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SBDJ

1,321 posts

204 months

Friday 6th July 2012
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I believe they want to call a meeting of his specialists, school teachers and social services to discuss it all.

He's much happier at the moment - lots of smiling and laughing and we've got MRI results back that showed no recent damage to his brain. This unfortunately has left them at a complete loss as to why he still won't use his right arm, why his eyes are off to the left and why he won't make any communication sounds any more.

He also won't sleep at all and is helping me post this now...

escargot

17,110 posts

217 months

Friday 10th August 2012
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Heading over to France tomorrow to fetch my little man. I am so bloody excited, I barely slept a wink last night and there's no chance I'll get any kip tonight at all! biggrinbiggrinbiggrin

pmanson

13,382 posts

253 months

Friday 10th August 2012
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Nice one mate. Must get together soon.... We are down in mudeford at the moment enjoying the sunshine

Coco H

4,237 posts

237 months

Friday 10th August 2012
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escargot said:
Heading over to France tomorrow to fetch my little man. I am so bloody excited, I barely slept a wink last night and there's no chance I'll get any kip tonight at all! biggrinbiggrinbiggrin
Have a great time mate. My wee boy is so much fun. He's not little for his age any more which is a bonus. I'm keeping my fingers crossed that we get discharged from the peads this month. We have been constantly under peads since June 2008 as my second child was also prem and was still under the hospital when our youngest was born.

escargot

17,110 posts

217 months

Saturday 11th August 2012
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Thanks folks, just sat in the departure lounge, roll on 10am!! smile

escargot

17,110 posts

217 months

Saturday 11th August 2012
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pmanson said:
Nice one mate. Must get together soon.... We are down in mudeford at the moment enjoying the sunshine
Absolutely mate, we'll sort something once I take the little man back.

slinky

Original Poster:

15,704 posts

249 months

Monday 15th October 2012
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How's things folks? 3.5 years down the line here's Doodles...



Now starting to look at school for next September! Where has the time gone?

StuB

6,695 posts

239 months

Monday 15th October 2012
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Cracking picture Will.

escargot

17,110 posts

217 months

Monday 15th October 2012
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My boy started school over in France in September - he's doing really well and is noticeably tired now when I see him on skype of an evening. I've got him over her for 2 weeks at Christmas - can't bloody wait!!

pmanson

13,382 posts

253 months

Monday 15th October 2012
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Alfie turned three last week...

Pic 1 (taken a couple of months ago):





Taken this weekend:




StuB

6,695 posts

239 months

Monday 15th October 2012
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Recent video of Luca in action.

http://youtu.be/0vIedqLZTq4

I reckon he's got superunleaded in his veins thumbup

From Holiday in Italy this summer.



and Summer in the UK



Edited by StuB on Monday 15th October 14:50

Coco H

4,237 posts

237 months

Monday 15th October 2012
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It's my boys birthday this week. And I am having the usual attack of the guilts. Hopefully this will be the last year. The whole scbu stress thing comes back - I can remember some bits of NICU so vividly. I think it all resurfaced as we had to see the peads consultant last week and to waste a bit of time I did the walk around the hospital and passed the unit.
My son was discharged from the peads recently so all is well.
I just don't know if I could do it all again - being so ill and then sbcu bit then the inevitable hospital stays etc. I am getting on now and need to make up my mind.

cslgirl

2,215 posts

220 months

Monday 15th October 2012
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Great pics!



another petrol head here too following in his sisters footsteps, or should I say tracks!



as if I didn't have enough grey hair!!

SBDJ

1,321 posts

204 months

Tuesday 16th October 2012
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Suprisingly well here.

Since last hospital admission we havent had any admissions which makes a change.

I got the vomiting under control it seems by insisting on a change in his milk feeds.

School has been going well, this is his second year and he started full time in September. He loves it and they love him too. Various respite options are available to us now too. I was a bit wary of the involvement of social services however they are keeping a distance whilst providing advice which is fine in my book.

