I've been asked to join the Freemasons
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andyjo1982 said:
Great news about your lodge. Our lodge has been very close to going under too. We're back up to about 22 members I think at the moment, with 2 more initiates ready to come in this year, 18 months ago we were down to about 16 regular members. The problem we have, is that our more senior members tend to be a little too pushy to get new members on the floor and rushing them through the offices. We have a couple of members who've been through the chair 4 times because people just drop out when they get to JD/SD. Whilst I respect traditions and accept there are ways to do things, sometimes I feel that a few of the more senior members need to move with the times a little. It can be all too easy to criticise new and younger members who are not always completely confident in the work they do...
We used to meet in Clerkenwell until October when we got into GT Queen st. So much better, no ripped carpets, no holes in the curtains and we dine at the Prince of Wales where the food is a million times better. Do you know what your lodge is planning for the future? We moved as I think they'd sold Clerkenwell and were planning a new building or somoething? It all sounded a little sus from what I could make of it...
Really pleased to hear your Lodge is doing well. We now kind of have the same issue with senior members. Just been on the phone today calming down a similar situation but to be fair, our senior members contribute a vast amount to the Lodge but sometimes don't sympathise with the realities of life for younger members. A quiet word from our newly appointed Lodge Daddy (Father of the Lodge / Mentor / all round utterly brilliant chap who everyone in our Lodge adores!) seems to have solved that one :-)We used to meet in Clerkenwell until October when we got into GT Queen st. So much better, no ripped carpets, no holes in the curtains and we dine at the Prince of Wales where the food is a million times better. Do you know what your lodge is planning for the future? We moved as I think they'd sold Clerkenwell and were planning a new building or somoething? It all sounded a little sus from what I could make of it...
I do think Masonary in general knows that it needs to move with the times a little and I know our Grand Officer is working really hard to influence decisions to make it generally more adaptive to new members and potential candidates.
I know what you mean about Clerkenwell, but the bar is not bad and they keep hiring cute girls which has lead to a couple of very fun evenings out for me, so can't complain! As I understand it, we move to the new building late this year. Basically, the Sessions House was swapped for a new place which is being fitted out to make it truly fit for purpose. No cost to Masons for getting it as the developer gets the OSH which needs at least £1.5m spent to bring it up to standard which is complicated as it is also a listed building. I'll be sad to see the place go but as I understand it, it is the best thing financially and it should be a superb facility very much fit for purpose. Our Lodge 250th should be there or at GH so I hope its nice! 6 years away but you all welcome!
Sorry for the essay there!
Well, yesterday went pretty well. I made a couple of tiny mistakes, but for my first real time on the floor (other than 1 set of tools), that went as well as I could hope for.
Was a cracking day yesterday, a few beers a dinnertime in the sunshine and an excellent festive board too...
Was a cracking day yesterday, a few beers a dinnertime in the sunshine and an excellent festive board too...
andyjo1982 said:
Well, yesterday went pretty well. I made a couple of tiny mistakes, but for my first real time on the floor (other than 1 set of tools), that went as well as I could hope for.
Was a cracking day yesterday, a few beers a dinnertime in the sunshine and an excellent festive board too...
Delighted it went well. Do not stress about errors as firstly, everyone makes them, and secondly, it is far more important to do it and to get the spirit right than get every word and step right and loose the meaning and fun, which can happen IHO.Was a cracking day yesterday, a few beers a dinnertime in the sunshine and an excellent festive board too...
JD is probably the most fun office so relish it Bro :-)
rednotdead said:
heppers75 said:
We had a lecture on the first degree tracing board last night, first time I have heard it and I have to say it was very good.
I can highly recommend it if anyone has not.
Yep - 'tis a good piece. We do it at every 1st, it's the party piece of one of the older members.I can highly recommend it if anyone has not.
I am currently head in the blue book learning The Traditional History for next month!
A quite odd and embarrassing question, but I will ask anyway.
My father in Law is a member of Sawbridgeworth and Herford, I think., but he hasn’t been for a while although he still pays his subs. Speaking to him over Easter he approached the subject of me joining and that he thought I would make a good member, and that lots of lodges are looking for younger members, although I am 35, to join. I love tradition and ceremony, having served in the RAF I really enjoy keeping traditions alive.
There are two minor issues. I live in Chelmsford, and the lodge is about 8 minutes away, whereas his lodge is about 40 minutes and he has not been for ages and ages, so it would be embarrassing for him to return just to propose me.
He says that I must know people in the Chelmsford lodge already, through my hobby (A Special Constable in Essex Police), but I don’t know, and other than saying to everyone, ‘Hello. Are you a Mason?’ I have no way to know!
So the question is, how do you get introduced, is it purely through direct contact?
