Match.com (Volume 3)
Discussion
Great Pretender said:
GTIR said:
I went on a date, actually it was our second, and all was going great until she bumped into some friends in the pub (I'm ok with saying hello, she knows a lot of people) and she introduced me as "This is my boyfriend. I know, amazing at long last!" 
Once they left I questioned why she said it but she just got arsey with my "Overeaction"
You sort out the hack saw; I'll get the bin bags.Once they left I questioned why she said it but she just got arsey with my "Overeaction"
Dave200 said:
Mr E Driver said:
I think it's a bit different, more unusual when a woman has wandering eyes as with blokes it is fairly normal. Genes and all that stuff.
I'm keen to know what you base this assumption on. I know plenty of girls who will openly stare at, and talk about 'hot' guys when we're out at a club or bar.Mr E Driver said:
I would turn and look to see who she is looking at and then discuss them.
No. Just no. Never.If you follow this advice, you will end up having an unnecessary argument with your ladyfriend in a public place (potentially with her friends at close-quarters).
I would be tempted to turn around and see who she is eyeing up, and then ask jokingly is she would like to be introduced to him!
Hedders said:
Dave200 said:
Mr E Driver said:
I think it's a bit different, more unusual when a woman has wandering eyes as with blokes it is fairly normal. Genes and all that stuff.
I'm keen to know what you base this assumption on. I know plenty of girls who will openly stare at, and talk about 'hot' guys when we're out at a club or bar.Mr E Driver said:
I would turn and look to see who she is looking at and then discuss them.
No. Just no. Never.If you follow this advice, you will end up having an unnecessary argument with your ladyfriend in a public place (potentially with her friends at close-quarters).
I would be tempted to turn around and see who she is eyeing up, and then ask jokingly is she would like to be introduced to him!
If you want to have a serious/mature conversation about something, why on earth would you choose a difficult environment, and start it with an accusation/joke which is only guaranteed to get her on the defensive? I'm sorry - it might work in your head, but I just can't imagine how it would pan out well in the real world...
Dave200 said:
Hedders said:
Dave200 said:
Mr E Driver said:
I think it's a bit different, more unusual when a woman has wandering eyes as with blokes it is fairly normal. Genes and all that stuff.
I'm keen to know what you base this assumption on. I know plenty of girls who will openly stare at, and talk about 'hot' guys when we're out at a club or bar.Mr E Driver said:
I would turn and look to see who she is looking at and then discuss them.
No. Just no. Never.If you follow this advice, you will end up having an unnecessary argument with your ladyfriend in a public place (potentially with her friends at close-quarters).
I would be tempted to turn around and see who she is eyeing up, and then ask jokingly is she would like to be introduced to him!
If you want to have a serious/mature conversation about something, why on earth would you choose a difficult environment, and start it with an accusation/joke which is only guaranteed to get her on the defensive? I'm sorry - it might work in your head, but I just can't imagine how it would pan out well in the real world...
shirt said:
shrug it off nobleguy. you are overanalysing and starting to sound like a woman.
You're not the first to tell me I over-analyse.Tell you what, it was much easier going out with girls from Match that I wasn't interested in even if it was shallow and meaningless. There was no risk and no opening oneself up to being walked all over. I'm finding that leap of faith hard...
WorAl said:
Do I dare put my modified PoF profile on to be ridiculed?
You really want to throw yourself into the lions den to be ripped to shreads???Edited by WorAl on Tuesday 10th August 16:11
Send it to Rach at least she will be a little objective....
OH DEAR TOO LATE
Edited by Scamper on Tuesday 10th August 16:20
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tWorAl said:
Erm... I'm no expert at this, but I think the photos could probably do with a bit of work. Keep the last two, as they make you look human, but the first three are hideous...The spiel, well, it sounds pretty much like every other one that has been posted up. It sort of seems like you're trying a bit hard to be funny - are you naturally funny, or is it a 'face'?
WorAl said:
I thank you papabear said:
I think he is speechless!!You've got some balls putting that on here!!
Dave200 said:
NobleGuy said:
It REALLY upsets me even though she picked up on me being 'bored' (completely p***sed off actually...) and seemed to be as into me as much as ever that night.
Incidentally, this is the last path you should be following.You're a grown man - you should be able to either talk about or deal with your feelings. Bottling it all up, and having a sulk is probably the only thing guaranteed to derail the relationship...
Dave200 said:
WorAl said:
Erm... I'm no expert at this, but I think the photos could probably do with a bit of work. Keep the last two, as they make you look human, but the first three are hideous...The spiel, well, it sounds pretty much like every other one that has been posted up. It sort of seems like you're trying a bit hard to be funny - are you naturally funny, or is it a 'face'?
it is just a bit of a piss take to be honest, I'm bored with it so may as well throw something out there with a little light humour, I did have something serious up there, lot of good that did....well it did actually, but I'm still bored and tend to find I can't be arsed to go on.Gassing Station | The Lounge | Top of Page | What's New | My Stuff