How would you fare

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alock

4,224 posts

210 months

Sunday 26th February 2017
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My parents invited me and my kids over for Christmas a few years ago. The invite finished with a request to not bring my wife.

I haven't seen my parents since.

DanielSan

18,747 posts

166 months

Sunday 26th February 2017
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If you ask your other half to make that choice then you're a tt to be honest.

PieSlayer

8,842 posts

186 months

Sunday 26th February 2017
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MTech535 said:
grumbledoak said:
techiedave said:
Didn't the Op have a thread on where he was upset at his wife spending so much time with her best mate. ?
yes
What happened to that one then?
Guessing he requested it to be deleted as he maybe didn't like the answers/advice that was being dished out on there.



OP - a question. Has the sex with her and yourself stopped?

g3org3y

20,606 posts

190 months

Sunday 26th February 2017
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DanielSan said:
If you ask your other half to make that choice then you're a tt to be honest.
To be fair to the OP, there's a context to this.

There was a recent thread (now seemingly deleted) which gives the background.

anonymous-user

53 months

Sunday 26th February 2017
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g3org3y said:
To be fair to the OP, there's a context to this.

There was a recent thread (now seemingly deleted) which gives the background.
Err Yes
So and if any of this is wrong it can be filled in
Op has a partner they been together a while she spends time away and the OP is a bit narked. then he finds out she was away on a works do but was able to meet her mate. And that's about it

mybrainhurts

90,809 posts

254 months

Monday 27th February 2017
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I blame global warming and Diane Abbott...

BoRED S2upid

19,643 posts

239 months

Monday 27th February 2017
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mybrainhurts said:
I'd kidnap her best mate, gag her and lock her in the cellar.

Oh, sod it, I forgot....the wife buggered off years ago....smile
And you blame her after kidnapping her best mate?

Don1

15,936 posts

207 months

Monday 27th February 2017
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LordHaveMurci said:
If you made your OH choose between you or her best mate?
She is my best mate.

southendpier

5,254 posts

228 months

Monday 27th February 2017
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techiedave said:
Err Yes
So and if any of this is wrong it can be filled in
Op has a partner they been together a while she spends time away and the OP is a bit narked. then he finds out she was away on a works do but was able to meet her mate. And that's about it
Muff muncher or 'mate' is another fella throwing it up her?

xjay1337

15,966 posts

117 months

Monday 27th February 2017
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I'm confused.

Is your DP asking about choosing between her and HER best friend, or her and YOUR best friend.

And is this to bang or general hanging out?

I have about 3 decent friends and they're all ugly, so it's unlikely to happen to me.

Cold

15,207 posts

89 months

Monday 27th February 2017
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The OP recently started a thread detailing how his wife of a number of years spends a lot of time with her friend which he feels is negatively impacting on their marital relationship but she sees no wrongdoing.

anonymous-user

53 months

Monday 27th February 2017
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xjay1337 said:
I'm confused.

Is your DP asking about choosing between her and HER best friend, or her and YOUR best friend.

And is this to bang or general hanging out?

I have about 3 decent friends and they're all ugly, so it's unlikely to happen to me.
DP isn't part of the question. No doubt with the strangeness of the recent topics it will pop up so to speak

PugwasHDJ80

7,522 posts

220 months

Monday 27th February 2017
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I'd definitely choose her best mate, she's lovely....

She's probably choose her too at the moment frown

Alex_225

6,234 posts

200 months

Monday 27th February 2017
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I actually did win although through no fault of my own and certainly not putting my other half in that situation.

When we met she was very close with her best mate, who seemed nice enough etc but was a bit odd. Anyway I gradually got the impression that her best mate was distinctly put out that I'd come along and started to stir things up.

I made the effort and invited this friend and her partner round to my place (before girlfriend moved in) for dinner. It was awkward and at the end of the evening this friend walked out, blanked me and was just rude. From then on she just made things more and more difficult, stirred things up and eventually my other half saw through it and they fell out. They still talk but there's a distance and supposed best friend went and found someone else to smother.

Like I say, I'd never have put my partner in that position to choose and it'd wrong to do so.

anonymous-user

53 months

Tuesday 28th February 2017
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There will be no further response from the Op

Ustbutler

19 posts

164 months

Monday 13th March 2017
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bloomen said:
If wifey asked that of me, she'd be gone before her sentence was finished. I'd expect the same from her.

If best mate asked that of me, they'd be gone too.

I'd be sad. And then I'd restart relationships with grown adults.

Edited by bloomen on Sunday 26th February 17:55
This is my stance on the topic

techiedave said:
Err Yes
So and if any of this is wrong it can be filled in
Op has a partner they been together a while she spends time away and the OP is a bit narked. then he finds out she was away on a works do but was able to meet her mate. And that's about it
If she can't make time for you but can for someone else.. the person has picked the other person over you anyway.. Move on and don't waste your time.


S,Butler

Edited by Ustbutler on Monday 13th March 01:06

xjay1337

15,966 posts

117 months

Monday 13th March 2017
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Ustbutler said:
If she can't make time for you but can for someone else.. the person has picked the other person over you anyway.. Move on and don't waste your time.


S,Butler

Edited by Ustbutler on Monday 13th March 01:06
No truer word has been spoken.