Aggression on the Roads...

Aggression on the Roads...

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sebulban

285 posts

120 months

Monday 26th December 2016
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Timbergiant said:
Being an aggressive ahole is seen as acceptable in this country now, from years of football screaming and X factor/big brother and fly on the wall "reality TV", kids get it from an early age and take into adulthood, I've even seen a few incidents of pavement rage.
Have to agree.

Customer service is also dying. Plus with the internet good written and spoken English.

750turbo

6,164 posts

225 months

Monday 26th December 2016
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xjay1337 said:
So we've gone from talking about road rage, to how Seb is fking Bruce Lee mixed with Chuck Norris.

One for the legendary threads I think... :-)
<Cough>

No need to thank me at the moment... wink

cootuk

918 posts

124 months

Monday 26th December 2016
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http://www.thetelegraphandargus.co.uk/news/1498756...

... A gun was fired inside a police car during a Christmas Day disturbance in Bradford city centre, it has emerged. West Yorkshire Police said the firearm - which a member of the public claimed was a shotgun - was "discharged into a marked police vehicle" on Sackville Street while officers were speaking to the victim of an assault..."


I don't think this person wanted to roll around the floor doing submission hugs,
and one of the best reasons not to get out to argybargy over something.

There are lots of people out there who really don't think there will be consequences to their actions, and to whom "face" is everything. Regardless of whether they are in the right or wrong.
Whatever happened, you will be in the wrong for not showing them respect.
Therefore you, Sir, are a fhaaaacking caaaaant

sebulban

285 posts

120 months

Monday 26th December 2016
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cootuk said:
http://www.thetelegraphandargus.co.uk/news/1498756...

... A gun was fired inside a police car during a Christmas Day disturbance in Bradford city centre, it has emerged. West Yorkshire Police said the firearm - which a member of the public claimed was a shotgun - was "discharged into a marked police vehicle" on Sackville Street while officers were speaking to the victim of an assault..."
Y

I don't think this person wanted to roll around the floor doing submission hugs,
and one of the best reasons not to get out to argybargy over something.

There are lots of people out there who really don't think there will be consequences to their actions, and to whom "face" is everything. Regardless of whether they are in the right or wrong.
Whatever happened, you will be in the wrong for not showing them respect.
Therefore you, Sir, are a fhaaaacking caaaaant
I don't see a point there apart from a giant straw man.....

I've already said don't get yourself into bother. But sometimes you have no choice.

I am struggling to follow that so much I'm now wondering if you called me a .

cootuk

918 posts

124 months

Monday 26th December 2016
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Certainly not calling you anything...the last sentence is the erroneous driver's attitude.

If someone is willing to pull a gun on a cop car for a pub brawl then what would they do to a
non-uniformed member of the public?
With the level of drug dealing and associated crime round some areas, there are vehicles that are tooled up - possible a gun, most likely a baseball bat or crowbar. Even if unarmed it quickly becomes a baying crowd and the odds change against you.

What we see regularly are normally mild-mannered people who lose complete control.
The consequences for them could be fines, even imprisonment. Maybe lose their job, house, family.
Yet they forget all that in order to have a pop at someone.
Now think about the attitude of someone who doesn't have much to lose and doesn't care either.





Edited by cootuk on Monday 26th December 16:35


Edited by cootuk on Monday 26th December 16:46

sebulban

285 posts

120 months

Monday 26th December 2016
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cootuk said:
Certainly not calling you anything...the last sentence is the erroneous driver's attitude.

If someone is willing to pull a gun on a cop car for a pub brawl then what would they do to a
non-uniformed member of the public?
With the level of drug dealing and associated crime round some areas, there are vehicles that are tooled up - possible a gun, most likely a baseball bat or crowbar. Even if unarmed it quickly becomes a baying crowd and the odds change against you.

What we see regularly are normally mild-mannered people who lose complete control.
The consequences for them could be fines, even imprisonment. Maybe lose their job, house, family.
Yet they forget all that in order to have a pop at someone.
Now think about the attitude of someone who doesn't have much to lose and doesn't care either.





Edited by cootuk on Monday 26th December 16:35


Edited by cootuk on Monday 26th December 16:46
Yep.... another reason I am thankful for all the years of training.

I don't go drinking on weekends either as that's where it mostly kicks off. A local boxing champion got bottled over Christmas and ultimately the criminal will get his .... but I'd rather avoid it.

But mostly my examples are pukes in cars thinking they are thugs when they aren't. But I've dealt with thugs too.


Edited by sebulban on Monday 26th December 17:48

johnwilliams77

8,308 posts

104 months

Monday 26th December 2016
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sebulban said:
Yep.... another reason I am thankful for all the years of training.

I don't go drinking on weekends either as that's where it mostly kicks off. A local boxing champion got bottled over Christmas and ultimately the criminal will get his .... but I'd rather avoid it.

But mostly my examples are pukes in cars thinking they are thugs when they aren't. But I've dealt with thugs tool.
What is thugs tool?

sebulban

285 posts

120 months

Monday 26th December 2016
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johnwilliams77 said:
What is thugs tool?
Typo .... edited

iSore

4,011 posts

145 months

Monday 26th December 2016
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sebulban said:
Have to agree.

