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RobDickinson

31,343 posts

255 months

Wednesday 5th October 2016
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I'm also having trouble sleeping.





I am at work though...

Riley Blue

20,984 posts

227 months

Wednesday 5th October 2016
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'Morning Rob, good to see that the counselling is having some benefit. As has been mentioned already - don't be afraid to ask for help with finances. Remember, you're not the first person to be in such circumstances, support is there when needed. BTW - my tip for getting to sleep: tune into radio 4 Extra and listen to a comedy programme. I do that every night when I wake up which can be several times and I never get to hear the end. All the best.

Robster

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1,402 posts

178 months

Wednesday 5th October 2016
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Hi all please don't think my lack of response to individual offers of help is rude , I just find it hard to process much at the moment, does anyone know what info I need to provide to the council ref housing benift, I've spent all day worrying about it

soad

32,914 posts

177 months

Wednesday 5th October 2016
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Just proof on income - pay slips will do it. They will also want to see your bank statement/s (possibly for the past three months).
That will allow to calculate your Housing Benefit entitlement.

DelicaL400

516 posts

112 months

Thursday 6th October 2016
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A friend of mine killed himself today. No outward signs of worrying about anything. He hadn't mentioned anything to anyone. He seemed happy. And now he's gone. Please, if you are having problems or worrying about stuff just talk to someone. There's always a way to sort things out.


anonymous-user

55 months

Thursday 6th October 2016
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I saw a Scottish comedian linked from another thread and liked what I saw. it was weird as the comedy felt so close to how I think. So I thought I would have a look on wiki and noticed he suffered from depression.

I know for sure that mine is part of me, the same as my flesh and blood. I do the best to get thru but I am sure as everyone else who suffers it can be hard, but it is always good to read about others and understand you are not alone, and not to isolate yourself.

this is the article.
http://www.gq-magazine.co.uk/article/limmy-comedia...

Robster

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1,402 posts

178 months

Thursday 6th October 2016
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DelicaL400 said:
A friend of mine killed himself today. No outward signs of worrying about anything. He hadn't mentioned anything to anyone. He seemed happy. And now he's gone. Please, if you are having problems or worrying about stuff just talk to someone. There's always a way to sort things out.
I'm so sorry to hear that

thatsprettyshady

1,829 posts

166 months

Thursday 6th October 2016
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The Spruce goose said:
I saw a Scottish comedian linked from another thread and liked what I saw. it was weird as the comedy felt so close to how I think. So I thought I would have a look on wiki and noticed he suffered from depression.

I know for sure that mine is part of me, the same as my flesh and blood. I do the best to get thru but I am sure as everyone else who suffers it can be hard, but it is always good to read about others and understand you are not alone, and not to isolate yourself.

this is the article.
http://www.gq-magazine.co.uk/article/limmy-comedia...
Depression seems to common among comics, Jim Jefferies (personally my favourite comedian) talks about it fairly often, also I think Frankie Boyle has mentioned it once or twice.

ETA : http://www.ebaumsworld.com/videos/jim-jefferies-de...


Riley Blue

20,984 posts

227 months

Thursday 6th October 2016
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'Morning Rob, hope you manage sort out housing benefit today - remember, they're there to help. Have a look at the info here: https://www.spelthorne.gov.uk/benefits


craigjm

17,962 posts

201 months

Thursday 6th October 2016
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Robster said:
Hi all please don't think my lack of response to individual offers of help is rude , I just find it hard to process much at the moment, does anyone know what info I need to provide to the council ref housing benift, I've spent all day worrying about it
Don't forget to include that you are signed off etc and you can I believe apply for an emergency payment

Robster

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1,402 posts

178 months

Thursday 6th October 2016
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Hi all been in bed for last 3 days , not good I know just feel like I can't cope with even the smallest thing, haven't eaten for 3 days either , feel ashamed saying that on here but I've been nothing but honest before, how do I apply for housing benefit everything seems so hard and I wanted to encourage others frown

Wacky Racer

38,186 posts

248 months

Thursday 6th October 2016
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Rob,

You really need to eat something, even if it's beans on toast.


craigjm

17,962 posts

201 months

Thursday 6th October 2016
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Robster said:
Hi all been in bed for last 3 days , not good I know just feel like I can't cope with even the smallest thing, haven't eaten for 3 days either , feel ashamed saying that on here but I've been nothing but honest before, how do I apply for housing benefit everything seems so hard and I wanted to encourage others frown
Put your postcode in here and away you go

https://www.gov.uk/apply-housing-benefit-from-coun...

Riley Blue

20,984 posts

227 months

Thursday 6th October 2016
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craigjm said:
Robster said:
Hi all been in bed for last 3 days , not good I know just feel like I can't cope with even the smallest thing, haven't eaten for 3 days either , feel ashamed saying that on here but I've been nothing but honest before, how do I apply for housing benefit everything seems so hard and I wanted to encourage others frown
Put your postcode in here and away you go

https://www.gov.uk/apply-housing-benefit-from-coun...
If he enters his Shepperton postcode that'll take Rob to the link I posted this morning for Spelthorne Borough Council. Over to you now Rob - and get some food inside you...!

HappyMidget

6,788 posts

116 months

Thursday 6th October 2016
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Not ignoring you Rob, my phone just refuses to send txts, so here is the reply:

Not checked yet but has been unplugged since so will have a look tomorrow

pim

2,344 posts

125 months

Thursday 6th October 2016
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Robster said:
Hi all been in bed for last 3 days , not good I know just feel like I can't cope with even the smallest thing, haven't eaten for 3 days either , feel ashamed saying that on here but I've been nothing but honest before, how do I apply for housing benefit everything seems so hard and I wanted to encourage others frown
Are you alone Robster or can you get in touch with somebody friend or family to talk to? You must eat and drink liquids you will dehydrate.

I have been there feeling very depressed after my cancer operation which I survived.

I am ok now but this is about you.Don't be ashamed about anything,it takes a brave person to tell their story.

HappyMidget

6,788 posts

116 months

Thursday 6th October 2016
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Gonna bring you some chicken soup for lunch tomorrow Rob, you will hear me arrive biggrin

soad

32,914 posts

177 months

Thursday 6th October 2016
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HappyMidget said:
Gonna bring you some chicken soup for lunch tomorrow Rob, you will hear me arrive biggrin
That's excellent! bow

anonymous-user

55 months

Thursday 6th October 2016
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Rob even if it just to go round the block, try and do it. it really does take you mind of things and fresh air always helps, even if you wait until twilight if don't want to go out in the day.

HM - Super Soup sound like a great idea.


FlyingMeeces

9,932 posts

212 months

Thursday 6th October 2016
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Rob, have you got stuff in the house you can eat? Or have things got on top of you too much for that just now?

I'm well up for helping you get setup with a delivery of frozen stuff if that'd be useful/welcome - eg if meal prep more than microwave isn't possible at the moment.

Please go and get a glass of water and a slice of toast or a few crackers or whatever now, because the low blood sugar and dehydration will only make you feel worse.