What's wrong with me?!
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I think this thread may be going slightly off topic.... 
Sorry to bring it back round.... Plan of action set for going back to work now in place. I'm starting with short shifts of just 5 hours, Monday, Wednesday and Friday and I go back in 4 weeks as of this Monday just gone.
I've asked for 10mins longer per appointment to start with, too. The reason for that is I know many of my longstanding patients will be bound to ask questions etc and I'll just run absurdly late.... And I don't want that extra stress. I've already got a few patients booked in who the clinic has phoned, as I have numerous patients who have asked to be informed when I'm back.... Many of which didn't want to see any of the other 2 chiropractors there
I'm half nervous about going back, but half looking forward to some normality again. If I find those hours easy, I'll soon increase them back to normal but I didn't want to do too much to start with.
So, I suppose that'll be another chapter in the returning to normal.
As I've probably said before, I feel like I could go back to work now... But I've only just started feeling as such. I want a few extra weeks off now as a kind of holiday.... May seem daft to you (as I've not been at work since the end of November!!) but I feel like I need it. My boss is happy with that time frame (I've not said about the fact I'm not coming back yet due to feeling like I need a break) and knows that I work when I can. I was working right until surgery anyway, for 3 weeks after being diagnosed with the tumour. He admitted to me last week that, having seen me in hospital a few times, he was expecting me to be off work for 9-12 months.... So to come back in 5 was something he's happy about.
One thing I'm slightly worried about is that I still find it quite emotionally difficult in some cases discussing some of the points about my "ordeal" or whatever you want to call it. I feel I owe it to some patients to discuss what happened (as I know for a fact that many will ask.... And many I view as friends as well as patients) but I know this may be emotionally tiring too. I kept it relatively quiet when I was working, telling only those who I'd been seeing for a while.... But those who have continued to receive care know I've had a brain tumour, as the clinic told them, as a reason for my extended period away from work. I've even had a few patients find me on Facebook and send me messages that way, which I thought a really nice gesture.
Anyway..... My wife....
Sorry to bring it back round.... Plan of action set for going back to work now in place. I'm starting with short shifts of just 5 hours, Monday, Wednesday and Friday and I go back in 4 weeks as of this Monday just gone.
I've asked for 10mins longer per appointment to start with, too. The reason for that is I know many of my longstanding patients will be bound to ask questions etc and I'll just run absurdly late.... And I don't want that extra stress. I've already got a few patients booked in who the clinic has phoned, as I have numerous patients who have asked to be informed when I'm back.... Many of which didn't want to see any of the other 2 chiropractors there
I'm half nervous about going back, but half looking forward to some normality again. If I find those hours easy, I'll soon increase them back to normal but I didn't want to do too much to start with.
So, I suppose that'll be another chapter in the returning to normal.
As I've probably said before, I feel like I could go back to work now... But I've only just started feeling as such. I want a few extra weeks off now as a kind of holiday.... May seem daft to you (as I've not been at work since the end of November!!) but I feel like I need it. My boss is happy with that time frame (I've not said about the fact I'm not coming back yet due to feeling like I need a break) and knows that I work when I can. I was working right until surgery anyway, for 3 weeks after being diagnosed with the tumour. He admitted to me last week that, having seen me in hospital a few times, he was expecting me to be off work for 9-12 months.... So to come back in 5 was something he's happy about.
One thing I'm slightly worried about is that I still find it quite emotionally difficult in some cases discussing some of the points about my "ordeal" or whatever you want to call it. I feel I owe it to some patients to discuss what happened (as I know for a fact that many will ask.... And many I view as friends as well as patients) but I know this may be emotionally tiring too. I kept it relatively quiet when I was working, telling only those who I'd been seeing for a while.... But those who have continued to receive care know I've had a brain tumour, as the clinic told them, as a reason for my extended period away from work. I've even had a few patients find me on Facebook and send me messages that way, which I thought a really nice gesture.
Anyway..... My wife....
br d said:
Really important step Ross and I think you're handling it just right.
Is commuting going to be awkward without the car?
Regards to commuting.... Yes. It would involve walking 1.5 miles or so to train station, catching train, and then another 1 mile or so the other end. That in itself is not so bad, but train times means I'd either get to work really quite early, or late. Because of my start time, train times are a bit awkward it would seem. Is commuting going to be awkward without the car?
