How quickly do you reply to a Text message?

How quickly do you reply to a Text message?

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Thankyou4calling

Original Poster:

10,601 posts

173 months

Wednesday 21st September 2016
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I imagine it will vary depending on the recipient but I always feel a compulsion to read and reply immediately.

I know I send some and it can take a day to get anything back (my Mum and brother)

What do others find?

Rawwr

22,722 posts

234 months

Wednesday 21st September 2016
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I don't.

F*ck 'em.

boxst

3,716 posts

145 months

Wednesday 21st September 2016
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I tend to reply immediately. But then I do to emails as well, otherwise they build up and I have to spend hours going through and replying.

It makes me somewhat painful to deal with, as some people expect to send a text / email and then get a reply sometime, perhaps tomorrow. Where-as if I reply they seem to almost feel compelled to reply as well and it carries on ....

AW111

9,674 posts

133 months

Wednesday 21st September 2016
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Non-urgent?

Within an hour or two (next break) if I'm at work.
Same if I'm tinkering in the shed etc.

When I get to my destination if I'm driving.

Cotty

39,501 posts

284 months

Wednesday 21st September 2016
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Depends what they are asking.

Thankyou4calling

Original Poster:

10,601 posts

173 months

Wednesday 21st September 2016
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Cotty said:
Depends what they are asking.
I'm asking.

"Dear Cotty your dinners getting cold, when are you coming home"

ashleyman

6,977 posts

99 months

Wednesday 21st September 2016
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I've got 220 unread. Hardly reply at all.

Shakermaker

11,317 posts

100 months

Wednesday 21st September 2016
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As soon as is reasonably practical.

GetCarter

29,374 posts

279 months

Wednesday 21st September 2016
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I have only once replied to a text message.

Adenauer

18,569 posts

236 months

Wednesday 21st September 2016
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Thankyou4calling said:
Cotty said:
Depends what they are asking.
I'm asking.

"Dear Cotty your dinners getting cold, when are you coming home"
Maybe he's dead?

MDMA .

8,885 posts

101 months

Wednesday 21st September 2016
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Adenauer said:
Maybe he's dead?
might be a she. could be having a sausage dinner somewhere else smile could have her hands full !

Cotty

39,501 posts

284 months

Wednesday 21st September 2016
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Thankyou4calling said:
Cotty said:
Depends what they are asking.
I'm asking.

"Dear Cotty your dinners getting cold, when are you coming home"
That would be an instant sarky reply

"Why are you cooking my dinner at 3pm its going to be cold by the time I get in at 7pm"

X5TUU

11,938 posts

187 months

Wednesday 21st September 2016
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Normally immediately, only if I'm in clinic it's longer, I don't have friends who don't reply, I won't entertain them in my life lol

RizzoTheRat

25,140 posts

192 months

Wednesday 21st September 2016
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I thought my wife had fallen off her motorbike the other day, I pulled out of a carpark with her following me, got round the next corner and she'd disappeared...turned out she'd stopped as she'd felt her phone buzz in her pocket and had to check because it might be important rolleyes

I tend to reply based on how important the text looks. If it's someone asking if I fancy a pint I'm usually pretty quick, if its about something further in the future I'm in less of a hurry.

HTP99

22,531 posts

140 months

Wednesday 21st September 2016
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Almost always straight away, unless driving or caught up at work.

My eldest is a nightmare, she only seems to answer quickly if it is to her benefit; if I text her "hi how are you and the family?" I may get a response at some point during the day or the next, I can guarantee that if I texted her "I've found £50 down the sofa is it yours?" she would respond instantly, however she always expects a reply instantly if she texts me, I generally reply in a blunt fashion as it annoys her. When she is after something she always starts "Hi how are you....." when I read the first line I know instantly that she is either after money or a favour, if that happens I leave it a while before responding, as she does to me.

The wifes brother will only text and respond if it beneficial for him to do so, if you text him a joke and ask how the family are he will never reply, if you text "can you give us a hand Monday night with moving something and there is a drink in it for you" you can guarantee he will respond.

My youngest (17) is always texting me (usually about food!), she gets the right strop on if you don't reply instantly, I generally always do reply straightaway; as does she, unless I am pre-occupied, plus if I didn't reply quickly they would all build up and I wouldn't know whether I was coming or going.

al1991

4,552 posts

180 months

Wednesday 21st September 2016
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GetCarter said:
I have only once replied to a text message.
What was the text?

Must be good if you felt the need to reply hehe

Rosscow

8,755 posts

163 months

Wednesday 21st September 2016
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Pretty much straight away, unless I need to think about the reply!

GetCarter

29,374 posts

279 months

Wednesday 21st September 2016
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al1991 said:
GetCarter said:
I have only once replied to a text message.
What was the text?

Must be good if you felt the need to reply hehe
Text was: "Wrong number"

omgus

7,305 posts

175 months

Wednesday 21st September 2016
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yes

AdamIndy

1,661 posts

104 months

Wednesday 21st September 2016
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Depends who it is. Mostly I reply straight away, others I will reply when I can be bothered or not ata all.