Why do women always slam/fling open car doors/boots?

Why do women always slam/fling open car doors/boots?

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Riley Blue

20,980 posts

227 months

Monday 21st July 2014
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My O/H did it for about a week after we met seven or eight years ago. I soon taught her the correct way to close a door - GENTLY YOU SILLY TART!

SEAN 46

102 posts

176 months

Monday 21st July 2014
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Agree with everything said so far lol!
My biggest gripe is when they (females) slam the front passenger seat back into place when getting in and out of the back seats. My daughters do it, the wife does it, mother does it FFS! I'm now ready for it and put the left hand out to cushion the slamming effect.

Janesy B

2,625 posts

187 months

Monday 21st July 2014
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SEAN 46 said:
Agree with everything said so far lol!
My biggest gripe is when they (females) slam the front passenger seat back into place when getting in and out of the back seats. My daughters do it, the wife does it, mother does it FFS! I'm now ready for it and put the left hand out to cushion the slamming effect.
A friends' GF did that to my seat and it's rattled every since. I curse her every time I go over a rough surface.

Tunku

7,703 posts

229 months

Monday 21st July 2014
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An old work mate of mine recounted the time she broke down in her car and was rescued by a chap she had admired for a while. She took a lift home in his beautifully kept MG MGB GT and as she stepped out she said 'You're a ste in nining armour' became flustered and slammed the door shut. The window promptly shattered.
Took her ages to get over the cringe hehe


Jasandjules

69,924 posts

230 months

Monday 21st July 2014
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Yes, the OH and I "discuss" this frequently. Normally by my checking the glass remains intact.


rongagin

481 posts

137 months

Monday 21st July 2014
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Sadly not just women, my father-in-law seems to think that unless he has attempted to create a sonic boom the door isn't closed. I have suggested the door will close quite softly but it makes no difference. He is quite old and used to close his car doors with equal force so not just having a go at me. I just resign myself and try to make sure nothing else is open when he closes his door or there isn't any 'cushion' of air in the car.

gforceg

3,524 posts

180 months

Monday 21st July 2014
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As someone else has said, it's people virtually pulling the handbrake out through the sunroof that really gets me. It's like people turning taps off too hard. Why?

My GF is actually pretty good with this sort of stuff. Lucky me.

s p a c e m a n

10,781 posts

149 months

Monday 21st July 2014
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I had a mate who pulled the interior door handle off of my BMW, so blokes can be fking idiots too.

HootersGsy

731 posts

137 months

Monday 21st July 2014
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I have an issue with her opening doors, always flung open as if nothing could ever be outside the car. Unfortunately, living on an island rather prone to strong winds we've come close to losing a door, or at least having it fold back against the wing a couple of times.

Also suffer the same issue with the handbrake as a previous poster, god knows how many times I've reminded her she doesn't need to stretch the cable to put the handbrake on.

Mind you, I've also learnt not to say too many things about women's driving. Was in a (female) friends car a while ago, along with the other half, and somehow she managed to get overtaken on the left and promptly got rather cross at the cheek of this chap. I don't think my comment of "If he could get past you on the left, you shouldn't have been in the right hand lane" went down well at all. It was rather quiet in the car for the rest of the journey...

AdamFX

242 posts

146 months

Monday 21st July 2014
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Why stop at car doors? My OH slams every door she lays her hands on in the house too. Not even the kitchen drawers are safe. Mildly infuriating after a while

SAS Tom

3,407 posts

175 months

Monday 21st July 2014
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My mates girlfriend let his door go in the wind. The force of it snapped the metal piece that stops the door going too far and pulled the door so far it bent part of it outwards where it hit the hinges. Somehow he didn't even shout at her but I'd have gone mental if that happened to me!

si_xsi

1,193 posts

196 months

Monday 21st July 2014
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The worst is when they do it to a pillar less door on coupes, the ones where the glass drops down an inch when you open the door, slam the bstad shut, I wince every time I see it happen

Matt UK

17,726 posts

201 months

Monday 21st July 2014
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So the good lady keeps smashing your front doors in?

You know what needs doing.

TheEnd

15,370 posts

189 months

Monday 21st July 2014
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si_xsi said:
The worst is when they do it to a pillar less door on coupes, the ones where the glass drops down an inch when you open the door, slam the bstad shut, I wince every time I see it happen
...with a hand print on the glass too...

mwstewart

7,618 posts

189 months

Monday 21st July 2014
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It is much like driving in general; the majority of people don't give cars or anything to do with them more than the minimum amount of care/thought/attention necessary.

AC43

11,493 posts

209 months

Monday 21st July 2014
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My wife managed to wreck an eighteen month old dishwasher last night.

The door's been out of kilter for a while - it needed a bit of effort to open it properly/close it flush. Was planning to get someone out to have a look.

Anyway, no need now. My wife yanked it open forcibly last night. Bent both hinges to buggery, one now hanging loose and half-wrenched the font panel off (half the screws pulled clean through the chipboard).

The dishwasher alone is £500 never mind the replacement front panel.

FFS....

mrtwisty

3,057 posts

166 months

Monday 21st July 2014
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MajorProblem said:
Because they don't have to fix anything they break.
This.

Guess who always slams the passenger door on my car, despite endless pleading not to?

I'll give you a clue - it isn't me.

Guess who is fixing the wonky frameless window glass on my (PASSENGER SIDE) car door next weekend?

I'll give you a clue - it isn't my OH.



Edited by mrtwisty on Monday 21st July 20:49

Bungleaio

6,336 posts

203 months

Monday 21st July 2014
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Beware of people who own range rovers or discoveries as they are likely to slam the door.

My boss owns a discovery and is forever slamming my passenger door but since I've bought a range rover I can see why. They are so well sealed that when they close it creates a cushion of air which will stop the door closing properly unless you put some force into it. After a while I suppose you just get used to giving the door a good swing.

V8forweekends

2,481 posts

125 months

Monday 21st July 2014
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Most people (doesn't matter if male or female) don't consider doing stuff with the minimum force needed.

Hence my need to replace tap washers every ten minutes because other people who use the bathroom (who happen to be female) insist on "turning the tap off" by going way beyond the force needed to stem the flow of water and to the point where they have applied th maximum force they can muster.

I comfort myself that most car manufacturers are able to cope with the ham-fisted and design stuff accordingly these days.

V8forweekends

2,481 posts

125 months

Monday 21st July 2014
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Bungleaio said:
Beware of people who own range rovers or discoveries as they are likely to slam the door.

My boss owns a discovery and is forever slamming my passenger door but since I've bought a range rover I can see why. They are so well sealed that when they close it creates a cushion of air which will stop the door closing properly unless you put some force into it. After a while I suppose you just get used to giving the door a good swing.
Ex OH used to take the piss out of me as I regularly failed to shut her Disco 3 door properly as I don't tend to slam them smile