365 days without booze... join me?

365 days without booze... join me?

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johnwilliams77

8,308 posts

104 months

Friday 1st January 2016
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4 months done, 8 to go!

Adz The Rat

14,139 posts

210 months

Friday 1st January 2016
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Just ticked over 3 years since Ive touched a drop.

Quite proud of it and can't see me ever going back to it.

johnwilliams77

8,308 posts

104 months

Friday 1st January 2016
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olly22n said:
What do you guys drink when you're out?

Alcohol free beer?
Orange and lemonade?

I wouldn't fancy drinking Coke all night so what are the tipples of choice?

Coffee, water, Coke Zero, alcohol free beer if they have something that isn't necks blue

Note: I usually just go out for meals so not 'out' in pubs for hours.

FreeLitres

6,051 posts

178 months

Friday 1st January 2016
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I've replaced sitting in pubs with other activities such as running and trips with the Family. Having a young family and a non-drinker Wife, I don't have much desire to go to pubs anyway.

In the early weeks, i think it's important to remove yourself from temptation. If you are constantly surrounded by people asking if you want a drink, it makes giving up more of a challenge IMO.

johnwilliams77

8,308 posts

104 months

Friday 1st January 2016
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FreeLitres said:
I've replaced sitting in pubs with other activities such as running and trips with the Family. Having a young family and a non-drinker Wife, I don't have much desire to go to pubs anyway.

In the early weeks, i think it's important to remove yourself from temptation. If you are constantly surrounded by people asking if you want a drink, it makes giving up more of a challenge IMO.
Same
Replaced with running, cycling and tennis.

HTP99

22,590 posts

141 months

Friday 1st January 2016
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Not a massive pub goer here, oddly if I go out; either to the pub, a festival, concert or out for a meal, I don't actually drink that much, I'm more of an evening home drinker.

Went to the pub last night to see in the new year with friends and to have a last drink, 10 of us had at least 6 bottles of Prosseco, copious amounts of beer etc; I think I drunk the least as I only had 4 ciders, not because of gearing up for a dry Jan, just because I don't drink loads when out.

As for what do I have to replace alcohol; well when I did my dry Jan two years ago, mainly black coffee and water; fortunately I'm quite a fan of plain old water, I'm not into sweet juices, J2O's etc.

funinhounslow

1,639 posts

143 months

Friday 1st January 2016
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When I'm out I now stick to pints of soda water with plenty of fresh lemon and lime. Everything else - even lime (cordial) and soda is just too sweet.

Apologies for the Mail link but I thought that this was interesting particularly in light of the BMA 's revised alcohol guidance

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/health/article-3336722/...

I do wonder if this would have affected my drinking if it had been widely publicised when I was a teenager...

If we accept that alcohol is harmful and addictive surely the only logical advice from the BMA should be - like smoking - not to drink. I may be mistaken but I'm sure I read an article by Frank Skinner making this exact point once.

grumbledoak

31,549 posts

234 months

Friday 1st January 2016
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Signing up for another year (currently at three and a half and rather enjoying being thin).

It's water or soda and a slice when out and about. I gave up sugar at the same time and the other 'soft' choices are so sweet they make my toes curl these days.

I'm more likely to be found running or cycling than propping up the bar anyway - pints of soda and drunk people both get a bit tiresome after two or three rounds.

Welshbeef

49,633 posts

199 months

Friday 1st January 2016
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As someone who does have quite a bit quite often I'm fairly keen to give it a go dry Jan or (excl holidays) just have a drink every other week to start with and progress for the long term.



Annoyingly I have a heap load of booze in the house/garage - so temptation is always there & no I don't fancy pouring it away. That said I don't generally drink week nights just Friday or Sat or both (generally at home don't go to the pub per say as young family).


mug81

256 posts

145 months

Saturday 2nd January 2016
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I love the idea of a dry January, however baby steps for me- Am aiming to stay dry from now for a week. Working in a wine bar won't make it easier- that said, watching people fall apart as they booze has actually put me off a little. I have our Christmas party next Saturday, and I've never been too flash at such events without a few beers.

