Ched Evans

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selym

9,544 posts

172 months

Thursday 8th January 2015
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photosnob said:
Sorry mate - my comments were actually tongue in cheek at all the people saying he should apologise for something he feels/says he didn't do. However he has now actually apologised so I was wrong there as well.
thumbup Well, the madding crowd got their way again. When he inevitably goes abroad to earn a crust, I wonder what their opinion or actions will be then? Back to hounding others on Twitter etc?.

Halb

53,012 posts

184 months

Thursday 8th January 2015
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ascayman said:
See that wasn't so hard, its a shame it took so long.... and that it took this to force him to do it.
Trying every last trick to squirm his way around? biggrin

ascayman

12,759 posts

217 months

Thursday 8th January 2015
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Halb said:
Trying every last trick to squirm his way around? biggrin
It looks that way doesn't it. I cant help but think that football is better off without him!

The jiffle king

6,921 posts

259 months

Thursday 8th January 2015
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Chimune said:
hornetrider said:
The jiffle king said:
Just grabbed this quote from the BBC sporty website

Evans deal to Oldham off

Posted at 12:04
"Sponsor pressure on Oldham has intensified over the last 24 hours to such an extent that Oldham are pulling out of the deal to sign Ched Evans.
"Members of staff - including directors - and their families have been threatened - one board member has been told the address of where his daughter works, and told she will be raped if the club proceeds."


I cannot believe that people can behave like this
I'm sorry but that is totally fked up. Whoever made those threats needs to be prosecuted.

Also, as an aside, I don't believe it's anything other than more twitter nonsense, ie a hollow threat which would never be acted upon.
From Guardian:
"A spokesman for Greater Manchester Police (GMP) said the force was not aware of any threats made to anyone connected to Oldham Athletic."
coffee
I grabbed the quote from the BBC sports day ticker.... This has subsequently been changed on the ticker, but the statement of a member of the boards family being threatened with rape is on another part of the BBC website. Clearly it has not been reported to the police yet

The jiffle king

6,921 posts

259 months

Thursday 8th January 2015
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Chimune said:
hornetrider said:
The jiffle king said:
Just grabbed this quote from the BBC sporty website

Evans deal to Oldham off

Posted at 12:04
"Sponsor pressure on Oldham has intensified over the last 24 hours to such an extent that Oldham are pulling out of the deal to sign Ched Evans.
"Members of staff - including directors - and their families have been threatened - one board member has been told the address of where his daughter works, and told she will be raped if the club proceeds."


I cannot believe that people can behave like this
I'm sorry but that is totally fked up. Whoever made those threats needs to be prosecuted.

Also, as an aside, I don't believe it's anything other than more twitter nonsense, ie a hollow threat which would never be acted upon.
From Guardian:
"A spokesman for Greater Manchester Police (GMP) said the force was not aware of any threats made to anyone connected to Oldham Athletic."
coffee
I grabbed the quote from the BBC sports day ticker.... This has subsequently been changed on the ticker, but the statement of a member of the boards family being threatened with rape is on another part of the BBC website. Clearly it has not been reported to the police yet

V8forweekends

2,484 posts

125 months

Thursday 8th January 2015
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photosnob said:
Well it's only a legal nicety that stops women being rapists... I've been absolutely drunk before and in no position to consent and has a girl sleep with me. Where do I sign up to be part of the victims club???
Are you serious? In that case you need to have a word with your MP and the Judiciary, because you're out of line with the way the law is. Put simply (usual caveat about me not being an expert), it says that taking advantage of a woman who is so drunk she can't say no (or yes) is rape. It would be good if we didn't need to have such a law, but we do and I have no problem with it at all.
photosnob said:
V8 - stop being daft. If a bar turned me away for not having the right shoes on I wouldn't scream and shout about it. I wouldn't expect all my friends to turn up and picket the place. I certainly wouldn't go to the national newspapers. It's okay to act like this if you can get yourself under the tag of being "oppressed".
I don't really know where to start with this. Breastfeeding isn't the same as a bouncer telling you about your footwear, so the argument doesn't apply.
photosnob said:
So so sick of hearing the same nonsense now. Tell me who is more likely to suffer a serious assault, and/or be murdered? Who is more likely to be permanently deformed and injured after an attack? All those statistics and yet we don't have buses driving young men home.
Not really sure what all this is about either. Again, not an expert, but I was having a debate about this with my Ma the other day so looked up some figures Men are much more likely to be assaulted or murdered (mostly by another man) - I think it's 2/3rds to 1/3 for murder, more so for violence. No idea what your point is in relation to breast feeding, the wrong shoes, or footballers with rape convictions.


