PH parents of 2014

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bexVN

14,682 posts

211 months

Monday 17th November 2014
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That is just lovely news, huge congrats to you all smile, especially for your wife. I have a friend with Graves disease, tough one to deal with, hope it's not causing too many probs for your wife at the mo!

vonuber

17,868 posts

165 months

Monday 17th November 2014
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Thanks smile I'm currently switching between joy and absolutely crapping myself that I'm going to be responsible for a human being biggrin

TwistingMyMelon

6,385 posts

205 months

Monday 17th November 2014
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kapiteinlangzaam said:
TwistingMyMelon said:
I feel blessed at the moment my lovely 8 week old daughter is sleeping from 11pm - 7am non stop every night, its lovely shes been doing it from 3 weeks or so

On the downside she has no naps in the day , so my misses never gets a break, but our teenage kids help somewhat
How did you build up to weening off the night feed?

Ours is 10 days old and she is doing great (11pm, 3am, 6am usually), but im curious to know how you attempt to make them bridge that night time gap, as it were.
Hmmm not sure , tbh, I think its luck , genes and experience, maybe in that order, its my partners third child and thankfully all have been good sleepers

The first few weeks, our daughter would go into meltdown in the evening and start trying to rip her eyes out, it was a blood curdling scream, I remember rocking her for two hours in the dark in the pushchair! My partner was struggling with breast feeding as well. Then she switched to bottles and found it more straightforward, my daughter will cluster feed through the evening, then we would stay up until about 12/1am to do the last feed.

@ about 3/4 weeks Tabitha (my daughter) started waking in the night a bit, but as soon as she slept with us in bed she slept fine, after a week or two she started sleeping in her own cot OK, we didn't want to fall into the habit of sleeping with us

Then about 6 weeks in she just stopped waking at midnight and now sleeps from 11pm ish until I get up @ 6:30/7, has a feed then back to sleep till 9.

It is great, our house looks like a complete bombsite though as due to the lack of naps we never get time for any housework!

Still cant complain, as this one is doing well my misses wants a fourth child!!


Matt_N

8,901 posts

202 months

Wednesday 19th November 2014
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34 week scan next week, they discovered that the chord only has two vessels as opposed to the normal three so they like to add in an extra two growth scans.

So far everything is going to plan and all measurements are slap bang in the middle of all the charts.

I'm finishing the furniture in the nursery off tonight, we already have quite a pile of nappies, baby grows, donated clothes, wet wipes etc so it's coming along.

muppetdave

2,118 posts

225 months

Wednesday 19th November 2014
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Bit late joining the party as our daughter, Aoife Grace is 8 weeks old tomorrow. I did look for this post briefly when she was born as I needed to 'blurt' relatively anonymously as she suffered very severe Meconium Aspiration Syndrome at birth (when I say very severe, if you look it up, it doesn't really cover the degree she suffered - when I asked one nurse where she was on the scale, she said she was wildly off the scale!).

So she was born and transferred within a couple of hours to Addenbrookes NICU with a pretty poor prognosis in itself, let alone the risk of septicaemia and neurological issues. Cooled to 34 degrees etc. And amazingly every single day she just kept improving with a little improvement here, a little improvement there. We were fantastically fortunate due to her condition to be offered a room by the Sick Children's Trust, so I moved in immediately, whilst my wife was transferred as an in-patient from Colchester and then moved in with me once discharged.

In the end she spent 10 days there, before being transferred back to Colchester for a further 4, before coming home. It seems strange when you see some of these poorly kiddies who are weeks and months, yet she turned around so quickly from such a dire prognosis to come home (something her lead consultant remarked was 'amazing' about MAS).

We're loving having her home and will never be able to thank all of those who helped her along the way, as is her big brother (3 in December). Without making this sound like a 'downer' on what should be a very happy thread, I'm writing up her story for the NICU and SCT which I'll be happy to post here if people are interested.

eybic

9,212 posts

174 months

Thursday 20th November 2014
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"We" we're induced last night eek the waiting game begins biggrin

bexVN

14,682 posts

211 months

Thursday 20th November 2014
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Tom for me, though they've tried to get things going naturally all that has led to is me now feeling exhausted, sore etc but no actual progress. Fun times!

