sad day

[Cock Womble 7]

anonymous said:

[redacted]

It sounds like you're still not quite over her, despite the intervening eight years - propabaly because of the suddenness of the split.

Go. Say your goodbyes and move on.

Don't worry about bursting into tears - that won't exactly look out of place at a funeral.

[Jasandjules]

B0LLIKS said:

hi, i dont think me turning up will cause any problems, its more the fact of me making a fool of my self by bursting out in floods of tears as i know i will.

Well, I wouldn't worry about being a fool in that way, plenty of people cry at funerals.

However, there is nothing to stop you from going to the grave another day and paying your respects?

[yazza54]

Go. She obviously meant something to you at some point, maybe still does in a sentimental way. Say goodbye and be pleased that you made the effort, no matter how upsetting it was. You don't want to end up regretting not going.

[B0LLIKS]

well today was the funeral, i did'nt go, i just could not get myself to do it. seems she died of a heart attack in her sleep, so hopefully she never felt anything. i will go to visit the grave, just not for a while.

[Rude-boy]

B0LLIKS said:

well today was the funeral, i did'nt go, i just could not get myself to do it. seems she died of a heart attack in her sleep, so hopefully she never felt anything. i will go to visit the grave, just not for a while.

Only just seen this thread but if I had news like this about my ex, who I split up from about 5 years ago now, that is just about how I would deal with it.

[alfa pint]

My dad died last year and my mum got shedloads of cards and letters, all of which were deeply appreciated. If you want to tell a member of the family about how sad you feel at the moment, you could always write a card. You don't even have to put your name in it.

[Justayellowbadge]

I'd have gone.

And danced.

You're probably a better man than me.

[blindswelledrat]

Justayellowbadge said:

I'd have gone.
And danced.
You're probably a better man than me.

Me too. And worn a t-shirt with the slogan "That'll learn you" on it.
Actually, I probably wouldn't have. TOo lazy.
I'd have just stayed at home and masturbated over the whole sorry mess.

[Flintstone]

blindswelledrat said:

Me too. And worn a t-shirt with the slogan "That'll learn you" on it.
Actually, I probably wouldn't have. TOo lazy.
I'd have just stayed at home and masturbated over the whole sorry mess.

Phew.

Until I read this I thought PH had gone soft.

[Shinobi]

If your not sad don't go, it's a time for mourning for her friends and family.

[sleep envy]

blindswelledrat said:

Justayellowbadge said:

I'd have gone.
And danced.
You're probably a better man than me.

Me too. And worn a t-shirt with the slogan "That'll learn you" on it.
Actually, I probably wouldn't have. TOo lazy.
I'd have just stayed at home and masturbated over the whole sorry mess.

there's still the opportunity to knock one out if she was buried

[Disastrous]

blindswelledrat said:

Justayellowbadge said:

I'd have gone.
And danced.
You're probably a better man than me.

Me too. And worn a t-shirt with the slogan "That'll learn you" on it.
Actually, I probably wouldn't have. TOo lazy.
I'd have just stayed at home and masturbated over the whole sorry mess.