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Somewhatfoolish

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4,365 posts

186 months

Tuesday 2nd November 2010
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Turned up eventually. He's claiming he knew it was a scam all along. The evidence suggests otherwise but if it stops him from losing "face"... w/e... at least no one hurt smile

Now happy to be punting 10p a point on IG Index. That doomed as well but what can you do

Miguel Alvarez

4,944 posts

170 months

Tuesday 2nd November 2010
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You are now his mentor.

cal72

7,839 posts

170 months

Tuesday 2nd November 2010
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And he is a stalker.

mybrainurts

90,809 posts

255 months

Tuesday 2nd November 2010
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Somewhatfoolish said:
Turned up eventually. He's claiming he knew it was a scam all along. The evidence suggests otherwise but if it stops him from losing "face"... w/e... at least no one hurt smile

Now happy to be punting 10p a point on IG Index. That doomed as well but what can you do
Buy his bike...

Frankeh

12,558 posts

185 months

Tuesday 2nd November 2010
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Somewhatfoolish said:
So I had to send this email (more or less... slightly edited to remove personal things) today:

Email to moron said:
I won't get into a debate here, given my experience on Thursday. So take the advice or ignore it. But I'm right and I'm telling you this cause you're a nice guy, just dreadfully naive. You left your email logged on [a system I have access to] today and before I realised that I ended up accidentally reading a bit of your email. There's at least one person on a dating site (or something) that has contacted you and you've been in touch with. She's making the whole thing up. It's actually some bloke in nigeria who is there to steal your money. It's bullst. "She" doesn't exist.
Why oh why are people this thick? I actually want to punch the person I sent this to, it's the latest in a long line of things where I've had to rescue them from themselves... and they're not a relative or friend... it terrible... I need a hug...
Time to break out my frankly hilarious desperate dad story.

Ok, so my mum died and my dad went a bit loopy. That's not so funny. The bullst he fell for however, is.

I soon realised he was chatting to women online via MSN so I dumped his harddrive across the home network every few weeks to see what he was up to.

What I discovered was that he was getting stung on 2 accounts.

1) He was getting taken to the cleaners by a thai woman. He now lives with her, but at the time he was paying her car payments, errectricity bill (She spelled it like that in the messages), utilities and rent without ever actually meeting her.
This was all while he was getting into arrears on his mortgage that I then had to bail him out of.

2) He was getting conned by some nigerian woman who apparently needed money for an operation. She had told my dad that she'd sold her car, bed and even her fridge.
It didn't seem to click with my dad that usually you would sell your computer and webcam before you'd sell a fridge.
That was £500 he'd never see again.

He's off in thailand now and we don't talk. I don't expect to hear from him before his death and I've made that quite clear.

He's a fking moron of the highest calibre..

T84

6,941 posts

194 months

Tuesday 2nd November 2010
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Has he threatened to burn down the building?

Miguel Alvarez

4,944 posts

170 months

Tuesday 2nd November 2010
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Frankeh said:
Somewhatfoolish said:
So I had to send this email (more or less... slightly edited to remove personal things) today:

Email to moron said:
I won't get into a debate here, given my experience on Thursday. So take the advice or ignore it. But I'm right and I'm telling you this cause you're a nice guy, just dreadfully naive. You left your email logged on [a system I have access to] today and before I realised that I ended up accidentally reading a bit of your email. There's at least one person on a dating site (or something) that has contacted you and you've been in touch with. She's making the whole thing up. It's actually some bloke in nigeria who is there to steal your money. It's bullst. "She" doesn't exist.
Why oh why are people this thick? I actually want to punch the person I sent this to, it's the latest in a long line of things where I've had to rescue them from themselves... and they're not a relative or friend... it terrible... I need a hug...
Time to break out my frankly hilarious desperate dad story.

Ok, so my mum died and my dad went a bit loopy. That's not so funny. The bullst he fell for however, is.

I soon realised he was chatting to women online via MSN so I dumped his harddrive across the home network every few weeks to see what he was up to.

