The return of 'Fat chicken kid'.
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snowy slopes said:
southendpier said:
monthefish said:
southendpier said:
Do not equate disciplining children to beating them.
Do not equate a 'smack on the backside' to beating.I was on receiving end of a smack on the backside (always from my mother as it happens) as a child. I would never class myself as having been beaten as a child.
You're in the car too. You get out and survey the damage, your irritated but reamin calm(ish). Punishment is needed so you decide to slap her, not hard enough to send her to hospital but just hard enough to let her know she did wrong. You explain that next time she should be more careful. She might cry a little, might have a red mark for a bit and she might get scared next time she does something wrong and wait for your reaction.
Next time she prangs the car it'll be OK to hit her twice as much or twice as hard?
That isn't ok is it?
BTW this is in no way having a go at you, I'm sure you are a great chap who of course would never hit their missus. Just throwing out an example for the discussion.
I find it amazing how many on PH shout from the roof tops THRASH THEM when anything happens involving children that they have never met!
Yet when you press them they then say "oh not beat them, just smack them you know in a calm and controlled way".
My little boy (10) has a friend that is just like Augustus Gloop. When visiting us he refuses to eat a meal without tomato ketchup. In the end his gluttony got the better of me and I squirted half a family size bottle of ketchup over his dinner. The little s
t hoovered the lot up and even licked the plate clean, and asked for a second magnum later in the evening. The rage I felt is hard to describe.
t hoovered the lot up and even licked the plate clean, and asked for a second magnum later in the evening. The rage I felt is hard to describe.Edited by 911motorsport on Wednesday 4th August 16:27
Soovy said:
snowy slopes said:
Soovy said:
southendpier said:
Soovy said:
southendpier said:
snowy slopes said:
See thats the thing with parents today, they dont discipline their offspring in general*. Mrs slopes folks know a couple who reasoned with their daughter when she was acting up, she ought to consider herself lucky, my old man used to belt me one if i was being a little git, for which i think i am a better adult, Back on topic, earlier today i had to visit the chav emporium known as asda, its the nearest place that sells consumables, and whilst there, this little st was messing around, bashing his mums trolley into people and generally being a nuisance and giving it the big one. What did his stupid mum do? From about half way along the aisle they were in, called his name and told him not to be naughty.
FFS woman, clout the little fker before he gets to big to do it to him, that way he wont keep interupting you shopping you silly bh.
Tricky subject; but if you grew up with the acceptance that it is OK to hit/belt/slap naughty children then your old man has not made you a better person, merely the same (in this regard).t was messing around, bashing his mums trolley into people and generally being a nuisance and giving it the big one. What did his stupid mum do? From about half way along the aisle they were in, called his name and told him not to be naughty.FFS woman, clout the little f
ker before he gets to big to do it to him, that way he wont keep interupting you shopping you silly bh.- to those parents who do discipline their kids, this is in no way aimed at you
Kids needs a good slap a few times to teach them right from wrong.
Lily livered poofterism is the reason why the country is in a state.
Do not equate disciplining children to beating them. Do you have your own kids?Kids are revolting little creatures until they are taught how to behave properly. The should be seen (rarely) and not heard, neither should they have an opinion about anything. If they step out of line they need to know they've done so.
I am sick to death of spending money on restaurants/cinemas/days out/hotels/delete as applicable only to have them ruined by revolting loud mouthed kids.
On monday I had an otherwise superb lunch with my girlfriend at a nice restaurant on Park Lane ruined by horrid little arabs running amock. I was most surprised as I'd always imagined Johnny A-Rab kept his wives and offspring under control by regularly flogging them, tipping boiling water on them etc, but it seems not to be the case.
Mind you, I took a smack fron the GF myself for bad behaviour. We were coming down the lift in the Hilton. The door opened and in walked a fully burquared-up woman (I assume it was a woman inside anyway) with her smarmy looking Hugo Bossed hubby. She looked like a black walking toilet tent. I made a quip out loud along the lines of not realising there was a game of hide and seek going on in the hotel. A kick on the shins hurts...
southendpier said:
snowy slopes said:
southendpier said:
monthefish said:
southendpier said:
Do not equate disciplining children to beating them.
Do not equate a 'smack on the backside' to beating.I was on receiving end of a smack on the backside (always from my mother as it happens) as a child. I would never class myself as having been beaten as a child.
You're in the car too. You get out and survey the damage, your irritated but reamin calm(ish). Punishment is needed so you decide to slap her, not hard enough to send her to hospital but just hard enough to let her know she did wrong. You explain that next time she should be more careful. She might cry a little, might have a red mark for a bit and she might get scared next time she does something wrong and wait for your reaction.