TVR1

5,463 posts

225 months

Friday 21st November 2014
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What a lovely thread! Here is ours. For various reason, scans every 4 weeks. Due in February. She does actually have head and the squishy nose is from being pushed against the uterus. She's a proper groover, though ii'ts quite delightful at night, when i'm cuddling my missus and I can feel the kicks!

We Married yesterday too, so all change!


bexVN

14,682 posts

211 months

Thursday 27th November 2014
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About time I posted an update! Introducing Freya 21/11/14 7lb. Induced labour was told prob be in hospital at least 24hrs before anything happened. She was born 7hrs later. Caught the midwives off guard a bit I think!! Was a bit of rush for me aswell smile


Highway Star

3,576 posts

231 months

Thursday 27th November 2014
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bexVN said:
About time I posted an update! Introducing Freya 21/11/14 7lb. Induced labour was told prob be in hospital at least 24hrs before anything happened. She was born 7hrs later. Caught the midwives off guard a bit I think!! Was a bit of rush for me aswell smile

She looks lovely - congratulations!

essayer

9,065 posts

194 months

Friday 28th November 2014
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bexVN said:
About time I posted an update! Introducing Freya 21/11/14 7lb. Induced labour was told prob be in hospital at least 24hrs before anything happened. She was born 7hrs later. Caught the midwives off guard a bit I think!! Was a bit of rush for me aswell smile

Congratulations! She is lovely.
Whatever they are using for induction nowadays certainly works, we and a few of our friends can certainty attest to that! :cheers:

bexVN

14,682 posts

211 months

Friday 28th November 2014
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Thanks all.

Interesting re: the induction. They told me as it was planned this time they would start gently not rush straight in with the I/v hormones til later. Well they were never neede this time smile.

SPR2

3,182 posts

196 months

Friday 28th November 2014
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Bex - Congratulations on your beautiful little girl.

MagicMike

234 posts

120 months

Wednesday 3rd December 2014
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Became a father on Wednesday 26th November, a baby boy! Nothing prepares you for the emotions, but it is the best thing that has happened to us.

All the best to the ones due soon


eybic

9,212 posts

174 months

Monday 8th December 2014
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Arrgh I forgot to update, Harry was born at 1750 on the 21st weighing 8lb 5oz, he arrived about 90 minutes after my Partner's waters were broken



Today is my first day back in the office after being off for 2 weeks.

bexVN

14,682 posts

211 months

Monday 8th December 2014
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eybic said:
Arrgh I forgot to update, Harry was born at 1750 on the 21st weighing 8lb 5oz, he arrived about 90 minutes after my Partner's waters were broken



Today is my first day back in the office after being off for 2 weeks.
Awe congrats, born same day and time as our little one (pic just above!) hubby also back to work today.

Need to add Congratulations to everyone and thank you for the messages on here.

bexVN

14,682 posts

211 months

Monday 8th December 2014
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kapiteinlangzaam said:
Looks like the Mrs. is going to need her Gall Bladder removing.

Likely complications from the hyper sickness she had frown She cant catch a break.

Nora is now 5wks old, I think we are approaching the first 'mental jump' as she is pretty much inconsolable at the moment. All good fun!
Your poor wife frown. Nora maybe a combination of a growth spurt and colic? Is her weight gain good? It'll all seem a lot better in another few weeks.

Defcon5

6,181 posts

191 months

Monday 8th December 2014
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Oscar is now 3.5 months old, and 14lb smile



He is currently sleeping through from a out 7pm til 6am, which is pretty much the best thing ever considering the last few months!

PaulG40

2,381 posts

225 months

Monday 22nd December 2014
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Well, we had our week 38 antenatal appointment today. Baby is fully established in position 'down there' and wants to get out. She dropped into place within the space of a few days after the complained of crippling hip and joint pains. The midwife commented that she wouldn't be surprised if she went into labour earlier than planned (6th Jan so far).

Nuclearsquash

1,329 posts

262 months

Sunday 28th December 2014
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I was expecting to be posting into the parents of 2015 thread, however our little girl turned up three months early at 27 weeks +4, back on the 10th Dec following an emergency c section!

That was a scary few days I can tell you. She was transferred to Bristol where she is getting awesome care and (touch wood) is doing well, although there is still a long road ahead before her projected go home date of the 7th March.

Mum and I are sat with her as I type and I think she may had just filled her nappy!

Anyway Lilith Persephone says hello!