V8forweekends

2,484 posts

125 months

Thursday 8th January 2015
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The jiffle king said:
Chimune said:
hornetrider said:
The jiffle king said:
Just grabbed this quote from the BBC sporty website

Evans deal to Oldham off

Posted at 12:04
"Sponsor pressure on Oldham has intensified over the last 24 hours to such an extent that Oldham are pulling out of the deal to sign Ched Evans.
"Members of staff - including directors - and their families have been threatened - one board member has been told the address of where his daughter works, and told she will be raped if the club proceeds."


I cannot believe that people can behave like this
I'm sorry but that is totally fked up. Whoever made those threats needs to be prosecuted.

Also, as an aside, I don't believe it's anything other than more twitter nonsense, ie a hollow threat which would never be acted upon.
From Guardian:
"A spokesman for Greater Manchester Police (GMP) said the force was not aware of any threats made to anyone connected to Oldham Athletic."
coffee
I grabbed the quote from the BBC sports day ticker.... This has subsequently been changed on the ticker, but the statement of a member of the boards family being threatened with rape is on another part of the BBC website. Clearly it has not been reported to the police yet
The Head (sorry can't remember rank - maybe Chief Constable) of GMP was on earlier saying they would contact Oldham to investigate - which is a good thing IMHO. It doesn't look as if the people receiving the threats have reported them to the BiB, but they may not have had time yet.

photosnob

1,339 posts

119 months

Thursday 8th January 2015
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V8forweekends said:
photosnob said:
Well it's only a legal nicety that stops women being rapists... I've been absolutely drunk before and in no position to consent and has a girl sleep with me. Where do I sign up to be part of the victims club???
Are you serious? In that case you need to have a word with your MP and the Judiciary, because you're out of line with the way the law is. Put simply (usual caveat about me not being an expert), it says that taking advantage of a woman who is so drunk she can't say no (or yes) is rape. It would be good if we didn't need to have such a law, but we do and I have no problem with it at all.
photosnob said:
V8 - stop being daft. If a bar turned me away for not having the right shoes on I wouldn't scream and shout about it. I wouldn't expect all my friends to turn up and picket the place. I certainly wouldn't go to the national newspapers. It's okay to act like this if you can get yourself under the tag of being "oppressed".
I don't really know where to start with this. Breastfeeding isn't the same as a bouncer telling you about your footwear, so the argument doesn't apply.
photosnob said:
So so sick of hearing the same nonsense now. Tell me who is more likely to suffer a serious assault, and/or be murdered? Who is more likely to be permanently deformed and injured after an attack? All those statistics and yet we don't have buses driving young men home.
Not really sure what all this is about either. Again, not an expert, but I was having a debate about this with my Ma the other day so looked up some figures Men are much more likely to be assaulted or murdered (mostly by another man) - I think it's 2/3rds to 1/3 for murder, more so for violence. No idea what your point is in relation to breast feeding, the wrong shoes, or footballers with rape convictions.
Right - your first point. What should I take up with my MP? If a man is drunk and sleeps with a sober man he has made a mistake and would be told that he should watch what he drinks. If the same happens to a women then it's a crime. I don't actually agree with anyone being assaulted or raped, I think it's a pretty horrific thing to do to someone. Personally I wouldn't get much pleasure with sleeping with someone that is incapable of even speaking. However it doesn't change the fact, that our criminal justice system has been largely politicised with political correctness, and the views of those who shout loudest.

My argument with breastfeeding was that private establishments should be able to do whatever they want within reason. When I was in the armed forces we were always being turned away for being soldiers. We didn't campaign about it, we put up with it. My comments were focussed around my opinion that I see many many things being turned into an issue to make a point/any point. I don't like that. When I go into a smokers home I don't tell them they shouldnt smoke, I don't tell people not to drink even though I'm t-total. I just accept that in someone elses home/business if I don't like their rules I either put up with it or leave.

With regards to the comments about violence and murder - my point was that if you were to believe some sections of the media then male violence towards women is the biggest issue of the day. What I'm saying is that it isn't. If a man is more likely to be harmed than a women. So why do we legislate for one type of less prevalent crime? Why do we hear about it so much in the media? It's because a certain pressure group of vindictive individuals are pushing an agenda. You might be happy accepting that - but I'd rather live in a society where we were all equal under the law, and we all had the same rules to live by and under. And that's not the case.

Pothole

34,367 posts

283 months

Thursday 8th January 2015
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photosnob said:
Right - your first point. What should I take up with my MP? If a man is drunk and sleeps with a sober man he has made a mistake and would be told that he should watch what he drinks. If the same happens to a women then it's a crime.
Utter crap. If a man is raped by another man while intoxicated he would be expected to press charges and the rapist would expect to be convicted and jailed.