My father in Law is a member of Sawbridgeworth and Herford, I think., but he hasn’t been for a while although he still pays his subs. Speaking to him over Easter he approached the subject of me joining and that he thought I would make a good member, and that lots of lodges are looking for younger members, although I am 35, to join. I love tradition and ceremony, having served in the RAF I really enjoy keeping traditions alive.
There are two minor issues. I live in Chelmsford, and the lodge is about 8 minutes away, whereas his lodge is about 40 minutes and he has not been for ages and ages, so it would be embarrassing for him to return just to propose me.
He says that I must know people in the Chelmsford lodge already, through my hobby (A Special Constable in Essex Police), but I don’t know, and other than saying to everyone, ‘Hello. Are you a Mason?’ I have no way to know!
So the question is, how do you get introduced, is it purely through direct contact?
Extra 300 Driver said:
A quite odd and embarrassing question, but I will ask anyway.
My father in Law is a member of Sawbridgeworth and Herford, I think., but he hasn’t been for a while although he still pays his subs. Speaking to him over Easter he approached the subject of me joining and that he thought I would make a good member, and that lots of lodges are looking for younger members, although I am 35, to join. I love tradition and ceremony, having served in the RAF I really enjoy keeping traditions alive.
There are two minor issues. I live in Chelmsford, and the lodge is about 8 minutes away, whereas his lodge is about 40 minutes and he has not been for ages and ages, so it would be embarrassing for him to return just to propose me.
He says that I must know people in the Chelmsford lodge already, through my hobby (A Special Constable in Essex Police), but I don’t know, and other than saying to everyone, ‘Hello. Are you a Mason?’ I have no way to know!
So the question is, how do you get introduced, is it purely through direct contact?
Think he has a bit of an outdated pov if he thinks that all the police are masons after the witch hunt of the last decade. My proposer intimated to one of the provincial officers at the Cheshire show (they had a stall) a few years back that he wished to join. They passed his details on to a suitable lodge's secretary who got in touch and sorted the details out.My father in Law is a member of Sawbridgeworth and Herford, I think., but he hasn’t been for a while although he still pays his subs. Speaking to him over Easter he approached the subject of me joining and that he thought I would make a good member, and that lots of lodges are looking for younger members, although I am 35, to join. I love tradition and ceremony, having served in the RAF I really enjoy keeping traditions alive.
There are two minor issues. I live in Chelmsford, and the lodge is about 8 minutes away, whereas his lodge is about 40 minutes and he has not been for ages and ages, so it would be embarrassing for him to return just to propose me.
He says that I must know people in the Chelmsford lodge already, through my hobby (A Special Constable in Essex Police), but I don’t know, and other than saying to everyone, ‘Hello. Are you a Mason?’ I have no way to know!
So the question is, how do you get introduced, is it purely through direct contact?
D1ngd0ng said:
Think he has a bit of an outdated pov if he thinks that all the police are masons after the witch hunt of the last decade. My proposer intimated to one of the provincial officers at the Cheshire show (they had a stall) a few years back that he wished to join. They passed his details on to a suitable lodge's secretary who got in touch and sorted the details out.
Thanks for that. I am sure he didn't mean all Police are in, but I am sure there are a few more than in my day job.Extra 300 Driver said:
D1ngd0ng said:
Think he has a bit of an outdated pov if he thinks that all the police are masons after the witch hunt of the last decade. My proposer intimated to one of the provincial officers at the Cheshire show (they had a stall) a few years back that he wished to join. They passed his details on to a suitable lodge's secretary who got in touch and sorted the details out.
Thanks for that. I am sure he didn't mean all Police are in, but I am sure there are a few more than in my day job.heppers75 said:
We had a lecture on the first degree tracing board last night, first time I have heard it and I have to say it was very good.
I can highly recommend it if anyone has not.
I seem to recall at a meeting a few months ago there was a communication from Grand Lodge read out along the lines of if the tracing board is not carried out, your initiation is invalid in the eyes of UGLE...I can highly recommend it if anyone has not.
chris.mapey said:
I seem to recall at a meeting a few months ago there was a communication from Grand Lodge read out along the lines of if the tracing board is not carried out, your initiation is invalid in the eyes of UGLE...
Think that was the 3rd degree TB, not the 1st. I remember a big discussion on some of the forums as no-one could remember seeing a 3rd without the TB being included.rednotdead said:
chris.mapey said:
I seem to recall at a meeting a few months ago there was a communication from Grand Lodge read out along the lines of if the tracing board is not carried out, your initiation is invalid in the eyes of UGLE...
Think that was the 3rd degree TB, not the 1st. I remember a big discussion on some of the forums as no-one could remember seeing a 3rd without the TB being included.Gassing Station | The Lounge | Top of Page | What's New | My Stuff