BB turning into GG/Lounge

BB turning into GG/Lounge

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Fleegle

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16,690 posts

177 months

Monday 24th August 2015
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sc0tt said:
Fleegle said:
dibblecorse said:
Whats happened ?? What did I miss ??
Nothing really. And maybe that's the real issue. It seems to have been samey recently and nearly always ends in personal attacks or angst

No-one has upset me, so not needing a cuddle thanks

I think I'm just a bit bored of BB
It is a bit st, far too much mutal masturbation and ego massaging formy liking.

Fancy a spin out weekend 5th?
Not really. Not that bothered about bimbling about at the weekends. Too many lyrca locusts about for my liking. Also I'm on my bike most days of the week so it's nice to have the break. Also the 5th is when we have to head to Swindon for the bikes holiday in the sun

LoonR1

26,988 posts

178 months

Monday 24th August 2015
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Dog Star said:
I'll stand by a previous observation of mine - it's very very very cliquey in here. That seems to create a lot of arselicking of certain members, and I reckon it's why you're in the st if you upset the "top table".

Certainly puts me off posting in here or even attempting to bother with a NW rideout - not that I could possibly keep up with or ride to the prerequisite standards it would appear.
I'm going to pick this post, because at some point in the not too distant past, you got all offended by something I've written. I can't even remember what it was and tbh don't really care. I could've picked plenty of other posts too, but it's a shame that you avoid NW ride outs as a result of stuff on here.

Just to be clear. I'm blunt on here and I am in real life too. I say it as I see it and if something is BS, then I will call it. However, I'm not angry most of the time. People should stop reading my posts in an angry way, try reading them in a camp Kenneth Williams (if you remember him), or Alan Carr amd you'd see a different meaning to them

As for the "fast rider" stuff, then few people on here are truly fast. I'm not slow, but I'm far from being fast on road or track, but I enjoy having a go at it. A lot of the talk around that is messing about and people need to see that.

I'm also an excellent lover and regularly shag top supermodels.

tvrolet

4,278 posts

283 months

Monday 24th August 2015
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woowahwoo said:
Dog Star said:
I'll stand by a previous observation of mine - it's very very very cliquey in here. That seems to create a lot of arselicking of certain members, and I reckon it's why you're in the st if you upset the "top table".

Certainly puts me off posting in here or even attempting to bother with a NW rideout - not that I could possibly keep up with or ride to the prerequisite standards it would appear.
Probably just jaded long-termers, out to throw their weight around occasionally, and often wearing the rose-tinted spectacles of how good it was back xx years. The backslapping and self-affirmation, often through forming around 'other' groups to complain about, is just typical forum/life stuff, no? See the thread title for exactly that sort of thing.
Agreed. Cliquey as a cliquey place - more so really than any other forum on PH that I've come across...and I say that having been on PH since 2000 - jeez where did 15 years of my life go frown

sc0tt

18,054 posts

202 months

Monday 24th August 2015
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Fleegle said:
sc0tt said:
Fleegle said:
dibblecorse said:
Whats happened ?? What did I miss ??
Nothing really. And maybe that's the real issue. It seems to have been samey recently and nearly always ends in personal attacks or angst

No-one has upset me, so not needing a cuddle thanks

I think I'm just a bit bored of BB
It is a bit st, far too much mutal masturbation and ego massaging formy liking.

Fancy a spin out weekend 5th?
Not really. Not that bothered about bimbling about at the weekends. Too many lyrca locusts about for my liking. Also I'm on my bike most days of the week so it's nice to have the break. Also the 5th is when we have to head to Swindon for the bikes holiday in the sun
Look at your phone

curlie467

7,650 posts

202 months

Monday 24th August 2015
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tvrolet said:
Agreed. Cliquey as a cliquey place - more so really than any other forum on PH that I've come across...and I say that having been on PH since 2000 - jeez where did 15 years of my life go frown
I thought the footie forums were the worst.

I've met a few off of here and have nothing bad to say about any of them.
Reading stuff on a screen can be very easily misinterpreted both in what has been written and how it comes across.

I would happily go on a ride out with anyone from here if I had a roadbike.

wtdoom

3,742 posts

209 months

Monday 24th August 2015
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I love bikes and used to really love BB , I rarely post here now but still enjoy a good lurk .

srob

11,624 posts

239 months

Monday 24th August 2015
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wtdoom said:
I love bikes and used to really love BB , I rarely post here now but still enjoy a good lurk .
Same here

Reardy Mister

13,757 posts

223 months

Monday 24th August 2015
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It's partly because there are some people who will like clockwork show up in every single thread for no other reason than to inform the OP that he/she is lying/inaccurate/a /can't ride for st/knows nothing/has asked a stupid question. And if not the OP then someone else.

