PH parents of 2014

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dangerousB

1,697 posts

190 months

Sunday 20th April 2014
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39 weeks and 6 days down for us here and up last between 1am and 3am for what appeared to be a bit of uterine neuromuscular training!

Get the general impression that things may kick off sooner rather than later, but I could of course be completely wrong . . . probably won't stray too far on my run this afternoon though biggrin

Defcon5

6,178 posts

191 months

Sunday 20th April 2014
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20 week scan for us on Friday.

Managed to convince her I don't need to get rid of my VX220 too ha

khevolution

1,592 posts

195 months

Monday 21st April 2014
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Good luck, I remember with about 2 weeks to go I started to get inpatient and had enough of waiting...... Luckily I think baby knew this and decided to arrive a week early

Highway Star

3,576 posts

231 months

Tuesday 22nd April 2014
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Defcon5 said:
20 week scan for us on Friday.

Managed to convince her I don't need to get rid of my VX220 too ha
Hope it all goes well.

My wife had hers today - baby is doing well and obligingly let us see it is a boy.

Well done on the car front. I was happy that we can fit our chosen buggy in the back of my wife's 100HP without drama - I would have been more gutted than her if we had to get rid of it!

Engineer1

10,486 posts

209 months

Tuesday 22nd April 2014
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Well all came back and OK following the scan so all is good

Davey S2

13,092 posts

254 months

Wednesday 23rd April 2014
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A bit late reporting back on here but first day back in work today so only just got a little bit of spare time!

Our daugter Zara was born at 12.28am on the 8th April at a healthy 7lb 8.5oz.



She's absolutely perfect but the labour was a nightmare. To cut a long story short the planned water birth didn't happen and after a horrendous 27 hour labour she was eventually born by c section. She was out in about 30 mins but my wife's uterus tore quite badly so we ended up in theatre for over 3.5 hours.

The first 5 or 6 days were really hard with my wife in a lot of pain but she's doing really well now and we are both besotted with our new daughter.

Easily the most stressful day of our lives but the end result is what counts, a healthy baby.

Looking forward to getting to know her now.

nellyleelephant

2,705 posts

234 months

Wednesday 23rd April 2014
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New to this thread, but after a rather long labour, I am now the proud owner of a 9lb 8oz Harry!

He was born using vacuum extraction which was rather alarming at the time, but we were grateful for the expertise that was on show!

khevolution

1,592 posts

195 months

Saturday 3rd May 2014
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I hate colic..... beem trying to put my little one down for the past 5 hours.......

Engineer1

10,486 posts

209 months

Saturday 3rd May 2014
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khevolution said:
I hate colic..... beem trying to put my little one down for the past 5 hours.......
From experience get it checked for reflux drs health visitors etc can end up going for the easy answer of colic rather than reflux. Is the little one feeding reasonably easy? Is it growing OK?

harry010

4,423 posts

187 months

Saturday 3rd May 2014
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As above, make sure it's not reflux.

Are they throwing their head around, arching their back etc? If so, it's more likely reflux and it can be solved.

We had it with our little boy and it was awful. Switching his milk was an almost immediate change and he wasn't in pain anymore bless him.

khevolution

1,592 posts

195 months

Saturday 3rd May 2014
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pretty sure its colic, had the same problem with last child. Think i mentioned it before but we moved onto new milk and new bottles which seemed to have helped, i think last night was just one of those bad nights.

BlackVanDyke

9,932 posts

211 months

Saturday 3rd May 2014
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We celebrated 6 weeks on Wednesday. I'm knackered beyond words but also blissful.


Xaero

4,060 posts

215 months

Saturday 3rd May 2014
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Checking in here, the wife's due our first (a boy!) in September. So far, everything has gone well.

Oakey

27,552 posts

216 months

Saturday 3rd May 2014
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Week 1: god he's so boring, all he does is sleep, when's he going to do something interesting!

Week 6: HOLY CRAP, WHEN DOES IT SLEEP? IT'S BEEN THREE DAYS NOW, HE'S LIKE A MACHINE

Sheets Tabuer

18,941 posts

215 months

Sunday 4th May 2014
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20 week scan and there doesn't seem to be a willy, hmm.

Davey S2

13,092 posts

254 months

Tuesday 6th May 2014
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One month old today for us and she is already changing a lot.

She's started to lose some of her hair from the top of her head and she is becoming a lot more alert.

Only sleeping for 2 - 2.5 hours in between feeds which is hard during the night.

Engineer1

10,486 posts

209 months

Tuesday 6th May 2014
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Davey it gets easier our 18 month old sleeps through and has done for what feels like ages, which makes the nights she doesn't feel much worse.

Davey S2

13,092 posts

254 months

Tuesday 6th May 2014
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Yes I know she will eventually. She has slept for 5 hours once and it felt like having a holiday for us biggrin

I can't really complain as she's really good and goes back to sleep pretty quickly after being fed, winded and changed.

The biggest problem is that in the day she wil only sleep if she's on the wife. Put her in the moses basket and she just wakes up and cries. Makes it difficult for my wife to sleep of get anything else done.

williamp

19,243 posts

273 months

Tuesday 6th May 2014
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Davey S2 said:
Yes I know she will eventually. She has slept for 5 hours once and it felt like having a holiday for us biggrin

I can't really complain as she's really good and goes back to sleep pretty quickly after being fed, winded and changed.

The biggest problem is that in the day she wil only sleep if she's on the wife. Put her in the moses basket and she just wakes up and cries. Makes it difficult for my wife to sleep of get anything else done.
Try and in between position first. To go from vertical, with mums bodyheat to. Horizontal, with no bodyheat might be too much. Try holding her horizontal first. Then slowly letting down and quickly covering with a blanket. She may miss the smell of her mum too. Have you tried using her mums pillowcase as a moses basket sheet??

fridaypassion

8,545 posts

228 months

Tuesday 6th May 2014
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We are 4 months in with our twins one of each and we have a 4 year old girl.

They are pretty easy to be honest. I was absolutely dreading them coming as our first girl was a complete nightmare with her sleep. She was 12 months before she was anywhere near sleeping through. Anyway I think a combination of us being more relaxed parents and the fact that the twins have eachother as a bit of comfort have resulted in already getting a solid 7 hours out of them in their first stint on a night. Routine already well established going down at 7.00 they usually get up at bang on 2 for a feed, then 6 and sometimes they will give mummy a couple of bonus hours til 8 or half past. Mum still breast feeding (amazing woman!) bonus is she has lost loads of weight and is looking fiiiiiine! well below pre pregnancy weight heading towards being sub 9 stone which is good for me as a purveyor of the more slender woman.

Why they dont promote this more to women is beyond me. Hardly any of them seem to breast feed. No bottles to mess about with and the added bonus that we cant get too involved biggrin everyones a winner.

Just need to sort eldest girl out now as shes become an attention seeking lunatic since the twins came!