4.5 destroyed today.

[lake]

Sorry to hear such bad news, condolences to all.

Ian

[theguvnr]

please accept our condolences the Ratpac

[stas]

I would like to say thank you , for all your kind words
For the momment the cerby has been parked up for two
weeks.My daughter who is 10, is insisting that i sell
the car . I feel very guilty to drive it for the time
being. What do you do?..

[davidd]

stas said: I would like to say thank you , for all your kind words
For the momment the cerby has been parked up for two
weeks.My daughter who is 10, is insisting that i sell
the car . I feel very guilty to drive it for the time
being. What do you do?..

There is no easy answer to that, you must do what feels right for you and your family. At the end of the day a cerbera is just a car.

D.

[d_drinks]

stas said: I would like to say thank you , for all your kind words
For the momment the cerby has been parked up for two
weeks.My daughter who is 10, is insisting that i sell
the car . I feel very guilty to drive it for the time
being. What do you do?..

no easy answer to that question. I guess that your daughter might be worried about you and losing her father, and or the car is a reminder of your close family friend. Either of these or indeed any other explanation might well be shortlived, is to possible to store the car out of the way so that it is not a reminder to your daughter, then when you feel the time is right Bring the car back out and see how you and your family feel In some cases what once fuelled uneasiness will alter to be a pleasant reminder of what that person stood for. But has already been said this is not an easy decision and one that needs to be made based on what you feel is best.

[jessica]

Your friend would want you to continue to enjoy your car... like he did. we all take risks every day.. and if your car makes your life fun THEN DO IT...We all get one shot at this.

Think How sad your friend would have been if he had died before he has his dream car.

yes i know if maybe he had not bought it he might have lived and not had his crash.
But we have to live for our dreams and hope we have a long and healthy life.

Drive your car in honour of your friend.and every day u drive it think of him ..Then he hasn't died he lives on ..

Hugs Jessicax

[andyvdg]

This is a very difficult time for you. My recommendation is to do nothing. Although it may not seem like it now, you will know when the time is right to make a decision.

Andy.

[ches]

Well said Jessica

[james]

It's only a car. If its presence in your household is causing upset to a family member, get rid of it. There are plenty of other cars around.

James

[Podie]

stas, so sorry to hear the bad news...

>> Edited by Podie on Saturday 7th June 18:53