How would you fare
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MTech535 said:
grumbledoak said:
techiedave said:
Didn't the Op have a thread on where he was upset at his wife spending so much time with her best mate. ?
OP - a question. Has the sex with her and yourself stopped?
g3org3y said:
To be fair to the OP, there's a context to this.
There was a recent thread (now seemingly deleted) which gives the background.
Err YesThere was a recent thread (now seemingly deleted) which gives the background.
So and if any of this is wrong it can be filled in
Op has a partner they been together a while she spends time away and the OP is a bit narked. then he finds out she was away on a works do but was able to meet her mate. And that's about it
techiedave said:
Err Yes
So and if any of this is wrong it can be filled in
Op has a partner they been together a while she spends time away and the OP is a bit narked. then he finds out she was away on a works do but was able to meet her mate. And that's about it
Muff muncher or 'mate' is another fella throwing it up her?So and if any of this is wrong it can be filled in
Op has a partner they been together a while she spends time away and the OP is a bit narked. then he finds out she was away on a works do but was able to meet her mate. And that's about it
xjay1337 said:
I'm confused.
Is your DP asking about choosing between her and HER best friend, or her and YOUR best friend.
And is this to bang or general hanging out?
I have about 3 decent friends and they're all ugly, so it's unlikely to happen to me.
DP isn't part of the question. No doubt with the strangeness of the recent topics it will pop up so to speakIs your DP asking about choosing between her and HER best friend, or her and YOUR best friend.
And is this to bang or general hanging out?
I have about 3 decent friends and they're all ugly, so it's unlikely to happen to me.
I actually did win although through no fault of my own and certainly not putting my other half in that situation.
When we met she was very close with her best mate, who seemed nice enough etc but was a bit odd. Anyway I gradually got the impression that her best mate was distinctly put out that I'd come along and started to stir things up.
I made the effort and invited this friend and her partner round to my place (before girlfriend moved in) for dinner. It was awkward and at the end of the evening this friend walked out, blanked me and was just rude. From then on she just made things more and more difficult, stirred things up and eventually my other half saw through it and they fell out. They still talk but there's a distance and supposed best friend went and found someone else to smother.
Like I say, I'd never have put my partner in that position to choose and it'd wrong to do so.
When we met she was very close with her best mate, who seemed nice enough etc but was a bit odd. Anyway I gradually got the impression that her best mate was distinctly put out that I'd come along and started to stir things up.
I made the effort and invited this friend and her partner round to my place (before girlfriend moved in) for dinner. It was awkward and at the end of the evening this friend walked out, blanked me and was just rude. From then on she just made things more and more difficult, stirred things up and eventually my other half saw through it and they fell out. They still talk but there's a distance and supposed best friend went and found someone else to smother.
Like I say, I'd never have put my partner in that position to choose and it'd wrong to do so.
bloomen said:
If wifey asked that of me, she'd be gone before her sentence was finished. I'd expect the same from her.
If best mate asked that of me, they'd be gone too.
I'd be sad. And then I'd restart relationships with grown adults.
This is my stance on the topicIf best mate asked that of me, they'd be gone too.
I'd be sad. And then I'd restart relationships with grown adults.
Edited by bloomen on Sunday 26th February 17:55
techiedave said:
Err Yes
So and if any of this is wrong it can be filled in
Op has a partner they been together a while she spends time away and the OP is a bit narked. then he finds out she was away on a works do but was able to meet her mate. And that's about it
If she can't make time for you but can for someone else.. the person has picked the other person over you anyway.. Move on and don't waste your time.So and if any of this is wrong it can be filled in
Op has a partner they been together a while she spends time away and the OP is a bit narked. then he finds out she was away on a works do but was able to meet her mate. And that's about it
S,Butler
Edited by Ustbutler on Monday 13th March 01:06
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