Customer service is also dying. Plus with the internet good written and spoken English.
Don't forget 'being offended'.

sebulban

285 posts

120 months

Tuesday 27th December 2016
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iSore said:
Don't forget 'being offended'.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ceS_jkKjIgo

iSore

4,011 posts

145 months

Wednesday 28th December 2016
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sebulban said:
That's what I'm talking about. I have a friend who is both very gay and very left wing. He is always offended - I called the DHSS scum who wrecked my rented out house white trash and he was offended, and flounced off when I outmanoeuvred him in an argument. He found my scouse accent impression offensive until I told him I was born on Merseyside and thus had every right to lampoon this superb accent. Then it was 'unfunny'. He's a lovely bloke and very intelligent but by Christ he needs to grow a thicker skin.

During some ridiculous road rage incident recently I was called a c**t.

"I've been called worse".

grayze

790 posts

169 months

Wednesday 28th December 2016
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IroningMan said:
Imagine how the driver in the OP might react to a perceived slight by a cyclist...

I spend a lot of time behind the wheel - 30k miles a year and sometimes more - and seem to have mostly got the hang of the Zen approach: today you had a in your life; never mind - they have a in their life every day. Move on and NEVER engage with another road user except to make space for them, express thanks or apologise.

'Twas not always so and I used to get very antsy about other peoples' driving, but I have learned to care and not to care, as Eliot might have said.
Me too ironingman, its learnt from experience. leave a gap and let people get on with it. There is always someone who wants to go faster than you.

sebulban

285 posts

120 months

Wednesday 28th December 2016
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grayze said:
Me too ironingman, its learnt from experience. leave a gap and let people get on with it. There is always someone who wants to go faster than you.
Agreed but there are situations where you cannot avoid idiots.

Antony Moxey

8,120 posts

220 months

Wednesday 28th December 2016
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sebulban said:
grayze said:
Me too ironingman, its learnt from experience. leave a gap and let people get on with it. There is always someone who wants to go faster than you.
Agreed but there are situations where you cannot avoid idiots.
I reckon 99% of the population do quite easily 99% of the time. I've managed it without any effort and so has everyone I know. It isn't difficult.

sebulban

285 posts

120 months

Wednesday 28th December 2016
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Antony Moxey said:
I reckon 99% of the population do quite easily 99% of the time. I've managed it without any effort and so has everyone I know. It isn't difficult.
What a baseless logic.... "I reckon" is irrelevant. Some sweeping statement on 99% of the population is laughable based on a sample group of "everyone I know."

But what I will agree with is it is VERY easy to avoid. Just today driving through the standstill traffic by Bristol m4 some idiot under cutting and swinging in and out of lanes so dangerous made me think some poor person will be on the end of an accident some day that idiot causes. But I just back off and leave him to it.

Im simply stating sometimes or someday for some people you are in a situation where you cannot avoid confrontation. Even trying to avoid it by acting meek or apologising just encourages said idiot.

Rawwr

22,722 posts

235 months

Wednesday 28th December 2016
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sebulban said:
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For what reason?
I think it's mostly for two reasons:

1) Most of what you're saying is hilarious
2) You don't realise why it's hilarious

sebulban

285 posts

120 months

Wednesday 28th December 2016
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Rawwr said:
I think it's mostly for two reasons:

1) Most of what you're saying is hilarious
2) You don't realise why it's hilarious
Being mocked by some moron on a PH forum does not exactly make me lose sleep.....

You no doubt find it hilarious due to ignorance.




Antony Moxey

8,120 posts

220 months

Wednesday 28th December 2016
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sebulban said:
Antony Moxey said:
I reckon 99% of the population do quite easily 99% of the time. I've managed it without any effort and so has everyone I know. It isn't difficult.
What a baseless logic.... "I reckon" is irrelevant. Some sweeping statement on 99% of the population is laughable based on a sample group of "everyone I know."

But what I will agree with is it is VERY easy to avoid. Just today driving through the standstill traffic by Bristol m4 some idiot under cutting and swinging in and out of lanes so dangerous made me think some poor person will be on the end of an accident some day that idiot causes. But I just back off and leave him to it.

Im simply stating sometimes or someday for some people you are in a situation where you cannot avoid confrontation. Even trying to avoid it by acting meek or apologising just encourages said idiot.
Sometimes, some day and some people is irrelevant baseless logic too. I've been on the end of accidents caused by idiots but never on the end of a violent confrontation. Guess I'm just luckier then you?

sebulban

285 posts

120 months

Wednesday 28th December 2016
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Antony Moxey said:
Sometimes, some day and some people is irrelevant baseless logic too. I've been on the end of accidents caused by idiots but never on the end of a violent confrontation. Guess I'm just luckier then you?
How is that baseless logic.... Im saying "road rage" incidents happen ALL the time. Isnt the title of this thread about aggression on the road.... and various people have posted about "incidents."

When have I been unlucky?

So you have not had anyone threaten you with violence. Well done. You win? You are better than anyone else who faced that situation?



Rawwr

22,722 posts

235 months

Thursday 29th December 2016
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sebulban said:
Rawwr said:
I think it's mostly for two reasons:

1) Most of what you're saying is hilarious
2) You don't realise why it's hilarious
Being mocked by some moron on a PH forum does not exactly make me lose sleep.....

You no doubt find it hilarious due to ignorance.
It's the gift that keeps on giving.