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NoVetec

9,967 posts

173 months

Monday 15th July 2019
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With regards to incels, this is where I think cults could actually have a tangible benefit and purpose for their members, not just the power, control and money that the leaders of cults tend to get.

Imagine a secretive organisation invites incels through various online platforms a chance at breeding with aggressively so-progressive-as-to-be-regressive feminist women on a secluded island, perhaps Incel Nublar. After being screened for condoms and firearms the men are allowed onto the island to meet the women.

After a complex mixture of niceties and utterly fking tedious arguments, an occultist, androgynous figure appears before them, spraying them with condensed LSD and PCP. Whatever happens next I don't know nor do I know why I posted this, but it sounds entertaining.

And of course we'll televise it to monetise ti!

Thank me later.

Cold

15,247 posts

90 months

Monday 15th July 2019
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NoVetec said:
With regards to incels, this is where I think cults could actually have a tangible benefit and purpose for their members, not just the power, control and money that the leaders of cults tend to get.

Imagine a secretive organisation invites incels through various online platforms a chance at breeding with aggressively so-progressive-as-to-be-regressive feminist women on a secluded island, perhaps Incel Nublar. After being screened for condoms and firearms the men are allowed onto the island to meet the women.

After a complex mixture of niceties and utterly fking tedious arguments, an occultist, androgynous figure appears before them, spraying them with condensed LSD and PCP. Whatever happens next I don't know nor do I know why I posted this, but it sounds entertaining.

And of course we'll televise it to monetise ti!

Thank me later.
I think you've just described Love Island.



It's a shame about Emily passing away. She was a genuinely nice person even if she never really came to an understanding of her sexuality which sometimes manifested itself in her videos. She couldn't seem to figure out if she was straight, bi or gay or somewhere in between and spent far too much head time ruminating about it.

Her recent (rather effeminate and ex-drug user) boyfriend seemed to ground her and the relationship appeared to bring some much needed stability to her life. Almost as if all she really needed for a cure for her depression and anxiety was to be validated by love.
I can only imagine her three sisters are absolutely devastated.

hyphen

26,262 posts

90 months

Monday 15th July 2019
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Cold said:
I think you've just described Love Island.



It's a shame about Emily passing away. She was a genuinely nice person even if she never really came to an understanding of her sexuality which sometimes manifested itself in her videos. She couldn't seem to figure out if she was straight, bi or gay or somewhere in between and spent far too much head time ruminating about it.

Her recent (rather effeminate and ex-drug user) boyfriend seemed to ground her and the relationship appeared to bring some much needed stability to her life. Almost as if all she really needed for a cure for her depression and anxiety was to be validated by love.
I can only imagine her three sisters are absolutely devastated.
Did you know her personally?

As looking at her YouTube vids, she comes across as a savvy money maker. Non of it is genuine, all click bait fake vids, and merchandise sales and so on, and she was mainly trading on her good looks.

hyphen

26,262 posts

90 months

Monday 15th July 2019
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PurpleTurtle said:
Jesus wept, I avoided this thread at the outset but since she got killed on an electric scooter (ultimate hipster death, that or choking on one's vegan fairtrade flat white), I've given the YT video on the original post a spin and a couple of her other videos.

I know it's not nice to speak ill of the dead, but she was uber-irritating.
+1, sorry to the loss to her loved ones, but meh.

roadsmash

2,622 posts

70 months

Monday 15th July 2019
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Just discovered this thread. Absolutely 10/10 read.

Proof that there are some total knobs on PH!! biglaugh

I do agree that women (and men) are becoming more and more materialistic, but this is just in tune with the times... the “social media” boom has contributed massively to this... but lowering your standards will help.

I often see the same old average blokes I’ve known for years, liking and commenting on super hot women’s profiles day in day out, who they never will have a chance with. These men seem to have some expectation that they can pull these super hot women - so it works both ways.

There’s loads of women out there who have cracking personalities and amazing sense of humours. And yes, lots of them have a bit of cash which they have saved too!

Just keep searching and perhaps look for a type of woman you’ve never met before. Go into different bars and pubs at different times etc.

anonymous-user

54 months

Monday 15th July 2019
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roadsmash said:
Just keep searching and perhaps look for a type of woman you’ve never met before..
A self identifying one wearing a wig and red lippy ?


Cold

15,247 posts

90 months

Monday 15th July 2019
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hyphen said:
Did you know her personally?

As looking at her YouTube vids, she comes across as a savvy money maker. Non of it is genuine, all click bait fake vids, and merchandise sales and so on, and she was mainly trading on her good looks.
Met her a couple of times at a couple of events and had the occasional online exchange. I lived reasonably close to her parents for about ten years and saw her and her three sisters out and about locally every so often when they visited.

Of course she was a savvy money maker - the YouTube stuff was a good source of income for some years. It was more than a hobby although she did have an office job to supplement her lifestyle and recently began teaching fitness classes after studying for the appropriate qualifications. Of course, as with many creators/influencers, there was also a Patreon account for those who thought it might be a way of connecting with her. Cynical? Possibly, but it's all voluntary.

Her online persona knew what sold and what garnered the clicks and she was well aware that a bikini thumbnail would drive traffic to her content much more comprehensively than a picture of her in a coat.

But as I said a couple of years ago, don't take her videos too literally. There were produced for the clicks and for the lols. If you truly believe that she truly believed in every aspect of the subject matter in her videos then her work was done.

She was a good person and a mental health advocate, always willing to be open about her own battles and ready to listen to others. She had just started hosting a (free) regular meet-up for other women who also suffered with poor mental health so they'd have a place to belong without judgement. Hopefully the group will continue this.

WinkleHoff

736 posts

235 months

Tuesday 16th July 2019
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Interesting thread, I've not read every page but here's my own experience of the matter.

There are numerous factors at play here. In my view post modern feminism has created a delusion that many women have been told is the truth without any critical analysis. I have exes who swallowed these ideas, believing that everything was possible, and indeed deserved, and that being "just a mum" was a failure. It also played in to the narrative that "you are amazing", not so much in the physical sense, but in the sense that you just don't have to try. You are a woman, you exist, and you are amazing. You don't have to work at it, or earn it, you just are. And you deserve everything. Of course, some of this would have been reinforced by deferential men who put them on a pedestal and don't challenge them, whether it be fathers or boyfriends. Eventually, when they don't get that which they believe they are entitled, bitterness ensues.

My wife has a friend who totally bought in to all this, it skewered her world view, and now she is approaching 40, no husband, no kids, and desperately sad about it. But she just can't see her own entitled attitude, its so I ingrained, yet its the root of her misery. She's a huge social media user as well, which is often used to reinforce these views (social validation etc)

My wife in the other hand isn't like this at all. But I do feel her type are decreasing in number. A good friend of mine has just gone back in to the dating world he's early 40s.he was dating a 29yr old, very attractive girl. He ended it because of her entitled attitude. He just doesn't have the patience anymore to deal with it, and doesn't allow physicality to take precedence. Upon breaking up, she was totally baffled, as she said she was "used to being worshipped".

Edited by WinkleHoff on Tuesday 16th July 07:10

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