PH parents of 2014

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Engineer1

10,486 posts

209 months

Thursday 6th November 2014
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Number one child is asleep, shes 2 in December and sleeps through at night but will not, will not, will not nap during the day. Still number 2 is due any time between now and the 11th, so back to limited sleep.

fridaypassion

8,563 posts

228 months

Thursday 6th November 2014
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lol I remember mourning the loss of our afternoon nap with our first. On a weekend we'd all join in and have a 2 hour kip in the afternoon. Those were the days!

Now we have the 4 year old and the baby twins our weekend naps are back. I think because the 4 year old is at school and had all the activity of that during the week she can get a nap in on the weekend like us old folk. Its lovely!

Engineer1

10,486 posts

209 months

Tuesday 11th November 2014
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Just sitting in recovery waiting to go back to the ward proud father of a 10lbs baby boy.

Engineer1

10,486 posts

209 months

Tuesday 11th November 2014
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Caesarean, and he's a big boy...

Highway Star

3,576 posts

231 months

Tuesday 11th November 2014
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Took Eric until 7 weeks old to get past that weight.

He initially didn't gain weight and fell of the centile chart, but with a combination of sorting his tongue tie and breast and bottle he's piling on the pounds. He was only in the 9th centile at birth, fell off the chart, but now is in the 25th centile (75th for head size, but that's a different story).

Now at 9 weeks he's absolutely brilliant and slept for five hours in the car up to Scotland (though he can't seem to do it at night)

Not happy at his Dad's lack of mammary glands:


bexVN

14,682 posts

211 months

Tuesday 11th November 2014
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Highway Star said:
Took Eric until 7 weeks old to get past that weight.

He initially didn't gain weight and fell of the centile chart, but with a combination of sorting his tongue tie and breast and bottle he's piling on the pounds. He was only in the 9th centile at birth, fell off the chart, but now is in the 25th centile (75th for head size, but that's a different story).

Now at 9 weeks he's absolutely brilliant and slept for five hours in the car up to Scotland (though he can't seem to do it at night)

Not happy at his Dad's lack of mammary glands:

Love the pic smile. Eric's story could be my son's. No weight gain 2 weeks, barely 9th centile, tongue tie, finally gained wt (after being classed as Failure to Thrive) once top up feeds started then tongue tie sorted! Stressful days.

Oakey

27,566 posts

216 months

Wednesday 12th November 2014
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Anyone else have to deal with a growling baby? I'm concerned he's plotting to off us.

essayer

9,066 posts

194 months

Wednesday 12th November 2014
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Oakey said:
Anyone else have to deal with a growling baby? I'm concerned he's plotting to off us.
Like a congested sound? We got some saline drops and inclined his cot at the head end, both of which have helped him (and us!) sleep better.

fridaypassion

8,563 posts

228 months

Wednesday 12th November 2014
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lol our twin girl does that

Oakey

27,566 posts

216 months

Friday 14th November 2014
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essayer said:
Like a congested sound? We got some saline drops and inclined his cot at the head end, both of which have helped him (and us!) sleep better.
No, I mean a "Grrrrr", like he thinks he's a tiger or something.

TwistingMyMelon

6,385 posts

205 months

Friday 14th November 2014
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I feel blessed at the moment my lovely 8 week old daughter is sleeping from 11pm - 7am non stop every night, its lovely shes been doing it from 3 weeks or so

On the downside she has no naps in the day , so my misses never gets a break, but our teenage kids help somewhat


bexVN

14,682 posts

211 months

Friday 14th November 2014
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I don't think you do, it just seems that some babies are content to sleep through
My sisters 3rd child was sleeping through by 6 weeks, on his terms, she didn't do anything to make him sleep through.

bexVN

14,682 posts

211 months

Friday 14th November 2014
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We used Dr Brown, they seemed good. Check you've got the right teat flow speed aswell. Infacol can work well aswell.

bexVN

14,682 posts

211 months

Friday 14th November 2014
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kapiteinlangzaam said:
bexVN said:
We used Dr Brown, they seemed good. Check you've got the right teat flow speed aswell. Infacol can work well aswell.
Weve got a bottle of infacol too, but (we) prefer the Simplex stuff as you can mix it direct with the milk.

I think we had the right teat for the Avent, reading around on Google it seems there are a lot of complaints about ther 'gassiness' - I suppose its a voyage of discovery for every set of parents, finding what works best etc. smile
Oh yes absolutely. By next weekend we'll be found it all again!! Hoping to BF but bottles ready if needed.(being induced next Friday if no signs, bang on due date, due to my age!)

Engineer1

10,486 posts

209 months

Friday 14th November 2014
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We hated Dr browns bottles as they leak if you shake warm milk in them.

Engineer1

10,486 posts

209 months

Saturday 15th November 2014
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I mean formula we used to sterilise a batch of bottles then fill them with boiled water then fridge them adding the powder when we needed the milk, but being cold it needed warming and shaking.

essayer

9,066 posts

194 months

Saturday 15th November 2014
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Engineer1 said:
I mean formula we used to sterilise a batch of bottles then fill them with boiled water then fridge them adding the powder when we needed the milk, but being cold it needed warming and shaking.
Apparently shaking it adds air bubbles - you should swirl it instead. No idea if it's BS but swirling seems to mix it just as well so not taking the risk.

We do the same process with formula because the official recommendation isn't very workable.. Something like:

1) Baby starts making signs of being hungry
2) Boil kettle, pour into container
3) Wait for 30 minutes for water to cool
4) Put cooled water in sterilised bottle, add formula, mix
5) feed baby who has been delighted to wait 30 minutes for food

Probably works fine if your baby is like clockwork but I don't think many are!!

Engineer1

10,486 posts

209 months

Saturday 15th November 2014
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Put it this way the Dr browns bottles were skipped as soon as our first child stopped using them, we are using breast and mam bottles with expressed breast milk for the night feeds the little man is 5 days old and not doing nights or sensible gaps between feeds.

vonuber

17,868 posts

165 months

Monday 17th November 2014
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Just under 3 years ago I was sterile due to the side effects of a brain tumour. The endocrinologists changed my medication to kickstart the old sperm factories and things looked up as gradually sperm started to appear (although it was still borderline until fairly recently). Then the other half go told she had Graves disease, with her medication massively increasing the risk of miscarriage. We lost one at three months last January which was absolutely heart-breaking (especially as it occurred on the day of my birthday).

However.

On Friday we had a scan at 21 weeks (we previously had one at 7 and 13 weeks, but have been really worrying about reaching this one) and I'm over the moon to say that in March I'm going to be the proud father of a baby girl smile

So here is little Sophia, who wouldn't stop moving to get the profile picture taken smile



I really cannot thank the staff at Charing Cross Hospital more for 1) saving my life 2) giving me the chance to create one.

Pooky67

577 posts

159 months

Monday 17th November 2014
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Massive congratulations to you both! thumbup