What I discovered was that he was getting stung on 2 accounts.

1) He was getting taken to the cleaners by a thai woman. He now lives with her, but at the time he was paying her car payments, errectricity bill (She spelled it like that in the messages), utilities and rent without ever actually meeting her.
This was all while he was getting into arrears on his mortgage that I then had to bail him out of.

2) He was getting conned by some nigerian woman who apparently needed money for an operation. She had told my dad that she'd sold her car, bed and even her fridge.
It didn't seem to click with my dad that usually you would sell your computer and webcam before you'd sell a fridge.
That was £500 he'd never see again.

He's off in thailand now and we don't talk. I don't expect to hear from him before his death and I've made that quite clear.

He's a fking moron of the highest calibre..
I'm not one to get involved (well I am) but why wouldn't you stand by your Dad when he's clearly going through a rough time of it.


Frankeh

12,558 posts

185 months

Tuesday 2nd November 2010
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Miguel Alvarez said:
Frankeh said:
Somewhatfoolish said:
So I had to send this email (more or less... slightly edited to remove personal things) today:

Email to moron said:
I won't get into a debate here, given my experience on Thursday. So take the advice or ignore it. But I'm right and I'm telling you this cause you're a nice guy, just dreadfully naive. You left your email logged on [a system I have access to] today and before I realised that I ended up accidentally reading a bit of your email. There's at least one person on a dating site (or something) that has contacted you and you've been in touch with. She's making the whole thing up. It's actually some bloke in nigeria who is there to steal your money. It's bullst. "She" doesn't exist.
Why oh why are people this thick? I actually want to punch the person I sent this to, it's the latest in a long line of things where I've had to rescue them from themselves... and they're not a relative or friend... it terrible... I need a hug...
Time to break out my frankly hilarious desperate dad story.

Ok, so my mum died and my dad went a bit loopy. That's not so funny. The bullst he fell for however, is.

I soon realised he was chatting to women online via MSN so I dumped his harddrive across the home network every few weeks to see what he was up to.

What I discovered was that he was getting stung on 2 accounts.

1) He was getting taken to the cleaners by a thai woman. He now lives with her, but at the time he was paying her car payments, errectricity bill (She spelled it like that in the messages), utilities and rent without ever actually meeting her.
This was all while he was getting into arrears on his mortgage that I then had to bail him out of.

2) He was getting conned by some nigerian woman who apparently needed money for an operation. She had told my dad that she'd sold her car, bed and even her fridge.
It didn't seem to click with my dad that usually you would sell your computer and webcam before you'd sell a fridge.
That was £500 he'd never see again.

He's off in thailand now and we don't talk. I don't expect to hear from him before his death and I've made that quite clear.

He's a fking moron of the highest calibre..
I'm not one to get involved (well I am) but why wouldn't you stand by your Dad when he's clearly going through a rough time of it.
It's such an awfully long story.
Basically 1 month after my mum died I noticed he was visiting Thai love sites and friendsreunited dating and all that bks. I put it down to grief and tried to not let it bother me.
If any of us talked about the money situation he'd just cry because my mum sorted that out.

Within 2 months he was talking to one thai bird regularly. We had a chat and he wouldn't have any of it.
Just said they were "pen pals".
He got a £40K life insurance pay out and didn't help out my sister with her £4k debt. Something my mum was planning to do before she died with the remortgage.
In the end my dad still got the remortgage but never paid off my sisters debt even though that's what mum would have wanted.
He then spunked £20K on a second hand Merc and quit his job.
He fell into arrears, tried to trick me into co signing a loan.
Gave me £50 on my birthday, then asked to borrow £1500 from me on the same day otherwise the house would be reposesed the following wednesday.
All through this 3 years he promised to buy my mum a headstone for her and never did. We're only now getting it put in after battling to try and get him to do it. We gave up in the end and it'll finally be there 3 years later.

He bought a house in thailand and put ours on the market without telling us.

