A journey through a heart attack and out the other side

A journey through a heart attack and out the other side

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Morningside

24,111 posts

230 months

Wednesday 27th July 2016
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I am quite shocked and saddened to hear the news.

His kind and wise posts that he has given will be missed by many.

He gave truly wonderful words on the anniversary of my wife's death from cancer that really helped me in those dark hours.

RIP.

K50 DEL

9,240 posts

229 months

Thursday 28th July 2016
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Absolutely stunned.... followed the story of him and his Lily from beginning to end on here, marvelling at the depth of feeling his writing conveyed.

Like most, I was never lucky enough to meet Russ but I feel as though I've lost a friend.

Thoughts are with all who knew him, the world is undoubtedly a poorer place for his passing.

RichUK

1,332 posts

248 months

Thursday 28th July 2016
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Very sad news. RIP Russell.

Dan_1981

17,408 posts

200 months

Friday 29th July 2016
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Never met him, and didn't know him. But followed from afar his story from the original posts about Lily.

Such an eloquent writer.

Very very sad news. Condolences to all that did know him.

Hammer67

5,739 posts

185 months

Friday 29th July 2016
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I can't believe this. Terrible, terrible news. His thread about dear Lily is one of the saddest yet most inspirational things I've ever read.

Never met the man, he helped me in my time of need with his wonderful way with words.

RIP Russell old son. I'll never forget you.

PugwasHDJ80

7,529 posts

222 months

Friday 29th July 2016
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Hammer67 said:
I can't believe this. Terrible, terrible news. His thread about dear Lily is one of the saddest yet most inspirational things I've ever read.

Never met the man, he helped me in my time of need with his wonderful way with words.

RIP Russell old son. I'll never forget you.
Pretty much this- its funny that when you've been here a while there are always posts and posters that have an impact. DMN always helped.

fondly remembered

chris watton

22,477 posts

261 months

Friday 29th July 2016
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Very sad news. I clicked on this thread hoping for a happy update. I wasn't prepared for the sad news that a fellow PH member had passed away.

Our sincerest condolences to Russell's family.

Honk

1,985 posts

204 months

Friday 29th July 2016
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K50 DEL said:
Absolutely stunned.... followed the story of him and his Lily from beginning to end on here, marvelling at the depth of feeling his writing conveyed.

Like most, I was never lucky enough to meet Russ but I feel as though I've lost a friend.

Thoughts are with all who knew him, the world is undoubtedly a poorer place for his passing.
This. Exactly this. cry

tombar

476 posts

210 months

Saturday 30th July 2016
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Complete shock. My favourite member of Pistonheads - clearly
such an eloquent, caring, sweet man. I wish I'd known him in the real world. My thoughts with his wife and family, 49 is a ridiculous age to pass away. His thread about Lily said everything that ever needed saying about life and love.

longshot

3,286 posts

199 months

Sunday 31st July 2016
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Can someone link the lily thread please.
I feel that I should read it.

Countdown

39,990 posts

197 months

Sunday 31st July 2016
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Very sorry to hear this - condolences to his family and friends frown

RDMcG

19,198 posts

208 months

Sunday 31st July 2016
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longshot said:
Can someone link the lily thread please.
I feel that I should read it.
http://www.pistonheads.com/gassing/topic.asp?t=862855

It is s long and very human thread.Desperately sad and magnificently dignified and caring.

Dan_1981

17,408 posts

200 months

Sunday 31st July 2016
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RDMcG said:
longshot said:
Can someone link the lily thread please.
I feel that I should read it.
http://www.pistonheads.com/gassing/topic.asp?t=862855

It is s long and very human thread.Desperately sad and magnificently dignified and caring.
Probably the most moving, heartfelt emotional thread on PH. Difficult to believe it started so long ago and through all the awful lows and all of the highs that Russ documented this is how it all ends.

So very very sad.

pincher

8,584 posts

218 months

Sunday 31st July 2016
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Oh my - just found this thread completely by accident and wasn't expecting it to end up the way it did. So terribly sad frown

I never knew DMN but I took great solace from his other thread - he had a way with words that I could never hope to match and I admired him for his dignity and fortitude.

Ironically, I am typing this the day after the third anniversary of my wife's death - I think I will go and read the other thread again now.......

MX51ROD

2,754 posts

148 months

Sunday 31st July 2016
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Having had 3 heart attacks , I started reading this thread late in , I read the first 3/4 pages and the skipped to the 8th to add my positive view of being on the doctor's radar and being able to report that this fact has kept me well and alive, and to DMN look to future knowing this .
..........................What can I say? To his family , my deepest condolences , to others who are in a similar position , the outcome is not always so bad .
I hope I have expressed my feelings in written words , it is so difficult to
put down feelings of sadness , and to be positive as well .

BenWRXSEi

2,347 posts

135 months

Sunday 31st July 2016
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As a relative newcomer to PH I only stumbled upon DMN's other thread a year or so ago. I sat and read the whole thing in a day. I was admittedly a complete mess by the end of it, but his way of writing and outlook on life has really stayed with me.

I've put off replying to this because I can't really add anything over and above what has been posted. I'm just another of the countless members who have been inspired by Russ's journey. My sincerest condolences to his family and friends.

Was there perhaps a charity that was close to his heart that would benefit from a small donation? I'd like to pay my respects somehow, and - well, flowers seem a tad old-fashioned.

Cheers DMN beer

longshot

3,286 posts

199 months

Sunday 31st July 2016
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RDMcG said:
longshot said:
Can someone link the lily thread please.
I feel that I should read it.
http://www.pistonheads.com/gassing/topic.asp?t=862855

It is s long and very human thread.Desperately sad and magnificently dignified and caring.
Thanks.

Mrs Muttleysnoop

1,412 posts

185 months

Monday 1st August 2016
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Very sad. Like others never met him but felt I did through his wonderful posts.

Thoughts to his family and friends.

RIP.

prand

5,916 posts

197 months

Monday 1st August 2016
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Jeez, a random reference caught out of the corner of my eye on another thread said "dmn passing". So I looked up this thread

I didn't know the man, but I took huge inspiration from the years of posts and the life he shared on PH.

Totally awful to see this news. RIP DMN.

GadgeS3C

4,516 posts

165 months

Friday 5th August 2016
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Just gobsmacked.

I "discovered" DMN through his posts about Lily - hadn't realised he'd been ill but just spotted the other thread.

His posts about Lily often brought context to what really matters in life.

Just had a really crap afternoon at work and was bloody cheesed off. Even from the grave DMN continues to make me realise how I was feeling was pretty trivial compared to what matters.

The world is a much sadder place for his passing.