Confused about an ex-girlfriend

[bluenosewrx]

Woke up with a hangover this morning, came on and read the new posts, don't feel so bad now, op how was your weekend ???

[Wobbegong]

anonymous said:

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Is this the putting their nail down the urethral opening thing?

[anonymous-user]

Time and separation are the healers. Being best buddies sounds great (if you're secretly misguided into believing it will rekindle at some point), until that point when the SWT is asking your advice on wedding venues for her impending marriage to that guy you think isn't good enough for her, etc etc.

Move on and look forward to all the forthcoming experiences that'll have you wondering why you ever felt so bad about this one.

[anonymous-user]

eBay or return her presents, get out over Christmas and spend it on cocaine, other ladies and alcohol, by January 1st you wont have a clue who she is.

You are 21 and she is 18, honestly everyone has been there thinking it will last forever. It wont. You cannot remain friends, its been 3 or 4 months you said, Jesus Christ you hardly even know each other, get a grip and move on.

Enjoy your youth,go do stuff you shouldn't and wouldn't repeat, call it a life experience - look back and laugh.

[HorneyMX5]

Just for some balance, you can remain friends with Ex's. 3 girls I used to have fun with are still in my friends group although it did lead to the rather awkward wedding where my wife (who'd known me long before we got together) realised I had slept with all the girls on our table and decided this fun ammunition to wind me up.

[Du1point8]

HorneyMX5 said:

Just for some balance, you can remain friends with Ex's. 3 girls I used to have fun with are still in my friends group although it did lead to the rather awkward wedding where my wife (who'd known me long before we got together) realised I had slept with all the girls on our table and decided this fun ammunition to wind me up.

I hope that was not your wedding and you were at head table with you sleeping with most of it.

[xjay1337]

HorneyMX5 said:

Just for some balance, you can remain friends with Ex's. 3 girls I used to have fun with are still in my friends group although it did lead to the rather awkward wedding where my wife (who'd known me long before we got together) realised I had slept with all the girls on our table and decided this fun ammunition to wind me up.

I'd have wound her up by shagging them.

[HorneyMX5]

Du1point8 said:

HorneyMX5 said:

Just for some balance, you can remain friends with Ex's. 3 girls I used to have fun with are still in my friends group although it did lead to the rather awkward wedding where my wife (who'd known me long before we got together) realised I had slept with all the girls on our table and decided this fun ammunition to wind me up.

I hope that was not your wedding and you were at head table with you sleeping with most of it.

It wasn't, although 3 said girls did attend our wedding.

[sc0tt]

OP is a wet lettuce.

[bluenosewrx]

any updates on getting trampled on???, you filled her car up this week?

[Fastchas]

When are we going to see pics?

[Flibble]

bluenosewrx said:

any updates on getting trampled on???, you filled her car up this week?

He had to take a loan to do it after dropping four figures on a Tiffany ring...

[Nezquick]

OP, I've read this whole thread and I feel your pain.

There's only one thing left which I think will sort this mess out for you and determine once and for all whether she's the girl for you.

I know you're young and she is even younger but she seems like a keeper, especially with the behaviour she has put up with from you for the past number of months. You sound like you should be together.

I think you should continue to be friends for the next few weeks and then surprise her on Christmas Eve with the Tiffany ring by proposing. It's the most romantic time of the year and she'll not be able to say no. Even better, wrap it in a Christmas cracker to be pulled with her on Christmas morning. Her eyes will light up, her legs will open and you'll live happily ever after.

Good luck.....and report back.

[Hainey]

Nezquick said:

OP, I've read this whole thread and I feel your pain.

There's only one thing left which I think will sort this mess out for you and determine once and for all whether she's the girl for you.

I know you're young and she is even younger but she seems like a keeper, especially with the behaviour she has put up with from you for the past number of months. You sound like you should be together.

I think you should continue to be friends for the next few weeks and then surprise her on Christmas Eve with the Tiffany ring by proposing. It's the most romantic time of the year and she'll not be able to say no. Even better, wrap it in a Christmas cracker to be pulled with her on Christmas morning. Her eyes will light up, her legs will open and you'll live happily ever after.

Good luck.....and report back.

Sick sick man!

[Nezquick]

Hainey said:

Sick sick man!

I don't know what you mean.
It's sound advice from someone who's been there.

[bluenosewrx]

Hainey said:

Nezquick said:

OP, I've read this whole thread and I feel your pain.

There's only one thing left which I think will sort this mess out for you and determine once and for all whether she's the girl for you.

I know you're young and she is even younger but she seems like a keeper, especially with the behaviour she has put up with from you for the past number of months. You sound like you should be together.

I think you should continue to be friends for the next few weeks and then surprise her on Christmas Eve with the Tiffany ring by proposing. It's the most romantic time of the year and she'll not be able to say no. Even better, wrap it in a Christmas cracker to be pulled with her on Christmas morning. Her eyes will light up, her legs will open and you'll live happily ever after.

Good luck.....and report back.

Sick sick man!

I think this is a goer, OP please do the above.

[Pieman68]

OP, just a bit more hindsight from an old man

I have 2 previous long term relationships of over 5 years.

The first one we never married but have a daughter together, so have spoken regularly for the last 10 years and done the best for our child. I wouldn't say we were friends but we are civil and reasonable.

After we split I met my ex wife. After about 3 years with her we got married - 14 months later she was gone. We had no reason to stay in touch so I removed her from my life, along with a section of our friend group, her family etc. etc.

Bet you can guess which relationship I recovered from the quickest...................

[Petrolhead95]

Okay, it was going okay, things were getting back to normal but she keeps changing her mind again so I told her I'm going away for a while, that didn't go down well.

Just waiting for all the told you so comments...

[stuartmmcfc]

Told you so
Well done for having the guts to come here and update though.

[All that jazz]

Petrolhead95 said:

Okay, it was going okay, things were getting back to normal but she keeps changing her mind again so I told her I'm going away for a while, that didn't go down well.

But you're not actually going away for a while are you? You've just told her that in the desperate hope she would respond with "nooo petrolhead95 please don't leave me! I'm sorry for messing you about and I promise I still love you and want us to get back together properly"... but she didn't, did she?

I bet you'll be all over her like a rash on Christmas Day, plying her with your four figure gifts, hoping to "buy" her back. %sigh% I guess you'll learn the hard way.

There's still time for you to flog the gifts and instead just get her a card using the excuse suggested earlier. You would earn yourself a lot of man points and possibly earn yourself legendary status on here as the look on her face when she realises there's no prezzies would be hilarious.