He forged my mums will when we asked to look at it. He crossed out "I want to be cremated" in brio then forged my mums name as if that would fool us.

Me my brother or my sister never saw a penny from the sale of the house or the life insurance even though I'd found a first draft of her will in the loft that said next to the part that was written "I leave everything to my husband" it said "What about the children?" in handwritting. I'm not too bitter about this but it's pretty obvious to me that him and my mum had an understanding that things would be split equally.

She didn't expect to die though so I doubt much discussion went into it. The handwritten scrawl shows intent though.

Also, just before he had the cheek to ask to borrow money from me (Which I lent him in the end) he claimed that I owed him £6000 in rent from pretty much the week my mum died. I'd been a student most of that time and had only started working for about 1 month.

He's a sthead. Trust me.

He's the one that fked off to thailand, not us. I'm better off without him and I wont be shedding a tear when he dies.
The only use he has is to show me what I should never ever become and how not to act towards my children.

Edited by Frankeh on Tuesday 2nd November 15:59

Marf

22,907 posts

241 months

Tuesday 2nd November 2010
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Cookie172 said:
Is he the Chinese equivilent of Milton?

Have you theen my thtapler?

It'th a red thwingline thtapler.

Edited by Marf on Tuesday 2nd November 16:29

ShadownINja

76,362 posts

282 months

Tuesday 2nd November 2010
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Frankeh said:
stuff
Sorry to hear it's all gone tits up. frown

Frankeh

12,558 posts

185 months

Tuesday 2nd November 2010
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As you can see by my post I'm well and truly over it.
laugh

Miguel Alvarez

4,944 posts

170 months

Wednesday 3rd November 2010
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Frankeh said:
As you can see by my post I'm well and truly over it.
laugh
Ok he doesn't sound the best of fathers and we're not that close for me to be prying anymore. I appreciate the honesty though. Can't possibly have been easy to deal with at such a rough time.

SplatSpeed

7,490 posts

251 months

Wednesday 3rd November 2010
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Frankeh said:
As you can see by my post I'm well and truly over it.
laugh
did the right thing

stimps

109 posts

167 months

Wednesday 3rd November 2010
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Cotty said:
Somewhatfoolish said:
hahaha... one story does quickly come to mind - he thought pork came from a fish
I work with a guy who thinks one kg of one substance could weigh more that one kg of another substance.
1kg of feathers = 1kg of bricks? i think not.

stimps

109 posts

167 months

Wednesday 3rd November 2010
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Frankeh said:
Miguel Alvarez said:
Frankeh said:
Somewhatfoolish said:
So I had to send this email (more or less... slightly edited to remove personal things) today:

Email to moron said:
I won't get into a debate here, given my experience on Thursday. So take the advice or ignore it. But I'm right and I'm telling you this cause you're a nice guy, just dreadfully naive. You left your email logged on [a system I have access to] today and before I realised that I ended up accidentally reading a bit of your email. There's at least one person on a dating site (or something) that has contacted you and you've been in touch with. She's making the whole thing up. It's actually some bloke in nigeria who is there to steal your money. It's bullst. "She" doesn't exist.
Why oh why are people this thick? I actually want to punch the person I sent this to, it's the latest in a long line of things where I've had to rescue them from themselves... and they're not a relative or friend... it terrible... I need a hug...
Time to break out my frankly hilarious desperate dad story.

Ok, so my mum died and my dad went a bit loopy. That's not so funny. The bullst he fell for however, is.

I soon realised he was chatting to women online via MSN so I dumped his harddrive across the home network every few weeks to see what he was up to.

What I discovered was that he was getting stung on 2 accounts.

1) He was getting taken to the cleaners by a thai woman. He now lives with her, but at the time he was paying her car payments, errectricity bill (She spelled it like that in the messages), utilities and rent without ever actually meeting her.
This was all while he was getting into arrears on his mortgage that I then had to bail him out of.