As a bonus they tried to put a bracelet on him at school, he looked at it, looked at her and said 'off'. I'm hoping he didnt mumble anything first!

Good to see everyone doing so well, hard to believe it has almost been 4 years!

pmanson

13,382 posts

253 months

Tuesday 16th October 2012
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SBDJ said:
he looked at it, looked at her and said 'off'. I'm hoping he didnt mumble anything first!
Like Father, like Son... rofl

BlackVanDyke

9,932 posts

211 months

Tuesday 16th October 2012
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SBDJ said:
Suprisingly well here.

Since last hospital admission we havent had any admissions which makes a change.

I got the vomiting under control it seems by insisting on a change in his milk feeds.

School has been going well, this is his second year and he started full time in September. He loves it and they love him too. Various respite options are available to us now too. I was a bit wary of the involvement of social services however they are keeping a distance whilst providing advice which is fine in my book.

As a bonus they tried to put a bracelet on him at school, he looked at it, looked at her and said 'off'. I'm hoping he didnt mumble anything first!

Good to see everyone doing so well, hard to believe it has almost been 4 years!
biggrinbiggrinbiggrin that's bloody brilliant!

Especially the 'off' bit.

Chip off the old block!

slinky

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15,704 posts

249 months

Thursday 4th April 2013
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Struggling to believe that Doodles is now 4... Crazy..

Anyway, I should have posted about this time last year to tell you about a drama with had with Daisy after a routine sedation at BCH for an MRI, we were discharged with doodles still, ultimately, unconscious. Which resulted, later in the day, in a trip under blues and twos to Worcester Royal and a dose of Naloxone as we were unable to ascertain from BCH exactly what had been used for sedation. Naloxone is normally used to counter opiate overdoses!

Fortunately a good buddy of mine is a senior doctor in the local A&E and met us there, the Ambo crew did the hand over to him and he made sure we were looked after well. Daisy recovered without issue, but consultants at Worcester were unhappy with what happened and made contact with BCH.

This was followed up with contact from a medical director at BCH to ask if we wished to raise a complaint. I pointed out that I didn't want to raise a complaint, but had a number of issues which needed to be addressed to give me assurances that this would never happen to another child/family.
We had confirmation from BCH that an investigation had been carried out and measures taken, which was a relief.

Fast forward to today and we're at BCH for a routine appointment with our Neuro consultant. He opened with thanks for raising the issue, as it had gone to the chief exec and everyone below, which had led to massive change in process and procedure across multiple hospitals! our neuro guy was quite really pushing the thanks, we didn't need it but it was great to here that change happens!

Today's appointment was a good positive one, with no concerns and and good look at the results from the MRI last year.
Now we just need to work out how we're going to deal with the urology side of things on a long term basis.
Doodles has got a place at the school a spitting distance from our house, changes are already being made in readiness for her arrival and we've just had a note advising that she's been awarded school action plus, so will get 5 hours of additional TA support each week..

All in all, things are good.. we're bloody knackered though!

Hope things are going well with everyone else?

pmanson

13,382 posts

253 months

Thursday 4th April 2013
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That it is good news.

All good here, Alfie was 3 back in October, still not talking much but seems to be taking everything in.

We've had his hearing checked and completed four group speech therapy sessions to try and boost his confidence. Pre-school wise he's doing well and they're pleased with his progress.

escargot

17,110 posts

217 months

Thursday 4th April 2013
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Cedric too is fine - he's talking loads in French when I see him on skype, but his English remains very basic. I go to pick him up next week and then it's two whole weeks of daddy / son time. Can't wait now!!

Coco H

4,237 posts

237 months

Thursday 4th April 2013
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My boy is good. Discharged in August from the peads but still having food digestion issues so we may need to rethink things in the future. He's still more vulnerable than the others to illness in general - gets hit harder and takes significantly longer to recover. He's still short for his age but now is rotund. He's speaking well but can't write yet. He can only manage the first letter of his name. He's 3.5 and I was hoping he would follow his sister by writing his name by now.