Bedroom issues!

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Condi

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17,190 posts

171 months

Saturday 27th August 2016
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Can anyone suggest why my libido has suddenly vanished (typically with a new gf who is less than impressed hehe )

Im 27, otherwise healthy, go running and to the gym a couple of times a week when I can. Not on any medication. In the past Ive had periods of time when Im just not interested at all, and after a few weeks or whatever it passes and normally I have quite a high sex drive.

Suspect next step is to go to the doc's for a checkup, but just seems odd sometimes Im not at all interested. Suspect stress at work might play a part, but when there is some stunning young lady in your bed it shouldnt matter about that, nor is she bothered about work, she wants to have a good time!

Sheets Tabuer

18,959 posts

215 months

Saturday 27th August 2016
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You're gay.

MYOB

4,786 posts

138 months

Saturday 27th August 2016
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Too much online porn.

anonymous-user

54 months

Saturday 27th August 2016
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Sounds like you've got the bad AIDS

944fan

4,962 posts

185 months

Saturday 27th August 2016
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Couple of helpful PH posts above!

Has your stress increased a lot recently? Stress causes cortisol, cortisol is bad. It will lower testosterone, which will lower sex drive.

Cortisol can also be raised by stress caused by training too hard. When you running and at the gym are you hitting it hard? Had a break in a while.

Don't take this the wrong way, but you say this happened with a new GF. Is it something to do with her?

stuartmmcfc

8,662 posts

192 months

Saturday 27th August 2016
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Worst "I've got a new sexy and young girlfriend" thread ever.

williamp

19,256 posts

273 months

Saturday 27th August 2016
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Condi said:
Can anyone suggest why my libido has suddenly vanished (typically with a new gf who is less than impressed hehe )

Im 27, otherwise healthy, go running and to the gym a couple of times a week when I can. Not on any medication. In the past Ive had periods of time when Im just not interested at all, and after a few weeks or whatever it passes and normally I have quite a high sex drive.

Suspect next step is to go to the doc's for a checkup, but just seems odd sometimes Im not at all interested. Suspect stress at work might play a part, but when there is some stunning young lady in your bed it shouldnt matter about that, nor is she bothered about work, she wants to have a good time!
That doesnt help. Maybe try some white wine???

Condi

Original Poster:

17,190 posts

171 months

Saturday 27th August 2016
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stuartmmcfc said:
Worst "I've got a new sexy and young girlfriend" thread ever.
Defiantly. I can think of 101 threads I'd rather have mentioned it in.

Hoofy

76,358 posts

282 months

Saturday 27th August 2016
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Stress won't help. Might also be testosterone-related. Do some heavy strength-based weightlifting and even the gap between the mattress and divan will look attractive.

Evolved

3,565 posts

187 months

Saturday 27th August 2016
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Ask the doc for a full blood test, check test levels etc. Without that info it could be anything.

anonymous-user

54 months

Saturday 27th August 2016
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Are you saying you can't get it up or that you just aren't interested in the first place?

32Ford29

64 posts

92 months

Saturday 27th August 2016
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desolate said:
Are you saying you can't get it up or that you just aren't interested in the first place?
This ^^^

Condi

Original Poster:

17,190 posts

171 months

Saturday 27th August 2016
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32Ford29 said:
desolate said:
Are you saying you can't get it up or that you just aren't interested in the first place?
This ^^^
Not especially interested, can get it up but then lose interest after a while.

anonymous-user

54 months

Saturday 27th August 2016
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Condi said:
Not especially interested, can get it up but then lose interest after a while.
Well it's not physical then.

So you either need to do something that does interest you, find a new woman or get thyself to the YMCA.


GT03ROB

13,262 posts

221 months

Sunday 28th August 2016
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desolate said:
Condi said:
Not especially interested, can get it up but then lose interest after a while.
Well it's not physical then.

find a new woman or get thyself to the YMCA.
...that's about the size of it.....27 yrs old, new girlfriend & you are not interested..... she's either a deformed moose or you're gay. biggrin

FlyingMeeces

9,932 posts

211 months

Sunday 28th August 2016
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Anaemic, maybe? Some sort of mild virus?

Hoofy

76,358 posts

282 months

Sunday 28th August 2016
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I forgot to ask - are you getting enough sleep? If you're really tired, it won't help things.

jammy_basturd

29,778 posts

212 months

Sunday 28th August 2016
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Depression, stress, fear of not impressing fit new gf?

gus607

917 posts

136 months

Monday 29th August 2016
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If you don't get this sorted soon.................Give me shout !

DoubleD

22,154 posts

108 months

Monday 29th August 2016
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gus607 said:
If you don't get this sorted soon.................Give me shout !
Why what are you going to do to him to get him interested in sex?