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My ex-wife and I used an online divorce service to wrap up the marriage. Was quite reasonable on price and because everything was split down the middle and access to my Son had already been in place during the separation made it quite straightforward too.
There is a car dealer in the UK that at the moment that has some high value cars in 'storage' on behalf of a customer. The reason? He wants his soon to be ex-wife to think he really has sold them.
There is a car dealer in the UK that at the moment that has some high value cars in 'storage' on behalf of a customer. The reason? He wants his soon to be ex-wife to think he really has sold them.
Fun Bus said:
My ex-wife and I used an online divorce service to wrap up the marriage. Was quite reasonable on price and because everything was split down the middle and access to my Son had already been in place during the separation made it quite straightforward too.
There is a car dealer in the UK that at the moment that has some high value cars in 'storage' on behalf of a customer. The reason? He wants his soon to be ex-wife to think he really has sold them.
GrayPaul per chance?There is a car dealer in the UK that at the moment that has some high value cars in 'storage' on behalf of a customer. The reason? He wants his soon to be ex-wife to think he really has sold them.
I hope his wife isnt a PH'er.
Look on wikivorce.com, you'll find all kinds of stories on there, and good advice.
Forget it being amicable, if she doesn't want it to be.
Try mediation, less costly, and a good chance of it being unbiased.
Or go for the 25k each option, and fight it right through to a Financial Hearing with a Barrister.
Thats the option Im faced with.
Nice.
Byebye 993, and 911 C3.2 house and life.
Divorce.
To be avoided at all costs.
Forget it being amicable, if she doesn't want it to be.
Try mediation, less costly, and a good chance of it being unbiased.
Or go for the 25k each option, and fight it right through to a Financial Hearing with a Barrister.
Thats the option Im faced with.
Nice.
Byebye 993, and 911 C3.2 house and life.
Divorce.
To be avoided at all costs.
Pork said:
Fun Bus said:
My ex-wife and I used an online divorce service to wrap up the marriage. Was quite reasonable on price and because everything was split down the middle and access to my Son had already been in place during the separation made it quite straightforward too.
There is a car dealer in the UK that at the moment that has some high value cars in 'storage' on behalf of a customer. The reason? He wants his soon to be ex-wife to think he really has sold them.
GrayPaul per chance?There is a car dealer in the UK that at the moment that has some high value cars in 'storage' on behalf of a customer. The reason? He wants his soon to be ex-wife to think he really has sold them.
I hope his wife isnt a PH'er.
stuttgartmetal said:
Look on wikivorce.com, you'll find all kinds of stories on there, and good advice.
Forget it being amicable, if she doesn't want it to be.
Try mediation, less costly, and a good chance of it being unbiased.
Or go for the 25k each option, and fight it right through to a Financial Hearing with a Barrister.
Thats the option Im faced with.
Nice.
Byebye 993, and 911 C3.2 house and life.
Divorce.
To be avoided at all costs.
Unfortunately all totally true Forget it being amicable, if she doesn't want it to be.
Try mediation, less costly, and a good chance of it being unbiased.
Or go for the 25k each option, and fight it right through to a Financial Hearing with a Barrister.
Thats the option Im faced with.
Nice.
Byebye 993, and 911 C3.2 house and life.
Divorce.
To be avoided at all costs.
Then they will goto the CSA with all sorts of BS saying you are on £X when your payroll dept have already told the CSA you are on £x - y (with y being a the difference in your true wage and your Ex's fantastical mind) but having to send each months wage slip to the CSA as you are now being assessed by them on a constant basis.
Lying, greedy b
h 
Cotty said:
This is what I can never understand about these threads, its like you have just been hit by a car but you can't wait until you can play in the road again.
This is where your wrong. If i had my way id role back the clock and i would change her actions as it wasn't me who instigated this complete f
king mess.Shes the one who started this ball rolling and i cant stop it. If maybe she had dealt with this a bit better we might not be here. If anything it has highlighted how crap the last couple of months have been
When i say its daunting, i don't mean jumping into the sack with someone else. I mean about having to start again. Having a lovely house, nice holidays and a wife, which only 3 months ago seems to be going perfectly to where i am now.
tim2100 said:
In similar position myself. although House is in neg eq. plus debts on top.
Divorce is all amicable. But its the financial split that will cause problems.
Not sure where to go first to try and sort all this out.
Are solicitors needed?
Good luck Tim.Divorce is all amicable. But its the financial split that will cause problems.
Not sure where to go first to try and sort all this out.
Are solicitors needed?
How old are you?
Im doing everything to keep it amicable at the moment..
I dont want to make her or my life any harder by causing problems...
N10k said:
Cotty said:
This is what I can never understand about these threads, its like you have just been hit by a car but you can't wait until you can play in the road again.
This is where your wrong. If i had my way id role back the clock and i would change her actions as it wasn't me who instigated this complete f
king mess.Shes the one who started this ball rolling and i cant stop it. If maybe she had dealt with this a bit better we might not be here. If anything it has highlighted how crap the last couple of months have been
When i say its daunting, i don't mean jumping into the sack with someone else. I mean about having to start again. Having a lovely house, nice holidays and a wife, which only 3 months ago seems to be going perfectly to where i am now.
t4 months ago I was instigating divorce proceedings on grounds of adultery, found out she had been back on the pill for 2-3 months, quit the business and took a low paid job trying to rebuild whilst not being able to cover all of my bills and trying to work out how I keep my house for me and my daughter (mortgage in my name only as she was younger and only worked part time when we first got together, daughter of by a previous adulterous SWT)
I hardly sleep with the stress, have a second job to try and help make ends meet, am in it up to my neck with my parents as they are bailing me out every month and am pretty miserable overall, but I know that it is only a short term thing. I have been through it before and will get through it again.
Keep your head up, keep your dignity and brace yourself for the roughest ride you can imagine. In time you will look back and be proud that you got through it. I know I will be and so will those that matter!
Mediation.
It takes the sting out of a non-amicable divorce and it takes alot of the expense out of it too... you both walk out with a document you can take to a solictor to finalise... unless of course the female 'perogative' shows itself...
If there are children involved you lose alot, if there aren't you lose less...
That playing in the road analogy has me worried...
It takes the sting out of a non-amicable divorce and it takes alot of the expense out of it too... you both walk out with a document you can take to a solictor to finalise... unless of course the female 'perogative' shows itself...
If there are children involved you lose alot, if there aren't you lose less...
That playing in the road analogy has me worried...
N10k said:
Cotty said:
This is what I can never understand about these threads, its like you have just been hit by a car but you can't wait until you can play in the road again.
This is where your wrong. If i had my way id role back the clock and i would change her actions as it wasn't me who instigated this complete f
king mess.Shes the one who started this ball rolling and i cant stop it. If maybe she had dealt with this a bit better we might not be here. If anything it has highlighted how crap the last couple of months have been
When i say its daunting, i don't mean jumping into the sack with someone else. I mean about having to start again. Having a lovely house, nice holidays and a wife, which only 3 months ago seems to be going perfectly to where i am now.
Cotty said:
No im right, you are just about to end one relationship and want to jump straight into anther. Hense your last line with the word wife in it.
Go easy on him....there's no suggestion that he's immediately on the prowl for another wife....he's in the very early stages and I'd imagine he's evaluating his situation. Gassing Station | The Lounge | Top of Page | What's New | My Stuff