Using the loo in in front of your partner
Poll: Using the loo in in front of your partner
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Ok,
So a very strange conversation that came about at work.
Would you feel comfortable using the loo in front of your partner or, alternatively, for them to use it in front of you?
A girl at work insists that depositing solid matter in front of her fiancé is completely wrong as it would dispel the womanly image and romance. As such, she warns him prior to a trip to the toilet so he does not unintentionally walk in. This also extends to vomiting in front of him and breaking wind. She has been with him for 18 months but he is away a lot in the forces.
I am of the opinion that it does not matter. I have no issues brushing my teeth or running through my morning bathroom ritual while my girlfriend is using the toilet. Just as I am not fussed if the situation is reversed. I also don't care if she breaks wind or throws up in front of me (usually I just hold her hair out of the way).
Bearing in mind, I'm talking about being comfortable enough to casually carry on in the bathroom without a drama. I am not talking about hiding behind the towel rail, pleasuring yourself.
So without turning this into a thread based on scatt or watersports, what is the general consensus decision of PH?
So a very strange conversation that came about at work.
Would you feel comfortable using the loo in front of your partner or, alternatively, for them to use it in front of you?
A girl at work insists that depositing solid matter in front of her fiancé is completely wrong as it would dispel the womanly image and romance. As such, she warns him prior to a trip to the toilet so he does not unintentionally walk in. This also extends to vomiting in front of him and breaking wind. She has been with him for 18 months but he is away a lot in the forces.
I am of the opinion that it does not matter. I have no issues brushing my teeth or running through my morning bathroom ritual while my girlfriend is using the toilet. Just as I am not fussed if the situation is reversed. I also don't care if she breaks wind or throws up in front of me (usually I just hold her hair out of the way).
Bearing in mind, I'm talking about being comfortable enough to casually carry on in the bathroom without a drama. I am not talking about hiding behind the towel rail, pleasuring yourself.
So without turning this into a thread based on scatt or watersports, what is the general consensus decision of PH?
Bedford Rascal said:
The Beaver King said:
...I am not talking about hiding behind the towel rail, pleasuring yourself...
I was all primed with a response until I read that bit.PS - How do you hide behind a towel rail?
It used to be a problem until one particular ex started doing it. I kind of got used to it.
I did, however step over the mark (looking back, when sober) on peeing between her legs while she was sat on the loo having a dump!
(I was poor in those days and we only had on loo, I didn't want to pee in the sink/shower/kettle)
I did, however step over the mark (looking back, when sober) on peeing between her legs while she was sat on the loo having a dump!
(I was poor in those days and we only had on loo, I didn't want to pee in the sink/shower/kettle)
I have had ex's come into the bathroom to wet the lettuce whilst I've been in the bath or shower before; not really a big deal, although I can't ever remember it happening the other way around - although, being a man, I have full control of my bladder and can wait until madame's ablutions are complete.
I draw the line at number twos though. Too much.
I draw the line at number twos though. Too much.
Only ever with the current OH, after we've been together for about 3 years it became "normal", we have more than one loo, but the one on the floor of our bedroom is the one in the bathroom, so we do the whole morning ritual together in the bathroom.
Farting is fair game, vomiting she only ever does if she's really sick, so I generally help her by holding her hair back, holding the bucket or getting some water to drink.
Farting is fair game, vomiting she only ever does if she's really sick, so I generally help her by holding her hair back, holding the bucket or getting some water to drink.
The Beaver King said:
Ok,
So a very strange conversation that came about at work....
When you say 'work' do you infact mean 'prison'?So a very strange conversation that came about at work....
The Beaver King said:
Would you feel comfortable using the loo in front of your partner...
When you say 'partner' do you really mean 'cellmate'...The Beaver King said:
A girl at work...
And when you say 'girl' do... well, I think you get the idea...I can't see any other scenario that voyeuristic / exhibitionist hopper type activity would need to take place infront of anyone else!
slomax said:
Poledriver said:
I did, however step over the mark (looking back, when sober) on peeing between her legs while she was sat on the loo having a dump!
WOW! Way too much info!must have had exceptional aim though...
- Government warning** Only attempt this when in drunk/cold/in a flaccid state!
Steamer said:
The Beaver King said:
Ok,
So a very strange conversation that came about at work....
When you say 'work' do you infact mean 'prison'?So a very strange conversation that came about at work....
The Beaver King said:
Would you feel comfortable using the loo in front of your partner...
When you say 'partner' do you really mean 'cellmate'...The Beaver King said:
A girl at work...
And when you say 'girl' do... well, I think you get the idea...I can't see any other scenario that voyeuristic / exhibitionist hopper type activity would need to take place infront of anyone else!
I'm not saying intentionally going to use the loo while your partner is in the middle of the job, but if you need to get ready for work and you only have one toilet, then what is the problem.
I don't even register my girlfriend is using the loo and certainly don't highlight or draw attention to the fact that she is having a poo. I suppose it depends how comfortable and skweemish you are. I suppose it helps that she smells of roses anyway...
t?Poledriver said:
It used to be a problem until one particular ex started doing it. I kind of got used to it.
I did, however step over the mark (looking back, when sober) on peeing between her legs while she was sat on the loo having a dump!
(I was poor in those days and we only had on loo, I didn't want to pee in the sink/shower/kettle)
I have to confess to doing the same when drunk once and finding it particularly amusing, especially when I shoved it in her gob afterwards, she didn't have time to complain I did, however step over the mark (looking back, when sober) on peeing between her legs while she was sat on the loo having a dump!
(I was poor in those days and we only had on loo, I didn't want to pee in the sink/shower/kettle)
Before I met the g/f I was always a no way type. Even squeezing a few drops out would take more mental effort than waiting a few minutes.
Now I will happily have a pee with her there but still can't do the sitting thing other than in tummy bug situations where there is no choice in the matter. TBH I tend to let her know if I am off for a quick read and have been known to get a little stroppy when she insists on starting up or carrying on a conversation when I am trying to read Pit and Paddock.
She on the other hand has no fears, although will warn me if it's not just a pee so I can make up my own mind is i am likely to be gassed.
We will both happily pass wind in front of each other - We don't have competitions of anything but in the right mood on our own will pass comment and ratings
Now I will happily have a pee with her there but still can't do the sitting thing other than in tummy bug situations where there is no choice in the matter. TBH I tend to let her know if I am off for a quick read and have been known to get a little stroppy when she insists on starting up or carrying on a conversation when I am trying to read Pit and Paddock.
She on the other hand has no fears, although will warn me if it's not just a pee so I can make up my own mind is i am likely to be gassed.
We will both happily pass wind in front of each other - We don't have competitions of anything but in the right mood on our own will pass comment and ratings
Edited by Rude-boy on Thursday 25th November 14:45
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