Do you use parent and child spaces without children?

Do you use parent and child spaces without children?

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Devil2575

13,400 posts

189 months

Saturday 25th July 2015
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9mm said:
Toaster said:
http://www.huffingtonpost.co.uk/2015/07/24/mum-par...

...............take a deep breath before replying smile
Rough looking tart with appalling dress sense, a st car and an even crappier house. Customary media scowl.

What more can you say?
I wouldn't say any more, you've already said enough to make me think you're a bellend biggrin

Dixy

2,927 posts

206 months

Saturday 25th July 2015
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Parent and child parking spaces are a marketing ploy like bogof or putting the fruit by the front door, fighting over one is as demeaning as fighting over flat screen tellies on black Friday.
This is exactly the same as the train seat thread, we must either have etiquette or rules, if you make rules that are unjust people will ignore them and forget etiquette.
If the Titanic sank now should all the men drown, would a lesbian couple both be allowed in a life boat.

Devil2575

13,400 posts

189 months

Saturday 25th July 2015
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Dixy said:
Parent and child parking spaces are a marketing ploy like bogof or putting the fruit by the front door, fighting over one is as demeaning as fighting over flat screen tellies on black Friday.
This is exactly the same as the train seat thread, we must either have etiquette or rules, if you make rules that are unjust people will ignore them and forget etiquette.
If the Titanic sank now should all the men drown, would a lesbian couple both be allowed in a life boat.
Parent and child spaces aren't unjust.

9mm

3,128 posts

211 months

Saturday 25th July 2015
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Devil2575 said:
9mm said:
Toaster said:
http://www.huffingtonpost.co.uk/2015/07/24/mum-par...

...............take a deep breath before replying smile
Rough looking tart with appalling dress sense, a st car and an even crappier house. Customary media scowl.

What more can you say?
I wouldn't say any more, you've already said enough to make me think you're a bellend biggrin
I can live with that. laugh


funkyrobot

18,789 posts

229 months

Saturday 25th July 2015
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Because we utilise these spaces whenever we can (nearly a year old daughter), we see no end of people abusing these spaces.

Can't really do a lot about it though so we won't be getting into any shouty matches. smile

jmorgan

36,010 posts

285 months

Saturday 25th July 2015
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Dixy said:
Parent and child parking spaces are a marketing ploy like bogof or putting the fruit by the front door, fighting over one is as demeaning as fighting over flat screen tellies on black Friday.
This is exactly the same as the train seat thread, we must either have etiquette or rules, if you make rules that are unjust people will ignore them and forget etiquette.
If the Titanic sank now should all the men drown, would a lesbian couple both be allowed in a life boat.
As you say, the whole place is geared up as a marketing exercise to empty your wallet. You walk in the door you are targeted. Parking spaces, whatever the cynicism, is not really a big issue.

Problem is in this society, there are people that think the rules need not apply to them when they choose (some think they are exempt for life). "Only hoping in for an apple, or to use the cash point, won't be a minute". etc. etc.

DonkeyApple

55,458 posts

170 months

Saturday 25th July 2015
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Dixy said:
Parent and child parking spaces are a marketing ploy like bogof or putting the fruit by the front door, fighting over one is as demeaning as fighting over flat screen tellies on black Friday.
This is exactly the same as the train seat thread, we must either have etiquette or rules, if you make rules that are unjust people will ignore them and forget etiquette.
If the Titanic sank now should all the men drown, would a lesbian couple both be allowed in a life boat.
This is true. Ultimately, it is about etiquette and basic civilisation. Dropping to the same level as the L'Oreal monkey somewhat undoes your argument.

Amusingly I had some indignant prat come up to me as I was getting out of my car parked in a baby/toddler space at a service station at the weekend. I just ignored him as I turned back in to get the children out of the back of the car. Even once he realised there were children in the car he decided to then be angry that I had ignored him.

Some people are just angry at their lot in life and try and use other people as cheap medication. The fact that this woman flipped an abandoned her car in the middle of the car park then tried to ignore instructions to park properly just highlights that she has problems the same as the scrote who parked in the wrong place also.

Vipers

32,901 posts

229 months

Saturday 25th July 2015
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At the end of the day, if it's a parent and child space, why park in it without children, it pisses people off.

Same as the selfish idiots who think parking at junctions, on zig zags, on double yellows is OK for them, the rules don't apply to them.

They deserve what ever they get.



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anonymous-user

55 months

Saturday 25th July 2015
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Vipers said:
At the end of the day, if it's a parent and child space, why park in it without children, it pisses people off.

Same as the selfish idiots who think parking at junctions, on zig zags, on double yellows is OK for them, the rules don't apply to them.

They deserve what ever they get.



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It's because they think the world revolves around them. They lack empathy and are probably narcissists. The idea that a space is provided for someone and they aren't eligible really pisses them off so they park there anyway. Unfortunately this kind of me me me, selfishness is becoming more common as these selfish people isolate themselves and view all other people as the enemy who are out to get one over them with their children and big parent and child spaces.