PH is open to the whole world. That's a lot of exposure to a lot of people with a vast range of knowledge. Is the intention to single handedly correct them all? Just get a lazy billion people up to speed on the finer points of all things biking? Perhaps they sit up until all hours surrounded by empty red bull cans, hitting refresh to trawl for any inaccuracy or inexperience, smashing out a disparaging comment to leave the OP in no uncertainty as to how crap they are and then recline with their cock in their hand to marvel at their own acerbic wit and superior knowledge. It must be very hard on their keyboards. And cocks.

Of course meeting people in person is always trotted out as the true litmus test for whether someone is "actually a nice guy" or not, as if anything typed on a forum should somehow be inadmissible as pretty good evidence that a person is actually a tool. Maybe fewer people these days are worried about presenting themselves in the first instance as someone anyone would actually want to meet in person(?)

A massive amount of communication decoding by the receiver is in audible and visual cues. The forum only offers smilies to compensate for this gaping hole it has as a means of communication. It's all very well to march around saying things like "I say it how it is" and "people read my stuff too seriously" but just perhaps you're not putting your message across in way that gives those decoding it, much scope for how to interpret it? Ok, the obvious argument is "I don't care how people understand what I say, I know what I mean." In which case, you might just as well post in Swahili and you could easily have the same attitude, only less people would get annoyed or suspect you're an eternally angry man because will no one will know what the hell you're on about anyway. You'll just be the funny African guy.

If people will insist on attempting to police any and all inaccuracy or lack of knowledge in biker banter, fine. A lot of it is pretty useful and knowledge sharing is ultimately what the Internet was invented for. But at least take the trouble to present it in a civilised manner. Unless you're one of the people from paragraph 3, line 4, I suppose. If someone wants to argue what is actual fact, there is still the fall back position of calling them a , which by that stage will be entirely called for.

coffee (Coffee smiley to indicate relaxed, nonchalant tone with no malice intended)




Dog Star

16,145 posts

169 months

Monday 24th August 2015
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Serious point: PH as a community is massive. There must be a huge number of bikers registered.
This sub forum is tiny, with very few regular contributors (which probably makes it look "cliquey" as I said). Why is this?

sc0tt

18,054 posts

202 months

Monday 24th August 2015
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Reardy Mister said:
It's partly because there are some people who will like clockwork show up in every single thread for no other reason than to inform the OP that he/she is lying/inaccurate/a /can't ride for st/knows nothing/has asked a stupid question. And if not the OP then someone else.

PH is open to the whole world. That's a lot of exposure to a lot of people with a vast range of knowledge. Is the intention to single handedly correct them all? Just get a lazy billion people up to speed on the finer points of all things biking? Perhaps they sit up until all hours surrounded by empty red bull cans, hitting refresh to trawl for any inaccuracy or inexperience, smashing out a disparaging comment to leave the OP in no uncertainty as to how crap they are and then recline with their cock in their hand to marvel at their own acerbic wit and superior knowledge. It must be very hard on their keyboards. And cocks.

Of course meeting people in person is always trotted out as the true litmus test for whether someone is "actually a nice guy" or not, as if anything typed on a forum should somehow be inadmissible as pretty good evidence that a person is actually a tool. Maybe fewer people these days are worried about presenting themselves in the first instance as someone anyone would actually want to meet in person(?)

A massive amount of communication decoding by the receiver is in audible and visual cues. The forum only offers smilies to compensate for this gaping hole it has as a means of communication. It's all very well to march around saying things like "I say it how it is" and "people read my stuff too seriously" but just perhaps you're not putting your message across in way that gives those decoding it, much scope for how to interpret it? Ok, the obvious argument is "I don't care how people understand what I say, I know what I mean." In which case, you might just as well post in Swahili and you could easily have the same attitude, only less people would get annoyed or suspect you're an eternally angry man because will no one will know what the hell you're on about anyway. You'll just be the funny African guy.

If people will insist on attempting to police any and all inaccuracy or lack of knowledge in biker banter, fine. A lot of it is pretty useful and knowledge sharing is ultimately what the Internet was invented for. But at least take the trouble to present it in a civilised manner. Unless you're one of the people from paragraph 3, line 4, I suppose. If someone wants to argue what is actual fact, there is still the fall back position of calling them a , which by that stage will be entirely called for.

coffee (Coffee smiley to indicate relaxed, nonchalant tone with no malice intended)
Good post RM.

If i wasn't on my mobile I would have said exactly the same.

Dog Star

16,145 posts

169 months

Monday 24th August 2015
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Reardy Mister said:
It's partly because there are some people who will like clockwork show up in every single thread for no other reason than to inform the O.....<SNIP>
Cracking post; couldn't have put it better myself (certainly not in the bath with a rum and coke on my iPad cool)

dukeboy749r

2,678 posts

211 months

Monday 24th August 2015
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Scott - where on the 5th?

