PH parents of 2014

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bexVN

14,682 posts

211 months

Monday 1st September 2014
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28 wk ck for me. All good so far, though disappointed as they don't want to check me for Strep B, even though I had it with my firstborn and it was picked up in a sample when I was pregnant last year frown. I am pretty laid back and trusting of most medical advice I get and I am aware of their reasons for not doing it but I don't think I am being unreasonable wanting to be checked given my history. I did not see my regular midwife today (though the lady I saw was otherwise nice enough) so we have left it that I will 'think about it' and decide at next appt. They will do it if I insist. I will be insisting! I am more wary as my waters broke without contractions last time, knowing I was a carrier meant I was induced immediately, this would not have happened normally and would've put my baby at more risk!

bexVN

14,682 posts

211 months

Monday 1st September 2014
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Oakey said:
What's the split of parenting duties here? Are you guys 50/50, does one of you do more than the other? Or has anyone got a partner who has completely taken over and doesn't let you get a look in?
It was fairly even for us, I did breastfeed so obviously that limited hubby to some degree! Though we also mixed fed and I did express. Of course after paternity leave I did more but I could never fault my hubby's involvement and I was more than happy for it!! Of course I sometimes had to offer opinion on how to do things smile.

PaulG40

2,381 posts

225 months

Wednesday 3rd September 2014
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Defcon5 said:
That's the GFs thumb ha!

Been eying up ST220s, should be easy to sneak that under her nose 'ooh look at this big booted safe car I've bought, I didn't even notice it had two exhausts' driving



Edited by Defcon5 on Friday 29th August 16:33
Haha,

I've been looking at DSG MK5 Golf Gti's myself. Perfect family car and comfy (read normal) when needed, yet entertaining for me when I want some fun. The dream of a 'fun' 3rd car, Elise or Caterham is still goal but it'll be a way off yet.

Highway Star

3,576 posts

231 months

Wednesday 10th September 2014
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Just as the prospect of an induction was looming, this little chap decided he wanted to come naturally. Eric Charles, 7 lb exactly, born yesterday in the birthing pool at the Chipping Norton midwife-led unit with an intact caul. I'd left home to cycle to work at 7am, by the time I'd got there and showered, I'd had 3 missed calls. Jumped back on the bike, 15 miles back home, we were at the centre by 10.30 and he was born just before 1pm. Home by 6pm.

The midwife-led unit was brilliant - if you are lucky enough to have no complications in pregnancy, there really is no reason to go for a hospital ahead of one.



He's awesome and slept all the way home.

bexVN

14,682 posts

211 months

Thursday 11th September 2014
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Small isn't necessarily bad. Our boy was only ever 9th centile as a baby. Caught up well now. The good thing is everything else sounds good, esp the lively bit smile.

I remember a friend of mine being told continually her baby was too small worrying her ended up being over 8lb born!

Highway Star

3,576 posts

231 months

Friday 12th September 2014
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Read your post Hoddo and thought 'why's he selling the 100HP, we are keeping ours' - then saw the word 'twins'.

Our other car is an Octavia estate. We've got the 4x4 version, but the VRS is the same size. Swallowed all our little one's stuff, so I'm sure it would do likewise with two.

dav123a

1,220 posts

159 months

Saturday 20th September 2014
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Just thought I would pop on here. We have had twins , they are now 2 months old. Wasnt the most straight forward pregnancy plenty of trips to the hospital. We were consultant led. Thankfully all was okay , had a 4 night stay in the hospital after the birth. They are getting into a bit of a routine , more good nights than bad. Hard work for the OH while I'm at work , we also have a 2 year old. Can get a bit crazy just not enough hands or time.

Xaero

4,060 posts

215 months

Saturday 20th September 2014
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My son Leonardo was born 3 days ago in Japan weighing in at 3542g or 7lb 12 ounces in old money. He's a darling!



Mother and baby are doing great, but both still in hospital as part of the standard 6 days of care to new borns given here, not quite the NHS!

bexVN

14,682 posts

211 months

Saturday 20th September 2014
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Aww congrats to you all. 6-10 days was standard once upon a time, many yrs ago now (ie ýwhen my mum had me!)

eybic

9,212 posts

174 months

Monday 29th September 2014
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I hadn't seen this thread. Glad to know it exists.

My partner is 31 weeks on Thursday and I'm getting more and more excited. Two of my good friends are in a similar position, one had his lad born 2 weeks early a week ago and the other is due a month after us. It's my partners 2nd and apparently the 2nd one can come quicker than the 1st eek her 1st was born an hour after contractions started. We've been told we're going to get a home birthing kit to be safe eek

We're due to have a boy thumbup

steve_bmw

1,590 posts

175 months

Monday 29th September 2014
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Jamie is now 12 weeks old. He is doing great! Full of smiles

steve_bmw

1,590 posts

175 months

Monday 29th September 2014
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Jamie is now 12 weeks old. He is doing great! Full of smiles

Engineer1

10,486 posts

209 months

Wednesday 8th October 2014
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Well the Mrs has got her 34 week scan tomorrow and will almost certainly be booked in for her section.

Pooky67

577 posts

159 months

Friday 10th October 2014
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My little lad Toby is now 15 weeks old! Time is really flying already. He's doing really well, lots of babbles as he tries to talk. He's even getting ahead of himself and trying to walk! He's always loved being upright and can easily stand on his feet if you hold him up.

He has his good nights and bad nights sometimes we're up twice, sometimes it's twice an hour.




eybic

9,212 posts

174 months

Friday 10th October 2014
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We're now at 32 weeks. At the last midwife appt, little'un hadn't turned and was still breach, we're going back in a week or so to decide whether we'll need a 35 week scan to confirm then maybe a section if he doesn't turn.

bexVN

14,682 posts

211 months

Friday 10th October 2014
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They said I was breech at an unexpected check up at about 31 weeks (I fell forward down two concrete steps!!). Guess that will be assessed again at my ck up this coming Monday. No idea what the plan would be if bump is still breech then!

eybic

9,212 posts

174 months

Friday 10th October 2014
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Sunroof exit biggrin

bexVN

14,682 posts

211 months

Friday 10th October 2014
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Quite possibly, I was wondering how long they leave it before they decide or how hard they try moving the baby, guess I'll find out if still a concern on Monday smile

eybic

9,212 posts

174 months

Friday 10th October 2014
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We got told that they will try and move him round but failing that it'll be out of the sunroof. I guess we'll find out in 3 weeks.

Davey S2

13,092 posts

254 months

Friday 10th October 2014
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Our daughter was 6 months old on Wednesday and has changed a massive amount since she was born.

She's currently in Grand Ganaria with her mum and grand parents meaning Dad has 2 weeks on his own! I'd forgot how lovely it is to sleep all the way through the night.