Bedroom issues!

[Fozziebear]

Johnnytheboy said:

Fozziebear said:

Stress is a serious sex killer,

I get very stressed by incomplete sentences,

I remember when

[GT03ROB]

'ere you're not with this bird are you???

http://www.pistonheads.com/gassing/topic.asp?h=0&a...

Only she's not getting any & is not happy about & thinks you are having an affair...

[BoRED S2upid]

Is she pulling her weight in the bedroom or are you expected to do all the work? If your stressed / tired and are expected to perform all the time...

[Register1]

okgo said:

Could also be a deficiency with vitamins and what not.

I supplement my vitamin intake daily, inc a big dose of Vit d, it has helped a lot in this respect. Alpha man and D3 from myprotein.

Its quite common for endurance type atheltes who train a lot (which sometimes I do) to lose the drive, but I found the supplements have really helped.

This is probably the case,
I have also heard it said that men also have a "monthly cycle" obviously not like a woman's, but where sex interest rises and falls through the month.
Again, hitting the gym quite often seems to have an adverse effect on playtime in bed.

[Gecko1978]

Stress or Depression can an do have an effect on this as can lack of sleep change in diet. You say she has issues. So lets assume she looks like a model (catwalk not model T) but is a basically an evil witch. So ugly on the inside that will like it or not turn you off.

Course could be none of the above, could be too much on line solo play. Or your not compatible she likes it one way you like it in her face.

Finally basically your gay :-)

If I had to pick most likely I would say stress an her issues are turning you off. Fix that rest will sort itself out...or find a salior an start a fresh..cos your gay

[Robbins]

A new relationship and you're not at it constantly? Something's definitely wrong.
As above really:

1. Stress
2. Her issues are putting you off
3. You're gay

You say you feel alright when you're out with mates so sack off the job, sack off the missus or try someone else/men.

[FrankAbagnale]

Condi said:

Can anyone suggest why my libido has suddenly vanished (typically with a new gf who is less than impressed )

Im 27, otherwise healthy, go running and to the gym a couple of times a week when I can. Not on any medication. In the past Ive had periods of time when Im just not interested at all, and after a few weeks or whatever it passes and normally I have quite a high sex drive.

Suspect next step is to go to the doc's for a checkup, but just seems odd sometimes Im not at all interested. Suspect stress at work might play a part, but when there is some stunning young lady in your bed it shouldnt matter about that, nor is she bothered about work, she wants to have a good time!

I'm the same. Sex drive varies massively from once a week to twice a day. Usually goes in spells of months at a time for no real reason. I've just turned 31 and it's been this way since I was about 27!

Just be open about it with her.

I had a new GF at 27, which lasted 3 years. At the beginning she found it tricky as felt I didn't find her attractive, but after discussing it and a few reassurances over the months she got used to it.

I wouldn't worry about it.

Condi said:

she has more issues than the back catalog of the Beano.

I'll have to remember that! Ha!

[Condi]

Fozziebear said:

BlackST said:

Stress can be a huge thing in loss of sex drive.
Could also go the doctors if it carries on to ask for bloods done to see where your t levels are at.

Stress is a serious sex killer,

Im 99% sure this is it... and Im also sure its her stressing me out for different reasons. I will go to the doctor and have a blood test or 2 to see if there is anything actually wrong with me, although I suspect its in my head.


And the person who asked if I still crack one off - not really, no. Lost interest altogether basically.


Pretty sure Im not gay as well, thanks for your concern! And sorry to disappoint those who were hoping they'd be the lucky guy...

[Gecko1978]

Condi said:

Fozziebear said:

BlackST said:

Stress can be a huge thing in loss of sex drive.
Could also go the doctors if it carries on to ask for bloods done to see where your t levels are at.

Stress is a serious sex killer,

Im 99% sure this is it... and Im also sure its her stressing me out for different reasons. I will go to the doctor and have a blood test or 2 to see if there is anything actually wrong with me, although I suspect its in my head.


And the person who asked if I still crack one off - not really, no. Lost interest altogether basically.


Pretty sure Im not gay as well, thanks for your concern! And sorry to disappoint those who were hoping they'd be the lucky guy...

while I am older than you from what you have said does sound much like I felt when I had depression. Basically while the thought might appeal the actual doing solo or other does not appeal even though everything works. Depression / Stress are I suggest overlapping so does seem its stress an nothing else so identify reason an you will fix it.

Go to Dr to double check as even if its nothing it will (knowing its nothing) destress you.

Cant offer any advice on your balatent closet homesexual desires but I am sure others will have helpful advice..

hope you do get it fixed though