If it's weather like today, no thanks - otherwise, if we are already out and it tanks down, happy days.

hebegb

1,523 posts

148 months

Monday 24th August 2015
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sc0tt said:
Reardy Mister said:
It's partly because there are some people who will like clockwork show up in every single thread for no other reason than to inform the OP that he/she is lying/inaccurate/a /can't ride for st/knows nothing/has asked a stupid question. And if not the OP then someone else.

PH is open to the whole world. That's a lot of exposure to a lot of people with a vast range of knowledge. Is the intention to single handedly correct them all? Just get a lazy billion people up to speed on the finer points of all things biking? Perhaps they sit up until all hours surrounded by empty red bull cans, hitting refresh to trawl for any inaccuracy or inexperience, smashing out a disparaging comment to leave the OP in no uncertainty as to how crap they are and then recline with their cock in their hand to marvel at their own acerbic wit and superior knowledge. It must be very hard on their keyboards. And cocks.

Of course meeting people in person is always trotted out as the true litmus test for whether someone is "actually a nice guy" or not, as if anything typed on a forum should somehow be inadmissible as pretty good evidence that a person is actually a tool. Maybe fewer people these days are worried about presenting themselves in the first instance as someone anyone would actually want to meet in person(?)

A massive amount of communication decoding by the receiver is in audible and visual cues. The forum only offers smilies to compensate for this gaping hole it has as a means of communication. It's all very well to march around saying things like "I say it how it is" and "people read my stuff too seriously" but just perhaps you're not putting your message across in way that gives those decoding it, much scope for how to interpret it? Ok, the obvious argument is "I don't care how people understand what I say, I know what I mean." In which case, you might just as well post in Swahili and you could easily have the same attitude, only less people would get annoyed or suspect you're an eternally angry man because will no one will know what the hell you're on about anyway. You'll just be the funny African guy.

If people will insist on attempting to police any and all inaccuracy or lack of knowledge in biker banter, fine. A lot of it is pretty useful and knowledge sharing is ultimately what the Internet was invented for. But at least take the trouble to present it in a civilised manner. Unless you're one of the people from paragraph 3, line 4, I suppose. If someone wants to argue what is actual fact, there is still the fall back position of calling them a , which by that stage will be entirely called for.

coffee (Coffee smiley to indicate relaxed, nonchalant tone with no malice intended)
Good post RM.

If i wasn't on my mobile I would have said exactly the same.
No you wouldn't Scott, you do not possess that level of eloquence, you total .....oooops , sorry, forgot .....love you really big boy !

Ps very good post RM , very true that tone and sentiment can not always be conveyed in the poster's intended manner , often the case, but perhaps leaving too much to possible " misinterpretation" is the route of many a messy thread ...

Reardy Mister

13,757 posts

223 months

Monday 24th August 2015
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woowahwoo said:
sc0tt said:
Reardy Mister said:
It's partly because there are some people who will like clockwork show up in every single thread for no other reason than to inform the OP that he/she is lying/inaccurate/a /can't ride for st/knows nothing/has asked a stupid question. And if not the OP then someone else.

PH is open to the whole world. That's a lot of exposure to a lot of people with a vast range of knowledge. Is the intention to single handedly correct them all? Just get a lazy billion people up to speed on the finer points of all things biking? Perhaps they sit up until all hours surrounded by empty red bull cans, hitting refresh to trawl for any inaccuracy or inexperience, smashing out a disparaging comment to leave the OP in no uncertainty as to how crap they are and then recline with their cock in their hand to marvel at their own acerbic wit and superior knowledge. It must be very hard on their keyboards. And cocks.

Of course meeting people in person is always trotted out as the true litmus test for whether someone is "actually a nice guy" or not, as if anything typed on a forum should somehow be inadmissible as pretty good evidence that a person is actually a tool. Maybe fewer people these days are worried about presenting themselves in the first instance as someone anyone would actually want to meet in person(?)

A massive amount of communication decoding by the receiver is in audible and visual cues. The forum only offers smilies to compensate for this gaping hole it has as a means of communication. It's all very well to march around saying things like "I say it how it is" and "people read my stuff too seriously" but just perhaps you're not putting your message across in way that gives those decoding it, much scope for how to interpret it? Ok, the obvious argument is "I don't care how people understand what I say, I know what I mean." In which case, you might just as well post in Swahili and you could easily have the same attitude, only less people would get annoyed or suspect you're an eternally angry man because will no one will know what the hell you're on about anyway. You'll just be the funny African guy.

If people will insist on attempting to police any and all inaccuracy or lack of knowledge in biker banter, fine. A lot of it is pretty useful and knowledge sharing is ultimately what the Internet was invented for. But at least take the trouble to present it in a civilised manner. Unless you're one of the people from paragraph 3, line 4, I suppose. If someone wants to argue what is actual fact, there is still the fall back position of calling them a , which by that stage will be entirely called for.

coffee (Coffee smiley to indicate relaxed, nonchalant tone with no malice intended)
Good post RM.

