Should I talk my mother in law out of this?

Should I talk my mother in law out of this?

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thatdude

2,655 posts

128 months

Wednesday 30th July 2014
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She wont gain any benefit from buying the diesel, and will probably stand to loose money (extra cost of buying the car mostly, i expect running costs will be about similar)


ging84

8,914 posts

147 months

Wednesday 30th July 2014
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Does not want to lose any more money in depreciation, so buys new car instead
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IanCress

4,409 posts

167 months

Wednesday 30th July 2014
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All the way down here, yet no-one has yet pointed out that there's no such thing as a Civic 1.4 diesel. It will be the 1.6 that the salesman is desperate to sell her.

Sounds like there's a bit of man maths going on in her head. She wants a new car, but she's trying to find a way of justifying it to herself and the rest of the family. If she can afford it, then go for it. But not the diesel.

WCZ

10,536 posts

195 months

Wednesday 30th July 2014
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can't get over that logic personally

AC43

11,489 posts

209 months

Wednesday 30th July 2014
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Tell her to start the diesel and listen to it for 30 seconds.

Glosphil

4,360 posts

235 months

Wednesday 30th July 2014
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FredClogs said:
Get a solicitor to draft some paper work giving you power of attorney, she's clearly mental.
or did it yourself via the Government web-site and save a few hundred pounds. To put towards her new car?

996TT02

3,308 posts

141 months

Wednesday 30th July 2014
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Show her this thread and let us know...

mikeyr

3,118 posts

194 months

Wednesday 30th July 2014
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Whilst I agree the maths don't work this doesn't sound dissimilar to many people on here that have bought new cars. So from the other point of view, maybe she would like a new car, thinks the Civic is nice and would rather have the reassurance - and doesn't mind splashing out the cash.

As long as you don't feel she is being misled maybe just help her get the best deal possible with regards to part exchange/spec/etc?

HereBeMonsters

14,180 posts

183 months

Wednesday 30th July 2014
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This is why the second hand car market in the UK is so good for the likes of us.

Hooli

32,278 posts

201 months

Wednesday 30th July 2014
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mybrainhurts said:
gaz1234 said:
Let her blow it
It's his mother in law, so that's incest...
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Nicely done.

anonymous-user

55 months

Wednesday 30th July 2014
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mikeyr said:
Whilst I agree the maths don't work this doesn't sound dissimilar to many people on here that have bought new cars. So from the other point of view, maybe she would like a new car, thinks the Civic is nice and would rather have the reassurance - and doesn't mind splashing out the cash.

As long as you don't feel she is being misled maybe just help her get the best deal possible with regards to part exchange/spec/etc?
I was going to say something similar. We've all decided we want a new car then come up with some bullst justification for it like "it'll pay for itself because my current one needs a new wiper blade" or whatever. If she wants to buy a new car leave her to it.

carreauchompeur

17,850 posts

205 months

Wednesday 30th July 2014
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Try to talk her out of it.

I just managed to extricate my mum from a ludicrous purchase of a Corsavan with utterly boggo spec for a rip-off price.

Luckily the snake of a salesman had lied about the finance figures therefore a few words to the sales manager about mis-selling and pensioners had it cancelled.

gr1340

Original Poster:

979 posts

204 months

Wednesday 30th July 2014
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ging84 said:
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Does not want to lose any more money in depreciation, so buys new car instead
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I couldn't understand the depreciation comment either.

Anyways, I think we have talked her out of it.

Thanks for your help. I'm off to trade in my £500 Puma for a £20,000 Golf TDI as it can do over twice the MPG and will surely save me money.

IanCress

4,409 posts

167 months

Wednesday 30th July 2014
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That's the spirit! Ask your MiL for some cash as well, she's got £11k free, i've heard.

gr1340

Original Poster:

979 posts

204 months

Wednesday 30th July 2014
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IanCress said:
That's the spirit! Ask your MiL for some cash as well, she's got £11k free, i've heard.
Its ok, I have a payday loan lined up as I won't have to pay it back for 30 days and its only 17500% APR. Thats a car for 30 days for free.

MitchT

15,877 posts

210 months

Wednesday 30th July 2014
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Woman logic.

My ex (from about 20 years ago) thought that 0.10 is ten times what 0.1 is.

un1corn

2,143 posts

138 months

Wednesday 30th July 2014
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If she does so few miles a year, she could probably get a newish VXR8 for about £15k, be £2k better off, and you can borrow it too.

Otispunkmeyer

12,604 posts

156 months

Wednesday 30th July 2014
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People need to stop making excuses for buying a car/new car. For most, this will invariably cost you more money than what you currently run. What you save in fuel costs you'll just lose in now having repayments or depreciation or both.

Just admit, the reason for a new car is that you want a new car. There should be no other reason.

Willy Nilly

12,511 posts

168 months

Wednesday 30th July 2014
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gr1340 said:
During the service she spotted a brand new blue Civic 1.4 diesel
no she didn't.

You need to explain to her how much a new car will loose and if she does fancy a new car, point her in the direction of a Jazz, mine is hysterically economical.

TooMany2cvs

29,008 posts

127 months

Wednesday 30th July 2014
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gr1340 said:
I'm off to trade in my £500 Puma for a £20,000 Golf TDI as it can do over twice the MPG and will surely save me money.
...and that's before you figure the VED saving in! Might as well spunk another £10k on the options list, to save even more come resale time.