Blakewater

4,311 posts

158 months

Saturday 25th July 2015
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9mm said:
Toaster said:
http://www.huffingtonpost.co.uk/2015/07/24/mum-par...

...............take a deep breath before replying smile
Rough looking tart with appalling dress sense, a st car and an even crappier house. Customary media scowl.

What more can you say?
Yes, because the old Astra she blocked in belonged to a secret millionaire.

DonkeyApple

55,458 posts

170 months

Saturday 25th July 2015
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el stovey said:
Vipers said:
At the end of the day, if it's a parent and child space, why park in it without children, it pisses people off.

Same as the selfish idiots who think parking at junctions, on zig zags, on double yellows is OK for them, the rules don't apply to them.

They deserve what ever they get.



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It's because they think the world revolves around them. They lack empathy and are probably narcissists. The idea that a space is provided for someone and they aren't eligible really pisses them off so they park there anyway. Unfortunately this kind of me me me, selfishness is becoming more common as these selfish people isolate themselves and view all other people as the enemy who are out to get one over them with their children and big parent and child spaces.
I think it's simpler than that. It's a deliberate act done to spite a specific group that they are angry at.

These are quite sad people.

9mm

3,128 posts

211 months

Saturday 25th July 2015
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Blakewater said:
9mm said:
Toaster said:
http://www.huffingtonpost.co.uk/2015/07/24/mum-par...

...............take a deep breath before replying smile
Rough looking tart with appalling dress sense, a st car and an even crappier house. Customary media scowl.

What more can you say?
Yes, because the old Astra she blocked in belonged to a secret millionaire.
Good spot. Looks a right nail. Wonder if the owner is as rough.

BlackST

9,080 posts

166 months

Saturday 25th July 2015
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At 0130, yes.
At 1530, no.

mikal83

5,340 posts

253 months

Sunday 26th July 2015
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BlackST said:
At 0130, yes.
At 1530, no.
To save walking an extra ten feet....... really?

bitchstewie

51,459 posts

211 months

Sunday 26th July 2015
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60 pages and this is still rattling on?! biggrin

It still seems simple, it's their land so their rules and Tesco and other supermarkets are pretty fking ruthless and they wouldn't have these spaces if it didn't bring them more customers than not having them would.

I'm not sure why it's so difficult to understand and simply park in a normal space, or if it really gets you choking on your own rage just go elsewhere - it really isn't proving much a of a point if you still end up handing them your money.

Vipers

32,901 posts

229 months

Sunday 26th July 2015
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9mm said:
Blakewater said:
9mm said:
Toaster said:
http://www.huffingtonpost.co.uk/2015/07/24/mum-par...

...............take a deep breath before replying smile
Rough looking tart with appalling dress sense, a st car and an even crappier house. Customary media scowl.

What more can you say?
Yes, because the old Astra she blocked in belonged to a secret millionaire.
Good spot. Looks a right nail. Wonder if the owner is as rough.
As we sit here in our Saville row suits critisising her dress sense.......




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poing

8,743 posts

201 months

Sunday 26th July 2015
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mikal83 said:
BlackST said:
At 0130, yes.
At 1530, no.
To save walking an extra ten feet....... really?
The mother I saw yesterday afternoon did it to save that distance I assume, she certainly didn't do it for the kids because she left them in the car.

BrabusMog

20,184 posts

187 months

Sunday 26th July 2015
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People getting angry about parking spaces and making deep, psychological evaluations of people who park in them need to take a step back and relax!

I sometimes have my nephew with me and the back seats are rarely used in the car so I have a child seat permanently attached. As such I can park in the parent spaces and relax knowing my car won't get scratched by someone who can't park/push a trolley etc. It's just a bonus that these spaces happen to be right next to the entrance. I'd still use them if they were at the back of the car park.

V8forweekends

2,481 posts

125 months

Sunday 26th July 2015
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Lost soul said:
Tunku said:
I tend to go for the disabled spaces as they are generally closer to the door and I get to demonstrate my Tourettes to anyone who complains. rolleyes
hehe
Mate of mine got told off for using a disabled space (it wasn't the last/only one) to which he replied "But I am disabled - I'm blind!"

Not what I'd do, but made me smile.

Edited by V8forweekends on Sunday 26th July 12:43

9mm

3,128 posts

211 months

Sunday 26th July 2015
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Vipers said:
9mm said:
Blakewater said:
9mm said:
Toaster said:
http://www.huffingtonpost.co.uk/2015/07/24/mum-par...

...............take a deep breath before replying smile
Rough looking tart with appalling dress sense, a st car and an even crappier house. Customary media scowl.

What more can you say?
Yes, because the old Astra she blocked in belonged to a secret millionaire.
Good spot. Looks a right nail. Wonder if the owner is as rough.
The forum wouldn't exist without criticism of people and things.




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Savile style shell suit would be more likely I suspect.