Alex

9,975 posts

285 months

Thursday 8th January 2015
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Some good points in this article by Rod Liddle:

http://www.spectator.co.uk/columnists/rod-liddle/9...

"He has served the required amount of his sentence, and he should be allowed to do the job he chose and is qualified for"

"The arguments against Evans playing football again are so vacuous as to be beyond parody; it is a froth of fashionable PC outrage, and odious in its implications."

"The truth is that his case is the perfect example of the moronic inferno, the howl round of witlessness and politically motivated confected outrage."

photosnob

1,339 posts

119 months

Thursday 8th January 2015
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Pothole said:
tter crap. If a man is raped by another man while intoxicated he would be expected to press charges and the rapist would expect to be convicted and jailed.
And if a women sleeps with a man who is drunk? Or if a women performs another sex act, is that sexual assault? Women like men are just as capable of being in the wrong...

carinaman

21,332 posts

173 months

Thursday 8th January 2015
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Evans has issued a public sector 'regrets' letter apology. I don't have a problem with that.

Ched Evans is a 'role model'? And those elected representatives and Civil Servants in the public sector that covered up what was going on in Rotherham aren't 'role models'?

'Paedo Protector' would take up as much room as 'Convicted Rapist' on the back of someone's shirt.

V8forweekends

2,484 posts

125 months

Thursday 8th January 2015
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photosnob said:
Right - your first point. What should I take up with my MP? If a man is drunk and sleeps with a sober man he has made a mistake and would be told that he should watch what he drinks. If the same happens to a women then it's a crime. I don't actually agree with anyone being assaulted or raped, I think it's a pretty horrific thing to do to someone. Personally I wouldn't get much pleasure with sleeping with someone that is incapable of even speaking. However it doesn't change the fact, that our criminal justice system has been largely politicised with political correctness, and the views of those who shout loudest.
Do you want it to be OK for either sex to do what they want to a drunk/drugged person? Or would you prefer it to be as it is now?

photosnob said:
My argument with breastfeeding was that private establishments should be able to do whatever they want within reason. When I was in the armed forces we were always being turned away for being soldiers. We didn't campaign about it, we put up with it. My comments were focussed around my opinion that I see many many things being turned into an issue to make a point/any point. I don't like that. When I go into a smokers home I don't tell them they shouldnt smoke, I don't tell people not to drink even though I'm t-total. I just accept that in someone elses home/business if I don't like their rules I either put up with it or leave.
I don't think the other examples are comparable. I think it's pretty reasonable for a woman to expect she can feed a baby in a restaurant - after all, she's eating herself. I don't see why people have to be so prudish about a perfectly natural thing like that. If you let everywhere have its own rules, you get into a whole load of stuff about having to ask first and crap like that that isn't needed.

That's not the same thing at all as respecting other people's right to light up in their own home when you're a visitor.


photosnob said:
With regards to the comments about violence and murder - my point was that if you were to believe some sections of the media then male violence towards women is the biggest issue of the day. What I'm saying is that it isn't. If a man is more likely to be harmed than a women. So why do we legislate for one type of less prevalent crime?
In what way have we done this?


photosnob said:
Why do we hear about it so much in the media? It's because a certain pressure group of vindictive individuals are pushing an agenda. You might be happy accepting that - but I'd rather live in a society where we were all equal under the law, and we all had the same rules to live by and under. And that's not the case.

photosnob

1,339 posts

119 months

Thursday 8th January 2015
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V8forweekends said:
photosnob said:
Right - your first point. What should I take up with my MP? If a man is drunk and sleeps with a sober man he has made a mistake and would be told that he should watch what he drinks. If the same happens to a women then it's a crime. I don't actually agree with anyone being assaulted or raped, I think it's a pretty horrific thing to do to someone. Personally I wouldn't get much pleasure with sleeping with someone that is incapable of even speaking. However it doesn't change the fact, that our criminal justice system has been largely politicised with political correctness, and the views of those who shout loudest.
Do you want it to be OK for either sex to do what they want to a drunk/drugged person? Or would you prefer it to be as it is now?

photosnob said:
My argument with breastfeeding was that private establishments should be able to do whatever they want within reason. When I was in the armed forces we were always being turned away for being soldiers. We didn't campaign about it, we put up with it. My comments were focussed around my opinion that I see many many things being turned into an issue to make a point/any point. I don't like that. When I go into a smokers home I don't tell them they shouldnt smoke, I don't tell people not to drink even though I'm t-total. I just accept that in someone elses home/business if I don't like their rules I either put up with it or leave.
I don't think the other examples are comparable. I think it's pretty reasonable for a woman to expect she can feed a baby in a restaurant - after all, she's eating herself. I don't see why people have to be so prudish about a perfectly natural thing like that. If you let everywhere have its own rules, you get into a whole load of stuff about having to ask first and crap like that that isn't needed.

