost their temper.

I do miss the telly though - I'm left with little more than reading PH.
I'm not a psychologist, I'm an eye doctor, however, I'm also a dad. Of course people lose their temper all the time, but not many people throw their tv our of the window in front of their kid to prove a point.

rover 623gsi

5,230 posts

162 months

Saturday 4th February 2017
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TheExcession said:
Little Ex has been getting a bit bold recently.

In fact we had an argument last year where he was screaming his nuts off about not being allowed access to the tablet computer at bed time, so I removed the problem by smashing the tablet and slinging it out of the window.

'There you go mate - there is no tablet computer any more - so we are are never going to argue about that again'.

Tonight we had a similar argument, only this time it was PS4 vs bed time.

Daddy said "No", kid says "Why?" Daddy says "because I say so" - everything escalates, so Daddy just removes the problem and slings the telly out of window. Ouch.

"You can't play the PS now? So better you shut up and go to bed like I asked you".

My advice, don't give your kids so much free space that they think they own it, and also when they pop up trying to contradict you - don't be afraid to show them a real consequence.

Oh and, pitching a TV out of the window is a real "rock star" experience that you should all try one time in life.

Any one got a telly they want to sell me?

So, last year you threw his table out of the window, and this year your threw a television out of th window? You come across like an ignorant, abusive tt. One day you'll probably wonder why your son left home as soon he could, never sends you a Father's Day card and doesn't invite you to his wedding. Either that or he'll simply turn into the same emotionally crippled man that you are.

Iva Barchetta

44,044 posts

164 months

Saturday 4th February 2017
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carlove said:
Personally I've not thrown a TV out the window. I have thrown an old Nokia phone out a 2nd window to see if it would break, it didn't.
What happened to the 1st window ?....smilecool