2) He was getting conned by some nigerian woman who apparently needed money for an operation. She had told my dad that she'd sold her car, bed and even her fridge.
It didn't seem to click with my dad that usually you would sell your computer and webcam before you'd sell a fridge.
That was £500 he'd never see again.

He's off in thailand now and we don't talk. I don't expect to hear from him before his death and I've made that quite clear.

He's a fking moron of the highest calibre..
I'm not one to get involved (well I am) but why wouldn't you stand by your Dad when he's clearly going through a rough time of it.
It's such an awfully long story.
Basically 1 month after my mum died I noticed he was visiting Thai love sites and friendsreunited dating and all that bks. I put it down to grief and tried to not let it bother me.
If any of us talked about the money situation he'd just cry because my mum sorted that out.

Within 2 months he was talking to one thai bird regularly. We had a chat and he wouldn't have any of it.
Just said they were "pen pals".
He got a £40K life insurance pay out and didn't help out my sister with her £4k debt. Something my mum was planning to do before she died with the remortgage.
In the end my dad still got the remortgage but never paid off my sisters debt even though that's what mum would have wanted.
He then spunked £20K on a second hand Merc and quit his job.
He fell into arrears, tried to trick me into co signing a loan.
Gave me £50 on my birthday, then asked to borrow £1500 from me on the same day otherwise the house would be reposesed the following wednesday.
All through this 3 years he promised to buy my mum a headstone for her and never did. We're only now getting it put in after battling to try and get him to do it. We gave up in the end and it'll finally be there 3 years later.

He bought a house in thailand and put ours on the market without telling us.

He forged my mums will when we asked to look at it. He crossed out "I want to be cremated" in brio then forged my mums name as if that would fool us.

Me my brother or my sister never saw a penny from the sale of the house or the life insurance even though I'd found a first draft of her will in the loft that said next to the part that was written "I leave everything to my husband" it said "What about the children?" in handwritting. I'm not too bitter about this but it's pretty obvious to me that him and my mum had an understanding that things would be split equally.

She didn't expect to die though so I doubt much discussion went into it. The handwritten scrawl shows intent though.

Also, just before he had the cheek to ask to borrow money from me (Which I lent him in the end) he claimed that I owed him £6000 in rent from pretty much the week my mum died. I'd been a student most of that time and had only started working for about 1 month.

He's a sthead. Trust me.

He's the one that fked off to thailand, not us. I'm better off without him and I wont be shedding a tear when he dies.
The only use he has is to show me what I should never ever become and how not to act towards my children.

Edited by Frankeh on Tuesday 2nd November 15:59
I hate hearing stories like these, it's horrible that such a bad time in someones life can get even worse.

JM

3,170 posts

206 months

Wednesday 3rd November 2010
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stimps said:
1kg of feathers = 1kg of bricks? i think not.
Eh?


0191mark

6,087 posts

176 months

Wednesday 3rd November 2010
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stimps said:
1kg of feathers = 1kg of bricks? i think not.
Care to elaborate?

Somewhatfoolish

Original Poster:

4,365 posts

186 months

Wednesday 3rd November 2010
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Technically he's right. Put 1kg of feathers in a sphere, and 1kg of bricks in a sphere.

Think about the implications of that (hint:feathers sphere will be bigger)

Edit: P.S. Have a vid of the subject of this thread trying to make a phone call which I put on youtube yesterday to show some people. Should I link it?

Edited by Somewhatfoolish on Wednesday 3rd November 18:44

matsmith

1,166 posts

209 months

Wednesday 3rd November 2010
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Somewhatfoolish said:
Have a vid of the subject of this thread trying to make a phone call which I put on youtube yesterday to show some people. Should I link it?
hehe I think you should SWF, the "trying" part makes me think it could be quite entertaining

Somewhatfoolish

Original Poster:

4,365 posts

186 months

Wednesday 3rd November 2010
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http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KW80Yct2Wkw

(apologies for sound balance...)

Edited by Somewhatfoolish on Wednesday 3rd November 20:07