Confused about an ex-girlfriend

[Trabi601]

xjay1337 said:

There will be no clean start.


Its over. Done. Delete her number. Remove from FB. Ignore her....

Absolutely this.

I did it back in March this year. Message from someone I'd been seeing for a few months saying 'I'm not sure I can do a relationship, got the kids and stuff to think about'.

Me: 'Ok, had been thinking the same'.

Then I deleted her from everything - phone contacts, Facebook, Whatsapp etc.

Didn't stop her contacting me a few days later. Ended up blocking her completely.

[Gtom]

Smash her in the pasty. Things will be fine*

• I may not have read any of the previous 9 pages.

[Butter Face]

Bit late to the party but I whole heartedly agree with other posters who have said move on.

I wish I had someone to tell me that when I was your age going through the same thing with an ex, took me ages to let go as we were 'friends'. Let me tell you what 'friends' means, it means you text her going on about how you miss her etc,you carry on thinking you hav a future and she's off fking someone else.

My life would have been better and easier if I'd just got over it and moved on.

[Ahbefive]

Mug

[Petrolhead95]

We'll see.

[One MoreDonkey]

Petrolhead95 said:

bluenosewrx said:

What's on the Tiffany thing?? Or pandora, I am interested in you want rid, ram the teddy and mug though

The Tiffany thing is hers. I won't be selling it despite spending a four figure sum on it.

You've spent a four figure some on one item for an EX!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Jesus H Christ. You are a mug.

[Petrolhead95]

One MoreDonkey said:

You've spent a four figure some on one item for an EX!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Jesus H Christ. You are a mug.

She wasn't an ex at the time.

[Du1point8]

Petrolhead95 said:

One MoreDonkey said:

You've spent a four figure some on one item for an EX!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Jesus H Christ. You are a mug.

She wasn't an ex at the time.

Didnt you say she is 19, so unless you have been seeing her since you were 16, you are still a mug to be spending that much on her.

[One MoreDonkey]

I assume you still have the receipt for something so expensive? Take it back and get your money back.

Of course she is keeping you hanging on you muppet. You're spending extortionate amounts of money on her and all she's having to do in return is keeping you sweet and trotting around after her like a love sick puppy.

You, are a walking door mat my dear.

[Ahbefive]

Indeed. Its quite sad. Take the item back and piss the money on something fun for yourself. You will feel much better.

[xjay1337]

Ahbefive said:

Indeed. Its quite sad. Take the item back and piss the money on something fun for yourself. You will feel much better.

Yup return the gift.

[Wobbegong]

xjay1337 said:

Ahbefive said:

Indeed. Its quite sad. Take the item back and piss the money on something fun for yourself. You will feel much better.

Yup return the gift.

Although I must admit I was also guilty of the same thing with an ex

[SpeckledJim]

This is one of those times when you should tell your dad what you have done, and then follow his advice to the letter.

[Hainey]

SpeckledJim said:

This is one of those times when you should tell your dad what you have done, and then follow his advice to the letter.

'Boot the entitled wee cow in the foof and why the hell are you spending that kind of money on an 18yr old bird and not yourself in the first place. What kind of idiot did I bring up?'

He's dead and gone but that's pretty much how that'd have went

[All that jazz]

But she still cares about me !! And sends me messages and stuff !! There's still a chance right? She just needs some time and then all will be good and we'll be back together !! I will wait !! You guys are all wrong !! You'll see !!

[stuartmmcfc]

OP was brave enough to come on here and tell us of his problems so hopefully he'll be brave enough to come back here in 6 months and tell us we were all correct.

[Petrolhead95]

If you want an update a month down the line, two months etc then I'll do that.

[okgo]

We know you will, you'll do anything

[anonymous-user]

No one wants advice - only corroboration.

John Steinbeck

[Wobbegong]

okgo said:

We know you will, you'll do anything

And I would do anything for love
I'd buy a 3ft teddy bear
Ahhhhh ahhhhhhh
I would do anything for love
A four-figure Tiffany bracelet and that's a fact
Ahhhhh ahhhhhhh