Confused about an ex-girlfriend
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You want to know the truth? Might as well entertain some people out of my misery. I'm an idiot and booked an expensive meal at the place where we had our first date because I'm a knob who is having a s
t time and the only thing I have is her and I'm desperately clinging on to that becuse I'm too young and stupid to know when to walk away.
What else is wrong? I now have severe epilepsy which means I've had my driving licence revoked. What else can go wrong? Oh, why not throw a heart attack that I had in April where i spent my 21st birthday in hospital fighting for my life. I now have to live with some stupid heart condition which cost me my career and I now work at a supermarket - just about because I have so much time off because I'm ill - so I'm basically a joke now. No money. No career. No girlfriend. No friends as I made a stupid mistake which cost me almost all of them.
Happy now? Feel free to take the piss because I'm done caring.
t time and the only thing I have is her and I'm desperately clinging on to that becuse I'm too young and stupid to know when to walk away. What else is wrong? I now have severe epilepsy which means I've had my driving licence revoked. What else can go wrong? Oh, why not throw a heart attack that I had in April where i spent my 21st birthday in hospital fighting for my life. I now have to live with some stupid heart condition which cost me my career and I now work at a supermarket - just about because I have so much time off because I'm ill - so I'm basically a joke now. No money. No career. No girlfriend. No friends as I made a stupid mistake which cost me almost all of them.
Happy now? Feel free to take the piss because I'm done caring.
xjay1337 said:
One MoreDonkey said:
No money & no career?
Doesn't add up when you spent a FOUR FIGURE SUM on a fecking ring and booking expensive restaurants for someone that doesn't want to be with you
I must admit, I wondered that too. Doesn't add up when you spent a FOUR FIGURE SUM on a fecking ring and booking expensive restaurants for someone that doesn't want to be with you
Heck, take me out to Frankie & Benny's and I'll suck your dick.
Not really. I went home for Christmas and New Years to gather some space but she turned up at my mum's house Tuesday night and she's still here now. Quite surprising as she's a new driver but made the 2 hour trip down here on her own. I'll probably get some abuse for that but things seem to be getting better.
Sorry.
Sorry.
All that jazz said:
I am confused with the normal living arrangements of this relationship. Where is "home"? She lives 2 hours away from you but you say you've come home for Christmas and NY, so where do you normally live? She's only 18 if I recall correctly so unlikely to have her own place so does she still live with her folks? Do you doss with her folks then?All that jazz said:
Seriously?
This thread is missing a lot of information. I think you just like to tease us Mr 95.
Some questions that need answering :
1. Did she really just turn up on your folks' doorstep unannounced as your earlier post suggests or
2. Did you plead and beg her to come over because you were missing her and
3. offered to pay for her petrol? (
)4. Did you not give her anything as Christmas gifts?
5. Not even a card? (
)6. Did she get you anything?
7. ???
8. Profit?
1. Yes she did. We've been down there together before so she knows the address.
2. No I didn't. She said she missed me and I told her that I was missing her too.
3. No offer to pay for fuel or anything else.
4. She has had a couple of smaller gifts.
5. She has had a card, yes.
6. Yes, I got two gifts; two nice dress shirts.
Anything else?
Hainey said:
FWIW, and it's just advice, I'd cool off on giving them to her for a while. Let the relationship reset itself and see what comes out of it. It sounds like you two are talking like adults now and that can only be a good thing.
Booty calls are great but they do get in the way of meaningful dialogue after all.
Never know, maybe come Easter she will be getting some great gifts and believe it or not everyone on here is actually rooting for you.
Good luck.
Now ther anger and emotions have died down a little we can talk about it calmly. Booty calls are great but they do get in the way of meaningful dialogue after all.
Never know, maybe come Easter she will be getting some great gifts and believe it or not everyone on here is actually rooting for you.
Good luck.
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