That's not the same thing at all as respecting other people's right to light up in their own home when you're a visitor.


photosnob said:
With regards to the comments about violence and murder - my point was that if you were to believe some sections of the media then male violence towards women is the biggest issue of the day. What I'm saying is that it isn't. If a man is more likely to be harmed than a women. So why do we legislate for one type of less prevalent crime?
In what way have we done this?


photosnob said:
Why do we hear about it so much in the media? It's because a certain pressure group of vindictive individuals are pushing an agenda. You might be happy accepting that - but I'd rather live in a society where we were all equal under the law, and we all had the same rules to live by and under. And that's not the case.
What I'd like is equality under the law. I'd personally say taking advantage off someone who was comatose was wrong. However and here is the biggy - if I were to get so drunk I didn't know what was going on, I'd blame myself for the situation I got myself into. If I ended up going to a casino and losing all my money in that state I wouldn't accuse them of theft. I'd accept it for what it was. A female judge recently made a similar argument is a much more articulate way to me.

I think it's pretty reasonable for someone to be allowed to go into a bar no matter what there job is. However thats just not how the world works. If a private establishment doesn't want something to happen, then it shouldn't within reason. I once had a friends fiance around my house who thought it was okay to put a potty down in my lounge for the kid to have a crap... That's natural too, but I made it perfectly clear that it wasn't acceptable in my home.

My original comments were not aimed specifically at you. They are aimed at the the media and political frenzy that follows certain actions. I would add other stuff to this - the fear of terrorism or the belief that a man is going to snatch your kid. However with this topic - there is a LOT of people with nothing better to do than try and turn themselves into a victim. Having an argument and raising your voice is now domestic abuse.


Hilts

4,393 posts

283 months

Thursday 8th January 2015
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BBC said:
Ched Evans blames 'mob rule' for Oldham deal being pulled
http://www.bbc.com/sport/0/football/30734906

Here's a tip fella.

Don't rape anyone.

You'll get a better deal.

With a better club.

HTH.

No disrespect to Oldham Athletic.

Oh, too late. NVM.

Edited by Hilts on Thursday 8th January 20:10

Randy Winkman

16,208 posts

190 months

Thursday 8th January 2015
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Hilts said:
BBC said:
Ched Evans blames 'mob rule' for Oldham deal being pulled
http://www.bbc.com/sport/0/football/30734906

Here's a tip fella.

Don't rape anyone.

You'll get a better deal.

With a better club.

HTH.

No disrespect to Oldham Athletic.

Oh, too late. NVM.

Edited by Hilts on Thursday 8th January 20:10
yes Are they dumb? What did they think was going to happen?

Halb

53,012 posts

184 months

Thursday 8th January 2015
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Randy Winkman said:
Hilts said:
BBC said:
Ched Evans blames 'mob rule' for Oldham deal being pulled
http://www.bbc.com/sport/0/football/30734906

Here's a tip fella.

Don't rape anyone.

You'll get a better deal.

With a better club.

HTH.

No disrespect to Oldham Athletic.

Oh, too late. NVM.

Edited by Hilts on Thursday 8th January 20:10
yes Are they dumb? What did they think was going to happen?
Thought they could handle it, and then the sponsors squeezed hard, and then they realised they had made a colossal mistake. Trying to extricate themselves with minimum fuss. biggrin

Randy Winkman

16,208 posts

190 months

Thursday 8th January 2015
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Halb said:
Thought they could handle it, and then the sponsors squeezed hard, and then they realised they had made a colossal mistake. Trying to extricate themselves with minimum fuss. biggrin
I wonder if they were trying to make a point (similar to some posters on here) and then realised they couldn't see it through.

GloverMart

11,843 posts

216 months

Thursday 8th January 2015
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Interesting developments tonight in that PFA chairman Gordon Taylor has compared the situation of Ched Evans to that of the Hillsborough victims. ie initially thought to be in the wrong but then proved to be innocent.

Good grief, Gordon, that's crass talk at the very least.

LoonR1

26,988 posts

178 months

Thursday 8th January 2015
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selym said:
thumbup Well, the madding crowd got their way again. When he inevitably goes abroad to earn a crust, I wonder what their opinion or actions will be then? Back to hounding others on Twitter etc?.
He's out of jail on licence. He hasn't "served his time". He can be recalled to prison at any time for any infringement, whether connected to his original crime, or not.

He can not leave the country whilst released on licence.