Divorce

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badlands1

845 posts

154 months

Wednesday 15th February 2012
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So do I.

croyde

23,036 posts

231 months

Wednesday 15th February 2012
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Lets take this outside.

badlands1

845 posts

154 months

Wednesday 15th February 2012
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or call the whole thing Oooofffff.

escargot

17,111 posts

218 months

Wednesday 15th February 2012
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Stuttgart, I sincerely hope you can get that resolved regarding your daughter. frown

stuttgartmetal

8,108 posts

217 months

Wednesday 22nd February 2012
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Thanks for your kind post.
I don't think her mother will let her see me for a good few years yet.

BliarOut

72,857 posts

240 months

Wednesday 22nd February 2012
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stuttgartmetal said:
Thanks for your kind post.
I don't think her mother will let her see me for a good few years yet.
If you're named as the father on the birth certificate it's no longer her decision to make...

Mr Roper

13,017 posts

195 months

Wednesday 22nd February 2012
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BliarOut said:
stuttgartmetal said:
Thanks for your kind post.
I don't think her mother will let her see me for a good few years yet.
If you're named as the father on the birth certificate it's no longer her decision to make...
True....but it''s not always so clear and cut. You could find yourself spending tens of thousands of pounds and many many months before this is achieved.

stuttgartmetal

8,108 posts

217 months

Wednesday 22nd February 2012
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Indeed.
Once the child is older than 13, they get what they want. If they want to stay with Mum, they do.
At the moment, she just doesn't want to see me.
She did once ask to see me, however she wanted the protection of her Mothers friend, a man.
So without putting to much of accent on it, how would you feel if some bloke rang you, and insisted that he be there for the meeting to protect your daughter from you.
Provocation, provocation, provocation.

Once my D wants me back, I'll be there for her.
I havent all of a sudden changed, her mother has.
Im the same guy Ive always been.
Her Mother has changed beyond recognition.
Ying and Yang.
Karma.