Ex Footballer blog. Feedback and opinions appreciated.

Ex Footballer blog. Feedback and opinions appreciated.

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Ruskie

Original Poster:

3,989 posts

200 months

XM5ER

5,091 posts

248 months

Tuesday 5th January 2016
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I think the comment system on your blog has stopped working.

The jiffle king

6,914 posts

258 months

Tuesday 5th January 2016
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Ruskie, I read your blogs and I think the standard of writing is very good although the content does disturb me greatly, but I guess you're writing to share your feelings and thoughts.

Ref the diet and exercise, I hope that you can get motivated to work through this and I know that running for some people can become a good way of giving something in life focus.

Wish you all the best with your struggle and hope that you make progress

Ruskie

Original Poster:

3,989 posts

200 months

Tuesday 5th January 2016
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The jiffle king said:
Ruskie, I read your blogs and I think the standard of writing is very good although the content does disturb me greatly, but I guess you're writing to share your feelings and thoughts.

Ref the diet and exercise, I hope that you can get motivated to work through this and I know that running for some people can become a good way of giving something in life focus.

Wish you all the best with your struggle and hope that you make progress
Thank you for the kind words. When I do a blog it spills out hard and fast (hence grammar problems at times, it's my intention to rectify at a later date) it's raw, undiluted and 100% honest. I realise it can be a difficult read but that is in essence the point of the blog.

Ruskie

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3,989 posts

200 months

Tuesday 5th January 2016
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XM5ER said:
I think the comment system on your blog has stopped working.
They have to be approved by me to stop spam posts. Apologies if you commented and it slipped under my radar but I had a horrific Christmas period. Please be assured I'm greatful for any comments made.

Ruskie

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Ruskie

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Ruskie

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Wacky Racer

38,160 posts

247 months

Saturday 10th September 2016
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Hang on in there Ruskie, you WILL come through this dark place and out the other side...smile


Ruskie

Original Poster:

3,989 posts

200 months

Saturday 10th September 2016
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Wacky Racer said:
Hang on in there Ruskie, you WILL come through this dark place and out the other side...smile
I'm trying! Cheers!

Ruskie

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3,989 posts

200 months

Monday 12th September 2016
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Thinking about stopping the blog. Not much feedback and my original idea was to spread awareness. Anyway here's my latest.

https://howfootballruinedmylife.wordpress.com/2016...

KarlMac

4,480 posts

141 months

Monday 12th September 2016
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Hi Ruskie, if you can I'd continue with the blog. I found it recently (through this thread) and having recently being diagnosed with severe depression it's helping knowing I'm not on my own.


Ruskie

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3,989 posts

200 months

Monday 12th September 2016
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KarlMac said:
Hi Ruskie, if you can I'd continue with the blog. I found it recently (through this thread) and having recently being diagnosed with severe depression it's helping knowing I'm not on my own.
Thank you for taking the time to reply. I'm sorry to hear of your troubles. I sure you can relate to large parts of the ramblings in the blog?

KarlMac

4,480 posts

141 months

Monday 12th September 2016
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Ruskie said:
Thank you for taking the time to reply. I'm sorry to hear of your troubles. I sure you can relate to large parts of the ramblings in the blog?
Scarily I can relate to much of what you've written. I've had depression for over 10 years but only recently had it 'officially' diagnosed and medication prescribed. Its an astonishing achievement being able to write about it in such a frank & candid manner.

Don't worry about the lack of feedback, people that suffer will know where you are and people that don't suffer won't understand where your at.

Keep your chin up and fight the good fight smile

Ruskie

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GarryDK

5,670 posts

158 months

Thursday 6th October 2016
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Very good read mate. Sounds like todays game may have helped you a little more. Shame you had to sit in the dark for so long. I hope there is more light now.

Ruskie

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Thursday 6th October 2016
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GarryDK said:
Very good read mate. Sounds like todays game may have helped you a little more. Shame you had to sit in the dark for so long. I hope there is more light now.
Thank you. I think it would, sports science, sports psychology and actual coaching at lower levels are all vastly improved.

mikeyr

3,118 posts

193 months

Thursday 6th October 2016
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You not tempted to get involved in any of those elements now Ruskie? Or indeed maybe talk at clubs to younger players?

The jiffle king

6,914 posts

258 months

Thursday 6th October 2016
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I read your blog when you update it and I think you can add a lot of value to young footballers who don't really understand the pressures they might have to face, but also that football is mental as well as physical and health of both is important

Ruskie

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3,989 posts

200 months

Thursday 6th October 2016
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mikeyr said:
You not tempted to get involved in any of those elements now Ruskie? Or indeed maybe talk at clubs to younger players?
I have never really given much thought, although you can work out my identity if you really want to the blog is anonymous. The vast majority of people don't know how badly I suffer with depression. I suspect no one would be interested as I'm not high profile enough.