If i wasn't on my mobile I would have said exactly the same.
I got bored by the second paragraph. Summary?
I think it distils to "Reardy appears to have just admitted to imagining men with their cocks in their hands."

hehe

It might need a few tweaks...

LoonR1

26,988 posts

178 months

Monday 24th August 2015
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woowahwoo said:
I got bored by the second paragraph. Summary?
Ready Mister (and DogStar) don't like me, but haven't got the balls to say it explicitly.

Reardy Mister

13,757 posts

223 months

Monday 24th August 2015
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LoonR1 said:
woowahwoo said:
I got bored by the second paragraph. Summary?
Ready Mister (and DogStar) don't like me, but haven't got the balls to say it explicitly.
Not true. I have asked you directly, by name, why you insist on your needlessly aggressive posting style. But I can't say I don't like you because I haven't met you. You may well fall into the bracket of people who are really only aggressive online. Or aren't aggressive at all, just lack the ability or inclination to clarify their tone or intent, in their posts.

I've met PHers, the poor/lazy communicators far outweigh the genuine dicks.

beer






Edited by Reardy Mister on Monday 24th August 21:12

Fleegle

Original Poster:

16,690 posts

177 months

Monday 24th August 2015
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Reardy Mister said:
LoonR1 said:
woowahwoo said:
I got bored by the second paragraph. Summary?
Ready Mister (and DogStar) don't like me, but haven't got the balls to say it explicitly.
Not true. I can (and have) asked you directly, by name, why you insist on your needlessly aggressive posting style. But I can't say I don't like you because I haven't met you. You may well fall into the bracket of people who are really only aggressive online. Or aren't aggressive at all, just lack the ability or inclination to clarify their tone or intent, in their posts.

I've met PHers, the stty communicators far outweigh the genuine dicks.

beer
That sounds like you're declaring undying love

dukeboy749r

2,678 posts

211 months

Monday 24th August 2015
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And Stoner...

Don't forget Stoner.

Although Bayliss getting back on a full GP bike and winning made it (him) for me. Genuinely nice bloke and family too

Reardy Mister

13,757 posts

223 months

Monday 24th August 2015
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Fleegle said:
Reardy Mister said:
LoonR1 said:
woowahwoo said:
I got bored by the second paragraph. Summary?
Ready Mister (and DogStar) don't like me, but haven't got the balls to say it explicitly.
Not true. I can (and have) asked you directly, by name, why you insist on your needlessly aggressive posting style. But I can't say I don't like you because I haven't met you. You may well fall into the bracket of people who are really only aggressive online. Or aren't aggressive at all, just lack the ability or inclination to clarify their tone or intent, in their posts.

I've met PHers, the stty communicators far outweigh the genuine dicks.

beer
That sounds like you're declaring undying love
yikes

If we're ever ing our beer glasses, I'll try to be more succinct. biggrin

ETA: hilarious censorship of . I guess saying " in the armour" is also out then? Oh FFS.


Edited by Reardy Mister on Monday 24th August 21:22

LoonR1

26,988 posts

178 months

Monday 24th August 2015
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Reardy Mister said:
LoonR1 said:
woowahwoo said:
I got bored by the second paragraph. Summary?
Ready Mister (and DogStar) don't like me, but haven't got the balls to say it explicitly.
Not true. I can (and have) asked you directly, by name, why you insist on your needlessly aggressive posting style. But I can't say I don't like you because I haven't met you. You may well fall into the bracket of people who are really only aggressive online. Or aren't aggressive at all, just lack the ability or inclination to clarify their tone or intent, in their posts.

I've met PHers, the stty communicators far outweigh the genuine dicks.

beer
Well that's bizarre. You write a pretty hefty post (with some good points and some less so) and then distance yourself from it straight away. Why?

I'm blunt. I'm blunt in real life. You don't understand that, much as I don't understand people who pussyfoot around a topic. Some of this will be the North vs South thing, some will be who we are and the environment we live / work / socialise in. Personally, I've met quite a few people off here and they will tell you that I'm the same person in the flesh as I am on here. I have flaws, but so what? Nobody's perfect.

What I don't do is bleat on about stuff from months back. There are several posters on here who have effectively turned their back on some potentially good meets due to minor stuff that wouldn't register on my radar, but to them is akin to shagging their wife up the wrong 'un over their bike while they're watching.

I'm not aggressive online, I just type bluntly and then people read it in a shouty way. I've said before, read it in a camp way amd it'll change the time and what you think I'm saying. Read it in a soft Irish accent, or a soft Welsh valleys one the same thing happens. Now read it in a reet Northern twang and it'll sound aggressive, but then all us Northerners sound aggressive to the shy type.