Next time she prangs the car it'll be OK to hit her twice as much or twice as hard?
That isn't ok is it?
BTW this is in no way having a go at you, I'm sure you are a great chap who of course would never hit their missus. Just throwing out an example for the discussion.
I find it amazing how many on PH shout from the roof tops THRASH THEM when anything happens involving children that they have never met!
Yet when you press them they then say "oh not beat them, just smack them you know in a calm and controlled way".
k are you on about?Adults learn by themselves, kids don't.
Reverse the situation. If she was in the car by herself she would have learned to not reverse into the car by herself without having an adult/superior telling her off. Would a child learn how to behave if they were left to their own devices?
Cara van Man said:
snowy slopes said:
I would define a beating as the child needing hospital treatment. Would i hit my own kids if i had any? No, but only because if i had any kids they would be a damn sight more well behaved than the average child in britain today, but if they were to step out of line, then a sharp smacking would be given to make sure they wouldnt do it again
havent you just contridicted yourself?
eldar said:
southendpier said:
Migh make him feel better, hoping to get virtual high-fives from other intollerent, kid-hating, internet f*ckwits y'see?
The parent of perfect children? In that they can spell intolerant
Never said that either I was perfect or my children.
Cock Womble 7 said:
southendpier said:
I find it amazing how many on PH shout from the roof tops THRASH THEM when anything happens involving children
To be fair, it's not just children that illicit this response.It's women too.
And dogs.
And, for that matter, rabbits.
WorAl said:
southendpier said:
snowy slopes said:
southendpier said:
monthefish said:
southendpier said:
Do not equate disciplining children to beating them.
Do not equate a 'smack on the backside' to beating.I was on receiving end of a smack on the backside (always from my mother as it happens) as a child. I would never class myself as having been beaten as a child.
You're in the car too. You get out and survey the damage, your irritated but reamin calm(ish). Punishment is needed so you decide to slap her, not hard enough to send her to hospital but just hard enough to let her know she did wrong. You explain that next time she should be more careful. She might cry a little, might have a red mark for a bit and she might get scared next time she does something wrong and wait for your reaction.
Next time she prangs the car it'll be OK to hit her twice as much or twice as hard?
That isn't ok is it?
BTW this is in no way having a go at you, I'm sure you are a great chap who of course would never hit their missus. Just throwing out an example for the discussion.
I find it amazing how many on PH shout from the roof tops THRASH THEM when anything happens involving children that they have never met!
Yet when you press them they then say "oh not beat them, just smack them you know in a calm and controlled way".
k are you on about?Adults learn by themselves, kids don't.
Reverse the situation. If she was in the car by herself she would have learned to not reverse into the car by herself without having an adult/superior telling her off. Would a child learn how to behave if they were left to their own devices?
k. I was making the distinction of hitting people as a punishment. Did you not get it? No one is saying that children should not be disciplined, learn to have respect and learn to behave.
Talking of behaviour, do you think it right that CVM (rather than do anything at the time) mouthed at the child when he left?
southendpier said:
eldar said:
southendpier said:
Migh make him feel better, hoping to get virtual high-fives from other intollerent, kid-hating, internet f*ckwits y'see?
The parent of perfect children? In that they can spell intolerantNever said that either I was perfect or my children.
kwit, according to my kidsAndy Zarse said:
Cock Womble 7 said:
southendpier said:
I find it amazing how many on PH shout from the roof tops THRASH THEM when anything happens involving children
To be fair, it's not just children that illicit this response.It's women too.
And dogs.
And, for that matter, rabbits.
southendpier said:
WorAl said:
southendpier said:
snowy slopes said:
southendpier said:
monthefish said:
southendpier said:
Do not equate disciplining children to beating them.
Do not equate a 'smack on the backside' to beating.I was on receiving end of a smack on the backside (always from my mother as it happens) as a child. I would never class myself as having been beaten as a child.
You're in the car too. You get out and survey the damage, your irritated but reamin calm(ish). Punishment is needed so you decide to slap her, not hard enough to send her to hospital but just hard enough to let her know she did wrong. You explain that next time she should be more careful. She might cry a little, might have a red mark for a bit and she might get scared next time she does something wrong and wait for your reaction.
Next time she prangs the car it'll be OK to hit her twice as much or twice as hard?
That isn't ok is it?
BTW this is in no way having a go at you, I'm sure you are a great chap who of course would never hit their missus. Just throwing out an example for the discussion.