We shall see! Best of luck to all thumbup

MrFappyFappy

68 posts

103 months

Saturday 2nd January 2016
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Had my final drink on boxing day so almost completed the first week. I really abused alcohol last year and lost many weekends hungover and gained around 3 stone. No option but to be very strict with myself going forward.

johnwilliams77

8,308 posts

104 months

Saturday 2nd January 2016
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mug81 said:
I love the idea of a dry January, however baby steps for me- Am aiming to stay dry from now for a week. Working in a wine bar won't make it easier- that said, watching people fall apart as they booze has actually put me off a little. I have our Christmas party next Saturday, and I've never been too flash at such events without a few beers.

We shall see! Best of luck to all thumbup
Best of luck

Btw, impressive cars you have owned

The Moose

22,867 posts

210 months

Saturday 2nd January 2016
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MrFappyFappy said:
Had my final drink on boxing day so almost completed the first week. I really abused alcohol last year and lost many weekends hungover and gained around 3 stone. No option but to be very strict with myself going forward.
Good luck thumbup

Welshbeef

49,633 posts

199 months

Saturday 2nd January 2016
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johnwilliams77 said:
mug81 said:
I love the idea of a dry January, however baby steps for me- Am aiming to stay dry from now for a week. Working in a wine bar won't make it easier- that said, watching people fall apart as they booze has actually put me off a little. I have our Christmas party next Saturday, and I've never been too flash at such events without a few beers.

We shall see! Best of luck to all thumbup
Best of luck

Btw, impressive cars you have owned
Especially for a wine bars salary!

okgo

38,101 posts

199 months

Saturday 2nd January 2016
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Welshbeef said:
Especially for a wine bars salary!
And when he pays £400 per month to live in some room in Bermondsey hehe

Mashedpotatoes - good on you!

Mashedpotatoes

1,344 posts

149 months

Saturday 2nd January 2016
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I think this thread would be best kept for giving support to people giving up the booze and not having digs about inconsistent back stories or car ownership. Welsh beef you especially should not be throwing stones in that particular direction. There are plenty of other threads where that would be acceptable behaviour. Besides you have no idea what has happened in his life he/she may well have fallen on hard times.

Good luck mug81.

Apart from two small glasses of wine on New Year's Eve during a meal on a second date with an amazing woman. I'm still not drinking.

Good luck everyone giving it a go.

Has any one else signed up for the cancer research January dryathalon?



Edited by Mashedpotatoes on Saturday 2nd January 17:08


Edited by Mashedpotatoes on Saturday 2nd January 18:13

anonymous-user

55 months

Saturday 2nd January 2016
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Only a few days left for me now. As soon as I cross the sea I'm on the wagon until end of March minimum. I'm looking forward to it actually. Besides the thought of drinking English Guinness is always enough to hit the brakes. Good luck to all of you in your quests.

Welshbeef

49,633 posts

199 months

Saturday 2nd January 2016
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It's barely 4 weeks until the 6 nations which will be a big issue to surpass

anonymous-user

55 months

Saturday 2nd January 2016
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Welshbeef said:
It's barely 4 weeks until the 6 nations which will be a big issue to surpass
Not really. If you make the decision to stop it's pretty easy. Depends how you look at it. There's always an excuse for a drink, the trick is not looking at every social event as a a reason. Once you've changed your mindset the first time it becomes easier.

Davie_GLA

6,526 posts

200 months

Saturday 2nd January 2016
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You know what the biggest drive is for me to drink? To sleep.

I've never been a great sleeper and alcohol fixes that pronto. I have a busy personal and professional life and getting sleep is high on my priorities.

It's ironic because as most on this thread know a drunken rest is not rest at all.

I did sober October last year and hardly slept all through it, but my head was clear. That was the difference.