I finish work at 7pm, and if I'm running late or have to lock up I don't leave until 7:10-15. There's a train at 7:17, if I miss it.... It's an hour wait.
However... My boss has said that he may be able to drop me home on days that I finish at 7.... So we're looking to start working afternoon shifts. Make my way there, and he drop me back. My normal work schedule though I don't always work the same shifts or days as him so long term that won't work, but for short term it will.
Well the lift home is a good result but maybe the faffing about on the way in is a good thing, get you back in the swing of having to just get on with stuff. You deserve your recovery time Ross and you are pacing yourself well but sooner or later the annoying day to day stuff has to become the norm again.
I'm sure you'll do fine.
I'm sure you'll do fine.
Small update....
The breathlessness and wheezing when running isn't because I'm unfit or my tongue not moving properly.... It's because of that pesky vocal cord is moving properly, it's obstructing my airway, making breathing difficult. I just really hope this gets better, only time will tell but I have increased my mileage for running and cycling.
Going back to work on 27th April, I'm doing part time, just Monday, Wednesday and Friday from 2-7pm and have an extra 10mins per appointment to start with. From there I can build it up as I feel.
Off to Dartmouth for a weeks holiday tomorrow, lots of walking, enjoying some beautiful scenery and just relaxing. I feel I deserve a little bit of time away before I go back to work!
So....another chapter begins I guess.
Had dentist appointment this morning and because the clinic has changed owners had to fill in a new health questionnaire. 2nd page, 1st question "have you ever had brain surgery"
Followed by lots of other questions such as have I been hospitalised, had blood tests, been on steroids, etc etc which were all yes. Bundle of health right here
The breathlessness and wheezing when running isn't because I'm unfit or my tongue not moving properly.... It's because of that pesky vocal cord is moving properly, it's obstructing my airway, making breathing difficult. I just really hope this gets better, only time will tell but I have increased my mileage for running and cycling.
Going back to work on 27th April, I'm doing part time, just Monday, Wednesday and Friday from 2-7pm and have an extra 10mins per appointment to start with. From there I can build it up as I feel.
Off to Dartmouth for a weeks holiday tomorrow, lots of walking, enjoying some beautiful scenery and just relaxing. I feel I deserve a little bit of time away before I go back to work!
So....another chapter begins I guess.
Had dentist appointment this morning and because the clinic has changed owners had to fill in a new health questionnaire. 2nd page, 1st question "have you ever had brain surgery"
Followed by lots of other questions such as have I been hospitalised, had blood tests, been on steroids, etc etc which were all yes. Bundle of health right here
Need to have a look online but may see about doing a cycling event in a few months towards end of summer/early autumn and see if I could raise some money for a brain tumour charity. No idea how it works so will need to look into that. Only thing is the event has 3 main distances, I wouldn't bother with the short but the medium is around 75 miles and the long is 103....i don't think I could get in shape for 103 miles in a few months.... But would people sponsor me if I'm taking the easy option? Lol!
Down in Devon at the moment for a week away.... Lovely weather, lovely scenery, bliss! Feel like I need a break before going back to work.
Down in Devon at the moment for a week away.... Lovely weather, lovely scenery, bliss! Feel like I need a break before going back to work.
Edited by E65Ross on Friday 17th April 11:27
rovermorris999 said:
You can put me down for a few quid even if you only do one mile.
I will have a look over the coming week, see what's doable and see what's what!
Hoping my boss won't mind something up in the clinic reception.... Letting my patients (and his as well) donate if they want, I reckon some would be happy to donate.
I'd need to decide (or he will) what information to put up. Whether it's a case of "on xxx day Ross will be doing such and such to raise money for brain tumour charity, any donations are greatly appreciated" with a donation box and a Web link.... Or whether to mention that I, myself, had a brain tumour and am doing work to help raise money.....? Thoughts?
Cheers
Edit - MRI scan Tuesday. Hope it's clear.
rovermorris999 said:
I think you'd raise more money if you mentioned your experience. It just depends whether you'd be comfortable with that.
I agree. I'd be more than happy in letting people know if it means it'll raise more money. It's whether my boss is happy for me to do so.... I think he would be,cant see why not. I believe they've told all my patients why I've been off for so long! Gassing Station | Health Matters | Top of Page | What's New | My Stuff