I find it amazing how many on PH shout from the roof tops THRASH THEM when anything happens involving children that they have never met!
Yet when you press them they then say "oh not beat them, just smack them you know in a calm and controlled way".
k are you on about?Adults learn by themselves, kids don't.
Reverse the situation. If she was in the car by herself she would have learned to not reverse into the car by herself without having an adult/superior telling her off. Would a child learn how to behave if they were left to their own devices?
k. I was making the distinction of hitting people as a punishment. Did you not get it? No one is saying that children should not be disciplined, learn to have respect and learn to behave.
Talking of behaviour, do you think it right that CVM (rather than do anything at the time) mouthed at the child when he left?
t, that is about learning from mistakes.A child scratching a car or putting a ball through a window will have done it on purpose or by mistake; if on purpose, the child should be punished accordingly.
You see where your argument is flawed, is basically what is wrong with this country, people burgle houses, they rob and steal from and even kill people. What punishment do they get? virtually none, they get stuck in prison for a few years, let out after half their term and they class it as being at a holiday camp these days.
If someone stole £500 from an old lady and they received a good flogging for it, I bet they'd think twice about doing it again, don't you?
What actually happens is they get a good stern telling off, oooooh that'll teach them, I bet they quiver in their boots while the big nasty judge man is standing there saying "Now don't do that again you naughty boy" whilst waving his finger.
And that is what everyone is talking about here, no need to kick seven shades of s
t out of the kid, but if he has stepped well out of line, give him a slap across the arse for it, he'll think twice about doing it again and he will get the picture instantly that what he has done was wrong.WorAl said:
southendpier said:
WorAl said:
southendpier said:
snowy slopes said:
southendpier said:
monthefish said:
southendpier said:
Do not equate disciplining children to beating them.
Do not equate a 'smack on the backside' to beating.I was on receiving end of a smack on the backside (always from my mother as it happens) as a child. I would never class myself as having been beaten as a child.
You're in the car too. You get out and survey the damage, your irritated but reamin calm(ish). Punishment is needed so you decide to slap her, not hard enough to send her to hospital but just hard enough to let her know she did wrong. You explain that next time she should be more careful. She might cry a little, might have a red mark for a bit and she might get scared next time she does something wrong and wait for your reaction.
Next time she prangs the car it'll be OK to hit her twice as much or twice as hard?
That isn't ok is it?
BTW this is in no way having a go at you, I'm sure you are a great chap who of course would never hit their missus. Just throwing out an example for the discussion.
I find it amazing how many on PH shout from the roof tops THRASH THEM when anything happens involving children that they have never met!
Yet when you press them they then say "oh not beat them, just smack them you know in a calm and controlled way".
k are you on about?Adults learn by themselves, kids don't.
Reverse the situation. If she was in the car by herself she would have learned to not reverse into the car by herself without having an adult/superior telling her off. Would a child learn how to behave if they were left to their own devices?
k. I was making the distinction of hitting people as a punishment. Did you not get it? No one is saying that children should not be disciplined, learn to have respect and learn to behave.
Talking of behaviour, do you think it right that CVM (rather than do anything at the time) mouthed at the child when he left?
t, that is about learning from mistakes.A child scratching a car or putting a ball through a window will have done it on purpose or by mistake; if on purpose, the child should be punished accordingly.
You see where your argument is flawed, is basically what is wrong with this country, people burgle houses, they rob and steal from and even kill people. What punishment do they get? virtually none, they get stuck in prison for a few years, let out after half their term and they class it as being at a holiday camp these days.
If someone stole £500 from an old lady and they received a good flogging for it, I bet they'd think twice about doing it again, don't you?
What actually happens is they get a good stern telling off, oooooh that'll teach them, I bet they quiver in their boots while the big nasty judge man is standing there saying "Now don't do that again you naughty boy" whilst waving his finger.
And that is what everyone is talking about here, no need to kick seven shades of s
t out of the kid, but if he has stepped well out of line, give him a slap across the arse for it, he'll think twice about doing it again and he will get the picture instantly that what he has done was wrong.Cock Womble 7 said:
southendpier said:
I find it amazing how many on PH shout from the roof tops THRASH THEM when anything happens involving children
To be fair, it's not just children that illicit this response.It's women too.
And dogs.
And, for that matter, rabbits.
Andy Zarse said:
Meanwhile, on the way back from the CVM family holiday in Benidorm...
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XbnRRGISLQE&fea...
Looking at the title of the video, I don't want to think what you searched for!http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XbnRRGISLQE&fea...
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